Tere Bin DT#116 (Yumna Zaidi- Wahaj Ali) - Page 63

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Of course meerab is responsible for his awful thinking

He is saint 🙏

Aisa saint Jo sab kuch acha karne ke baad bhi gaaliyan kha Raha Hain aur wo bhi sirf writer ki wajah se. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Earlier all wanted this saint now everyone is in dilemma.

Mai soch rahi hun Akshay jaise dance bhi karne lagun, gaana gaane ke saath. 🤣🤣

Just because we loved TB and believed in NM humara comparison Rakhi Sawant se na kijiye😭 🙏🏽 🤪🤣

Originally posted by: Gigi78752

😭😭😭😭

https://twitter.com/sangotramonika/status/1663968122943197184?s=46

Originally posted by: checky88

if that is NM’s definition of ishq then….. I don’t know what to say …. Really …🙇🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

That woman's definition of maza ayega was MR tu iss ke dictionary bohat different hai.

As deepika said in movie chennai express kahan se khiridi aise bakwas dictionary 🤣

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Mai soch rahi hun Akshay jaise dance bhi karne lagun, gaana gaane ke saath. 🤣🤣

Han shayad isse jaldi khatam ho jaaye TB🤣

Originally posted by: pickachu

Ye show kab khatam hoga?? Geo walon tum logon ke meharbani hoge ka plzzzz end this show😆.

I don't care ka last mrin haya pagal ho jaye aur sab ko maar de.Bas end kar do iss bakwas ko 😆

Needs to get out of the TB land, so I can carry on with my normal life. So here goes my thoughts on today’s episode.

Meerab’s monologue in today’s episode is the highlight of it. If you forget her monologues from the Ep. 47, there are only very few monologues given to these characters, hence it signifies the importance of this one. TBH, this is one of the most sensible one coming from Meerab after the longest time. From the moment her alliance to Murtasim was announced by Ma Begum, everything that happened in her life up until now, are nothing short of chaos. And not once she has paused to think and sort her life, everything that came out from her side were just ‘reactions’ – sometimes violent, impulsive and sometimes senseless even. She agreed to marriage as a reaction to her becoming homeless, she made the contract to preserve whatever of herself that she could, and the list can go on. It seemed that she was getting on with her life, but honestly, she was just going with the flow. Her inability to understand and accept her feelings can also be stemmed from this unstable state of her mind. One needs clarity to make coherent decisions – and Meerab’s has lost the clarity of her mind with the chain of events that has happened in her life.

It is said that we need to learn to ‘unlearn’ – things we learnt for a lifetime should be kept behind and should start anew if one hopes to be atop of the game. It is significant to move forward; learn, then unlearn and again relearn. Meerab needs to refocus her life too. Because what she was put into is not the life that she once believed. She must purge what she already perceived for her life, revisit and reanalyze her priorities and go for a fresh start. She must lose everything she had so far to find the true meaning of her current life, without losing herself – then only she will become the fearless, courageous Meerab we saw in first few episodes – Murtasim’s ‘meri Meerab’

Standing with the idea that ‘there was never MR planned in the story, just a disgusting illusion created to divert the mind of the audience’, with this monologue, it makes perfect sense of why she left. Again, her decision was drastic and impulsive, but exactly what she needed. It also explains why she didn’t want to stay at her adoptive parents’ house. Simple, Murtasim would have come for her. And she didn’t want that to happen. Could she have done this ‘time out’ with any other way? I don’t think so. Taking time out to sort your thoughts and reanalyze life decisions is not a favorable concept in most of conventionally traditional up bringings, so I am not sure she could have done this any other way. And I highly doubt that NM’s audience will understand this thought process of her FL with clarity as well – may be that is why she imposed the fake MR, if then everyone would have easily understood Meerab’s leaving!

There are lot more to say, but my real-life deadlines are beckoning. Lastly coming to the promo, Murtasim saying that it is about his ‘izzat’ – there is nothing new or wrong in it. Isn’t that what he told to his mother after bringing his wife home after the accident fiasco; have not many of us believed his fallen shawl in the previous episode is a representation of his wife and his pride. As Gundamwing beautifully put in one of her posts, his pride and his wife are synonymous for him. And he was always portrayed (from the series teasers) as a man who values his pride the most. Coming to one last thing, though one should not count the chicks before they hatch; Murtasim’s dialogue in the promo does give me jitters. But what I want to remember is that he did mention that his relationship with Meerab is till ‘qayamat’ and he only mention that the ‘ring’ will be Haya’s when he loses the last hope of finding Meerab. I hope against the hope, that he meant only the ‘ring’, but not the hand that put the ring on Meerab’s finger (the title ‘Without You’ has always frightened me, I actually didn’t want to start watching TB because the title. But as Murtasim said, it kept happening and I couldn’t stop myself!).

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

@bold contradicting statements in same sentence 🤣

Understood her wrong means what? She is such type of girl who will go another man at midnight after having sex with husband. That is not thinking low of her character especially after she gave herself to him with consent?

Whether he is thinking she is cheating or not is secondary. The thing that he thought about her like that is enough to show his mindset.

Going to another man at midnight after having sex and fighting with husband doesn't mean it involves cheating.

If it doesn't involve cheating then how is the mindset questionable?

Originally posted by: Neha_J

This is the same guy who told his mother that even if she kills me you cannot behave like this.

How fair is it to only look at things where you think he messed up? How would you react if you were in his place? Knowing that his sister was in danger, knowing that his sisters dignity was in danger.

The fact is Meerab did help Mariyam elope..the fact is she kept quiet throughout instead of coming clean.

Like I said before, rules have to be same for both. You can't just look at intentions when it comes to Meerab and actions/outcome when it comes to Murtasim. That's not fair.

If more than the outcome Mee's intentions matter than the same benefit of doubt needs to be given to him.

Will you blame Mee for Waqas’s death? As his daughter, she would know about his heart condition..but does that mean it was her fault? Nahi na? Same logic.

His kuch matt bolo was wrong but her not listening to him after the hug wasn't? Both the cases had supporting visuals.

The whole point of discussion is he left her because she did a mistake not because he wanted to give her freedom like he taunted

Who is right , who is wrong in mariyum fiasco is unrelated to current discussion.

U mentioned he gave her choice. I said no. He decided by leaving her as punishment to keep his mother's words. He didn't give her choice.

At this point I have a hundred questions in my mind coz absolutely NOTHING makes sense now…but the one question that I really really really need to know is - what was NM smoking when she wrote this?🤔