Originally posted by: Moonks
I will say this that we need to stop expecting that only Murtasim will make efforts in their marriage, that he is a God because he is not, we should not jump to conclusions in his case and we should try to understand his feelings like we do with Meerub, if Meerubās every act can be excused in the name of it being her shield from the pain and trauma, we should give the same treatment to Murtasim as well. He too feels pain, anger and he also gets hurt like every human out there.
I am not saying that his actions were right but I understands where he is coming from.
You are right, the guy feels betrayed!!! Just how when meerab helped maryam eloped, her intentions were right but actions were wrong!!
Same here with murtasim, his action is wrong but intentions were right. He is probably the one HURTING the most in all this!!!! He let go of the one thing that matters the MOST to him and thats HER.
She never wanted him or his love so his plan was to LOVE her until she gives in!!! But he let her go and set her free, what she had always wanted!!! She doesnt want it anymore and she will realize it too!!!
Like many said, i also want meerab to show efforts!! She needs to want him as much as he wants her ā¤ļø
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