Unpopular opinion - Sai is a horrible mother - Page 2

Originally posted by: Shvets84

Sai may be a feminist but she only thinks what is best for her (getting away from Viraat etc) Which mother would marry a guy without thinking of her daughter once? What is better for Savi - living with a family who clearly does not want her there and have barely accepted the mom OR live with her grand parents and brother and have a normal upbringing? I am not saying she should have got back with Viraat but def should not have rushed into marriage with a guy and forced her daughter to accept the living situation. Is sai even ready to take on responsibilities of a wife and bahu while her two kids suffer?

Translation : why didn't she choose to stay with an abusive man who begrudges his daughter's happiness even for the happiness of her children

Like stated earlier certainly not suggesting she go back to Viraat. Point I am making is she RUSHED into a marriage to get away from Viraat not thinking of her daughter once. Ofcourse she should marry a loving man with a family accepting of her children and understanding her responsibilities as a mother. The reason behind her marrying another man is very selfish and foolish, which is to get away from Viraat. She could have chosen to wait to marry for love and provided a loving family and nurturing environment for her daughter. She could have had joint custody of her kids with Viraat. With the family she married into, she is not even ALLOWED to visit her son.

Okay..,you lost me at normal upbringing. Firstly, I don't know if this is possible in CN and secondly, what is the definition of normal.

Originally posted by: msin

It is not an unpopular opinion … its a fair enough.. one .. I feel Sai is doing the same thing with Virat n Chavans what patralekha did with her .. Patralekha tried keeping baby Vinayak away from her .. ( and Virat and Chavan family stupidly supported her as Vinayak was an infant ) .. she kept Savi away from her father n grandparents.. assuming she can give her a better parvarish..Virat n patralekha adopted Vinayak without knowing his reality.... Today Vinayak is refusing to accept Sai is his real mother as he is attached to his adopted mother who brought him up .. Sai has started doing the same mistake .. she is letting Savi get attached to Satya .. telling her she can’t live with her real father .. and family ..Savi is a small girl .. what if after 2 months she starts having the same real father vibes from Satya ( fairly natural ) he’s. A nice guy and tells her own father police uncle ..How is Sai different from Patralekha..Patralekha did it when she had given birth to Vinayak .. as a surrogate .. yaha toh sai ne satya ( who wants a real family .. free pass de diya hai ) isn’t it being unfair to Savi n Virat .. How is Sai different from patralekha ..People want Vinayak to accept Sai as his aai and in the same coin want Savi to forget that she has a baba … .. why the duplicity

Virat is same as Pakhi. Virat is gonna get his karma through Savi for what he did to Sai in regards with Vinayak!

Baaki sab toh theek hai but Normal upbringing at Chavan House 🤣🤣

Virat's the best father! Who prioritised his pyaari cheez even over his kids. And who told you Sai is a feminist? And family accepted Savi? Really who except Ninad? BK accepted Savi only due to Vinayak not out of acceptance. Adhikaris treating Savi 100% times better than the treatment Savi got staying in CN or when they came to know of Savi being VC ka daughter. They all were concerned only about Pakhi. Looks like we've been watching something else in the show. What should Sai do then live with Savi inside the house while Virat is married to Pakhi just so Savi is with her so-called family?

Also, what did best father do when his pyaari cheez said she hates his daughter & made her cry in her own house!

And when will Sai get karma … Vinayak would have been living in an orphanage.. .. if patralekha had not adopted him. .. she never knew it is the same kid .. she had given birth as a surrogate.. she felt the pangs of motherhood for him when he was lame .. he was always a weapon for her to get attached to Virat .. but she also got attached to him and somehow Vinayak got the Vibe and that’s why calls her mumma .. it was misused by patralekha no questions about it .. but a lot of affection was genuine at the beginning..

Sai and Virat would have assumed that Vinayak was dead .. and virat would have never known about Savi too because sai never bothered to tell him about her ..

Today Vinayak is crying about his mother so Sai put an advertisement in paper ( she is now Adhikari .. why did she enter the Chavan family matter space .. to put an advertisement for Virat’s missing wife .. virat was searching for get through police sources .. who gave her the authority to decide that Virat is not in correct frame of mind .. is she ninad or is she bhavani Chavan ..

Why is an outsider Sai interfering in Chavan family matters.

Vinayak is crying for his mother for 2-3 days so Virat became a bad father ( the child he adopted from an orphanage without knowing his real identity) but Savi was writing in trees for a year baba kab aaoge .. there have been multiple episodes where Savi was begging her mom to tell her when he dad will come .. tab Savi ka pain nahi dekha .. then sai is a responsible mother ..

I don’t want Sai and virat to stay together they are much happier and more settled with other partners .. but atleast stop interfering in each other ka private space ..

How can Sai ask Virat to stay away from her husband n her family when Virat is doing it on behalf of his daughter Savi ..

when Sai herself is imposing on Chavan private matters .. posting about patralekha because she claims Vinayak is her son …

And Savi came first in her class because she was living with her real father the Chavans .. don’t you remember Sai n Savi shifted there .. and Sai used to be busy in hospital work And bhavani , Ashwini even patralekha were spending time with her .. 2 days of living in adhikari household cannot take credit ..

Both Sai and virat are unworthy … to put it politely .. and they are not doing any favours to both their kids ..

Yes measure the actions of Sai and Virat with same yardstick na. Why does one get a free pass and the other one doesn't?

I have always said this Sai the worst mother Virat the Mahan baap end of discussion😈

Sai got her karma, when Vinu called her a witch, is getting her karma,when Vinu denies to accept her as his mother, when he keeps calling the woman who created havoc in her life . 😊 what more than seeing your own child call you an aunty and other woman who snatched the kid away from you once, as his mumma.