GHKPM WU & daily discussion thread #115 - Page 34

Originally posted by: Jyrubina

Sai also have ego problem and this time she is responsible for her both children's dream of happy family is broken she never try to counsel vinu and she never did anything except living in CN after bomb blast vinu is normal with her even she is responsible for that bomb blast then why she enter CN his ex husband house after knowing he still have feeling she give hope to virat his family live with him if she not come to CN Virat is ok with 2 family

THERE WAS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE A HAPPY FAMILY

for Sai Virat because Virat is an abusive man

Sai going back to virat would have only created more unsafe environment for these children

Sai moving into to live in CN for her son

She made it clear to virat watch the episode

She told him she will leave once Vinu is no longer scared of her and Virat agreed

Now if Virat is misogynist and think he owns women around him and he is soo egoistic and entitied that he couldn't take NO for an answer from a women

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

THERE WAS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE A HAPPY FAMILY

for Sai Virat because Virat is an abusive man

Sai going back to virat would have only created more unsafe environment for these children

Sai moving into live I'm CN for her son

She made it clear to virat watch the episode

She told him she will leave once Vinu is no longer scared of her and Virat agreed

Now if Virat is misogynist and thunk he owns womenaround him and he is soo egoistic and entitied that he couldn't take NO for an answer from a women

If Virat can’t decide what she does how can she is free to decide for Virat. Virat asked P for divorce. He told Sai he would whether or not Sai agrees to marry him. P finally thought of her self respect & left. Who is Sai to promise Vinu his happy family? She is not part of it. So what right she or Ash has to get mad at BK to think parents with their kids is happy family & work towards it?

And Vinu’s family was also not happy family.

Sai didn’t refuse Virat’s proposal because she is not in love with him or doesn’t think he is good father for Savi or is abusive. Actually with her current action & thought I don’t even know how she can justify her leaving CN with Vinu? P hadn’t done any harm to Vinu. In fact now the state Vinu is in is because of p’s upbringing. His disability is as per Sai from his psychological problems. They improved by being with Sai & Savi. Then how did Sai concluded that Vinu’s best interest was in leaving him with p rather than getting child psychologist or psychiatrist to make him understand situation. Him blocking the fact that Sai his mother & not addressing it is a red flag.

so why doesn’t she admit that her decision 8 years ago was for her self respect & so is it now. She is putting that before her kids interest. Otherwise why would she say she will leave once Vinu doesn’t think she is evil. So she is more concerned about his & societies perception about her than what’s good for Vinu in the long run.

I know virat didn’t think of his kids but if you look from Vinu’s best long term interest was Sai dealing with his issues making him understand that he can’t force his parents be together esp if his father is not happy & nice to his mother.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

THERE WAS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE A HAPPY FAMILY

for Sai Virat because Virat is an abusive man

Sai going back to virat would have only created more unsafe environment for these children

Sai moving into to live in CN for her son

She made it clear to virat watch the episode

She told him she will leave once Vinu is no longer scared of her and Virat agreed

Now if Virat is misogynist and think he owns women around him and he is soo egoistic and entitied that he couldn't take NO for an answer from a women

(Ex-) Husband doesn't get a happy family by just demading that his (ex-) wife give it to him...

You want a happy family? how about to build it together with your current partner?

How about beign honest? being supportive? not choosing a lliteral criminal over you wife and son?

Originally posted by: LadyD

If Virat can’t decide what she does how can she is free to decide for Virat. Virat asked P for divorce. He told Sai he would whether or not Sai agrees to marry him. P finally thought of her self respect & left. Who is Sai to promise Vinu his happy family? She is not part of it. So what right she as to get mad at BK to think parents with their kids is happy family & work towards it?

First of all it was Pakhi that put this idea that Sai is the pari

Who solve all Vinu problem

These all things happened because Virta isn't man enough to tell his own son the truth

That Sai is his real mother

Sai promised Vinu that his family won't break because of her

She promised that she will try to bring vinu's mother back

Where did she said that Virat have to marry pakhi or he can't divorce Pakhi

Divorcing Virat doesn't mean Pakhi have to abandon vinu like that

Atleast Pakhi should have told vinu the truth in away because she has soo much influence on Vinu

Or Virat should have taken a stand long back for Sai

And forced Pakhi to tell vinu the truth

Lol but that virat the mcp 🤣 what I'm expecting from him

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

First of all it was Pakhi that put this idea that Sai is the pari

Who solve all Vinu problem

These all things happened because Virta isn't man enough to tell his own son the truth

That Sai is his real mother

Sai promised Vinu that his family won't break because of her

She promised that she will try to bring vinu's mother back

Where did she said that Virat have to marry pakhi or he can't divorce Pakhi

Divorcing Virat doesn't mean Pakhi have to abandon vinu like that

Atleast Pakhi should have told vinu the truth in away because she has soo much influence on Vinu

Or Virat should have taken a stand long back for Sai

And forced Pakhi to tell vinu the truth

Lol but that virat the mcp 🤣 what I'm expecting from him

Some people behaving as if Virat would have kicked out Pakhi after marrying Sai. 🤪 He was going to keep her in his house as Vinu's aai. So it is not like Sai is putting a knife on Virat and asking him keep Pakhi at CN. 🤪 Sort of things people come up with to question Sai.

Originally posted by: LadyD

If Virat can’t decide what she does how can she is free to decide for Virat. Virat asked P for divorce. He told Sai he would whether or not Sai agrees to marry him. P finally thought of her self respect & left. Who is Sai to promise Vinu his happy family? She is not part of it. So what right she or Ash has to get mad at BK to think parents with their kids is happy family & work towards it?

Sai is not thinking about Virat's married/divorced life. She said clearly she wants to bring pakhi for her son and not for Virat. Her intention is to bring pakhi back to vinu so that he could get better. The way pakhi left has impacted vinu. Instead of writing a letter, if pakhi had 1-1 conversation with vinu, he wouldn't be so affected or maybe he would have affected in the same way but then pakhi would be dealing with it.

Once pakhi comes back, Virat and pakhi can still remain divorced but they can co parent vinu like Virat and Sai are doing in case of Savi because the truth is vinu consider pakhi as his mumma and not Sai.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

First of all it was Pakhi that put this idea that Sai is the pari

Who solve all Vinu problem

These all things happened because Virta isn't man enough to tell his own son the truth

That Sai is his real mother

Sai promised Vinu that his family won't break because of her

She promised that she will try to bring vinu's mother back

Where did she said that Virat have to marry pakhi or he can't divorce Pakhi

Divorcing Virat doesn't mean Pakhi have to abandon vinu like that

Atleast Pakhi should have told vinu the truth in away because she has soo much influence on Vinu

Or Virat should have taken a stand long back for Sai

And forced Pakhi to tell vinu the truth

Lol but that virat the mcp 🤣 what I'm expecting from him

@bold: exactly. Sai is not asking VP to get married again...she wants P to be back for her son. Rest VP can decide to co parent vinu like divorced couple.

Originally posted by: deepzz

Sai is not thinking about Virat's married/divorced life. She said clearly she wants to bring pakhi for her son and not for Virat. Her intention is to bring pakhi back to vinu so that he could get better. The way pakhi left has impacted vinu. Instead of writing a letter, if pakhi had 1-1 conversation with vinu, he wouldn't be so affected or maybe he would have affected in the same way but then pakhi would be dealing with it.

Once pakhi comes back, Virat and pakhi can still remain divorced but they can co parent vinu like Virat and Sai are doing in case of Savi because the truth is vinu consider pakhi as his mumma and not Sai.

I feel bad for the kids ... whatever the situations are now or gonna be later ...

Kids are the one to suffer ...🥺... Bade sirf naam ke hai ... CN mein...

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

First of all it was Pakhi that put this idea that Sai is the pari

Who solve all Vinu problem

These all things happened because Virta isn't man enough to tell his own son the truth

That Sai is his real mother

Sai promised Vinu that his family won't break because of her

She promised that she will try to bring vinu's mother back

Where did she said that Virat have to marry pakhi or he can't divorce Pakhi

Divorcing Virat doesn't mean Pakhi have to abandon vinu like that

Atleast Pakhi should have told vinu the truth in away because she has soo much influence on Vinu

Or Virat should have taken a stand long back for Sai

And forced Pakhi to tell vinu the truth

Lol but that virat the mcp 🤣 what I'm expecting from him

Sai promised Vinu she will give him his happy family & she will fix his family. She said in her ad that P’s family wants her back without asking one important member Virat.

Two wrongs in this case three don’t make it right. Sai too didn’t do anything to stress that she is Vinu’s biological mother. Vinu has stopped listening to Virat but has started to listen to Sai. Sai claims to act now as Virat is not doing the job, then she has to do it right accepting Virat won’t. When it’s your kid you don’t play blame game you step up

agreeing that Sai is wrong doesn’t make Virat right. Both can be wrong. In this case they are

Originally posted by: deepzz

Sai is not thinking about Virat's married/divorced life. She said clearly she wants to bring pakhi for her son and not for Virat. Her intention is to bring pakhi back to vinu so that he could get better. The way pakhi left has impacted vinu. Instead of writing a letter, if pakhi had 1-1 conversation with vinu, he wouldn't be so affected or maybe he would have affected in the same way but then pakhi would be dealing with it.

Once pakhi comes back, Virat and pakhi can still remain divorced but they can co parent vinu like Virat and Sai are doing in case of Savi because the truth is vinu consider pakhi as his mumma and not Sai.

P left on her own will not thinking about Vinu or effect of her departure. Who is Sai to bring her back? If Sai does something it’s right & when P does it’s wrong? P works in Santra business, Vinu’s condition gets dicey if V P don’t pretend to be happy couple. Way to fix is therapy for Vinu by a third unbiased person. Not Sai giving false promises & assuming to control another adult