Originally posted by: mahiaana
Very long post alert ⚠️ 📢
Meerub even after that confession helped maryum with this shitty plan!!!! 👏this just made all this worst and unbearable in many more ways!!!!! 😫
So To all those people saying Marium had been planning to elope before M even knew anything, she would’ve done it anyway.
Okay chalo mana she would have done it on her own, without Meerub’s help the same thing would happen!
But but but..... meerub ki involvement ho chuki hein!!!!! So yeh sab kehna ab bekar hein!
Chalo dekhte hein meerub kaise yeh rok sakti ! But roka nahi! And uski involvement mei jeyada kya bigaar gaya!
Well aao start kare 🤪
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She could have informed murtasim about maryum's plan! She stopped her and asked for some times, even made a stupid wada! She had plenty of times in hand informing this to him but she didn't! She chose to ignore it! For whom??? That anas and maryum???
Areh islaam bhi kehta hein after maa baap, your spouse comes first! Sabse pehle spouse ka izzat ka maan rakho phir baad mei baki dekh lena!
Why only islam! Isn't that how it supposed to be?? Thinking about your own partner's well being first! Even tho maryum is his own sister, he himselt told her "maryum ko nikalo, usko humare bich nah aney do"
What does this mean??? Give your attention on me first! Make me your first priority then go for others ( maryum) joh bhi humare bich aye usko side mei rakho!
Yeh gaya ek point ! Lets dive into next one!
Your sister betrayed your trust your love, your upbringing, YOU. ( ONE PERSON)
You own biwi helped your sister with her stupid plan! That biwi who meant the world to you! And you told her this many time! That biwi from whom you asked "sambhal lena khudko and mujhko" ! The first ever person to whom you ask for sahara! That biwi who's became your first priority, and even she understands this! For whom you went against your beliefs, family, thoughts everything!
The one that means everything to you now, the one you almost begged and confessed ( right before the eloping kaand) saying "sambhal lena" and all! You trusted her with all your beings!!!
That person! That biwi betrayed you too . ( 2 person)
1 ka betrayal mano kafi nahi tha dard dene ke liye.....they doubled the pain with adding another person! 2 person at a time from his family, his sister and his jaan betrayed him!
And in between this 2 person! Meerub's betrayal will hard more harshly than Maryum's betrayal !
Now imagine the pain murtasim will feel! The harsh slap of betrayal he will go through ! What will he answer to his family his mother???jiske against woh itne dafa chala gaya just for biwi!
His own wife helped his sister in this! Ghar ki ek izzat ne dusri izzat ki janaza nikal ne mei madad kar di???
( ladke bhi izzat hotey hein. Don't start calling me sexist. Call meerub stupid!!! )
Meerub even after that confession from murtasim helped maryum! Iske baad woh bata sakti thi murtasim ko tumhari behen yeh soch rahi hein kuch karo!
She helped her even tho she herself understood "yeh sahi nahi hein" still she did this!
Areh kisika nahi toh khudka hi sun leti "yeh sahi nahi hein" yehi sun leti meerub!
She helped her with this eloping even after she herself said this 2-3 times "murtasim jhoot nahi bol sakta"
toh kya fayda huya iska??? Yeh aise trust ka kya fayda?????
She clearly had 2 option in her hand!
Maryum ko diya vs murtasim Ka bharosha
Maryum the duffer nanand And her 2 days ashiq! Vs Murtasim the guy, the sohar, jisne uske liye apne jaan ki baji se leke jo bas mei aya sab kar diya!
and and and 🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁
Our meerub baji chose her wada ( ego, I'm always right attitude) over her husband's trust on her ! 👏
So to all those agar meerub nah bhi hoti toh bhi maryum bhagti! Meerub ki hone se kya fark ho gaya jeyada, phir bhi toh hona hi tha!!!
JEYADA NAHI BOHUT JEYADA hi FARK par gaya! Her involvement in it has made it 100× worst for murtasim! Murtasim ne jis ek insaan par trust rakha sabse jeyada, jisko sabke upar rakha, apni gairat se upar rakha ussi ne usko ek dhakke se gira diya !
It was a test for her....and she failed! Yeh sab ruk sakti thi bas ek bar apne sohar par trust karke usse plan bata dete maryum ki! But SHE DIDN'T! AND THAT'S HER MISTAKE!
SHE HELPED A GIRL ELOPED AT MIDDLE OF NIGHT WITHOUT MUCH INFORMATION OF THE GUY! THATS MISTAKE! HER HELPING MARYUM IN IT IS A WHOLE MISTAKE! NO NEEDS FOR JUSTIFICATION WHY ITS A MISTAKE! Coz THIS IS WHAT IT IS, ITS A MISTAKE! HER EVEN LOTS OF WARNING FROM MURTASIM STILL GOING AHEAD WITH THIS STUPIDITY IS MISTAKE!
Meerub : maryum, haya and anas all of them are equally wrong in this! Which kinda sensible person would help a girl elope that too who has been shown as progressive, intelligent, ambitious, studious !!
Maryum - Eloping and she loved and trusted the wrong person over her own brother and family
Anas/Mz for planning this GHATIYA plan! Trapping a poor girl by this trick!
Meerub :- well here it is! Khun karne wala , and khun karna galat hein janke bhi khun mei madad karne wala bhi utna hi galat hein!
Haya :- well that bitch! Sab kuch janke bhi kutta pan kar gayi! Most disgusting. Same line for her! khun karne wala, and janke na batane wala same!
Just to add:
Exactly. This is khan Murtasim khan we are talking about. He is the gaddi nasheen. The strong one. The sher beta. The one who single-handedly bears all zimmedaris on his shoulders.
When MK said "apne aapko or mujhe sambhal lena" he is telling her he is not as strong as everyone makes him out...that he needs her support and sahara. For a man like MK to expose his vulnerability and ask for her sahara is a BIG deal.
Yet she turns around and betrays him (Murtasim ka bharam tod dala aur bewafai karke dikhadee - also the OST lines that played during the confession).
I think her tears when Murtasim confessed were (at least partly) for herself. She already knew she was going to betray him. That is why she never responds to his pain and confession.
In contrast, in E20, we saw her respond to his pain and first emotional confession (tumhe bachata nahin to zinda kaise reh paata) by touching his hand (in addition to crying). In E39, we see a similar emotional confession from Murtasim but Merub was colder now than in E20. I think she already knew she was going to betray him so did not show any empathy (she did not touch him like in E20, her eyes were also harder now whereas they were softer in E20, nor did she say or do anything else).
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