Tere Bin DT#104 (Yumna Zaidi-Wahaj Ali) Haat Main Haat Rakh Kar - Page 25

Originally posted by: NavyaKavya30

Colored Text. Just came back from a Company dinner . Most of the invitees were my husband’s seniors . Few of the ladies ( all seniors ) were TB watchers but not emotionally attached to it like us , all Murtasum fans though .All on social media ( professionally only ) but not on TB related social media. They were totally unaware of the mayhem caused by the promo . I asked them what they feel about the promo. I was surprised they were quite unaffected by it 😭… they said MR is horrific, it shouldn’t happen to anyone but if it does in the show then they wouldn’t hold it against Murtasum because he went beyond basic feudal nature to support her in every stupid act. They said many other things which I don’t. want to get into…. Basic point is that NM has made ppl fall so much in love with Murtasum that they just see and feel his pain, his efforts…. and Meerab gets the back seat 😭😭…. the percentage of ppl like us is marginal

A person was saying that:

Every human is gray.

Suppose there is a man who always do all the good things and then there is another man who does all the bad things.

But in life this can happen that the good person will make a single dreadful mistake which will be heavy on all the good things he did.

And the bad person's one pleasent good work will be bigger than all the bad things he did.

With this, personally for me MR is a very big cruel thing and old KMK will be dead for me if it happens.

Originally posted by: FireSafireFiree

To all Muslim friends you guys may be more knowledgable:

what does Islam say?

What is girl’s identity after marriage?

bcs we r not allowed to change out fathers name.

We will be called by our father and mothers name on the day of judgement.

So who has more power?

I guess parents until they die?

Maa ka naam se qayamath ka din bolayein ge.

Father's name is necessary because of bloodline.

Talaq ka baad bhi idat bloodline ko determine karne ka liye hai for the women.

Ofcourse parents r very important.Iss liye baar baar Islam mein parents ke importance ka zikar hai.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hola Amigos, congratulations on the yet another new thread Guys, I have given a lot of thought and considering the story, title, OST from episode 1 there's 2 possibilities for the plot ahead.

1.No MR promo is misleading, still meerasim have some confrontation and meerab confession resulting in them becoming one, only for something triggering a break out and meerab walking away after her failed attempts at dissuading murtasim from doing some irrational act. Him not listening to her pleading triggers their separation.

2.Murtasim commits MR on meerab and in the spur of the moment the rebel in Meerab provokes her to leave Murtasim. Only for her to realise she can't live without Murtasim, as a result she forgives murtasim and they eventually unite.

The reasons supporting MR, remember he's never slapped any woman but he did slap meerab, then Haya reminded him "you have done it first time in your life that too the one you're going to marry" he never eats something touched by others, but she spits on him and he still tolerates. In episode1, he fights with MZ for the izzath of women, IMO meerab's the only woman he's misbehaved. So for him, living with her is not adhering to his family values and the awareness of his moral trangression.

Similarly Meerab talks about women empowerment, rights and fighting for the rights and justice etc only to be disrespected by one person ie;murtasim will she forget him for his mistake or forgive him and live with him because she can't live without him. For her it's living with her perpetrator against her most cherished beliefs.

They both do it because they can't live without the other justifies the title TERE BIN, the OST of bewafai and all lyrics fit well in this scenario because the can't leave each other despite of bewafai, there's no bigger mistake in their case, because both are culprits for each other's misery and at fault in provoking the animal out of the other.

Remember unfortunately rape is a moral transgression committed usually in haste and can cause the perpetrator drown in shame after the act and enabling murtasim in this case to divorce meerab like in "Gone with the wind" kind of scenario.

I'm neither supporting nor opposing but analysed from the POV of NM because this is the story of 2 intense people who got entangled in such a mess that its's literally impossible for either of them to live without the other. The love of murtasim for meerab can be seen from episode 11 where he tactfully defends her insulting act of dancing 💃 in wedding function, by doing nazar-utaar, but we are yet to see the love of meerab for him, that comes when she forgives him for such a big sin of his if not MR something else on an equal level.

All of this leaves with a question 😕 why is MK called non-toxic by every cast member of TB despite MR or SA yet to be known.

I appreciate your opinions on this all of you spare me your brickbats I could write ✍️ only what I can think and understand.

I think theres in no MR.

1- There will be confrontation, emotional outbursts between them. But not sure whtr they will have confession n consummation now. This outburst will cause murtu to leave and Haya will come and try to instigate meeru. But meeru gives it back to her and doesnt leave.

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hi even I'm in that speculative mode like you all going on MR no MR wala thought process, but felt like sharing my thoughts with you all, MR with no due respect I will wrap up the show, no MR deep sigh of relief and continue rooting for Meerasim

I consider myself as very pragmatic and balanced hence couldn't get into taking sides or being judgemental about people or even fictional characters.

My experience with TV serials, is also very limited so can't think beyond whatever I have mentioned before.

Originally posted by: CherryOnTheTop

May be she meant a lot of things are going on MK mind, it’s all building up and this build may turn into a blast if triggered.

Originally posted by: Moonks

It’s not about he knows or not, it’s all about his insecurities, he is so insecure in his relationship that he has reached at a point where even if Meerub confessed he will have a hard time accepting it

Yes I agree....now he will believe only when meerab confesses and sleeps with him !!! The second part is very important for murtasim......he is a guy afterall....

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Hi even I'm in that speculative mode like you all going on MR no MR wala thought process, but felt like sharing my thoughts with you all, MR with no due respect I will wrap up the show, no MR deep sigh of relief and continue rooting for Meerasim

I consider myself as very pragmatic and balanced hence couldn't get into taking sides or being judgemental about people or even fictional characters.

My experience with TV serials, is also very limited so can't think beyond whatever I have mentioned before.

🤣🤣

My brain is fried rn.

I just want this to end.

Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

The thing is MURTASIM KNOWS MEERUB LOVES HIM

She isn't just saying it

Didn't he tell her HUMAARI MOHABBAT KI KASAM after watching the video

He didn't say MERI MOHABBAT

He does.

He understood she loves him long back & but not accepting him

He said to haya, she too loves him

Recently too when she asked him she can't love him right.

He understood she fell in love.

Especially the magzine scene where he caught her checking out him

Post that incident he started teasing her because he was confident she loves him.

Originally posted by: ABBY_JERAN

The way nothing can justify murtasim forcing himself on her

The same way NOTHING can justify what meerub did to murtasim knowing haaya and his relationship so well

Plz don't try to defend meerub here

She was an unnecessarily doubtful and disrespectful wife which I would say a character assassination of meerub too by the writer

Murtasam is right from his POV

if Haya wasn’t there then both probably would have made up.

however nothing like that happened.

MU was created and meerab was jealous and mad so she went crazy. Pushing murtasam.

her action is justifiable

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla

What did hira mean by no reaction from mk when she told mb that meerub loves mk?

I didn’t even think it was that big of a deal but ab 😵‍💫