TERE BIN - Yumna Zaidi - Wahaj Ali DT# 65 "Ab Bure bhi Nahi Lagte" - Page 47

Originally posted by: pressu

Teaching does not always involve oral teaching. Children observe their parents, friends and the neighbors and learn things from them. Even though the people are not teaching them directly but they are indirectly teaching them through their actions. Elders may not be teaching them in words but they are indirectly teaching the children through their actions.

Originally posted by: Moonks

It is not Adapting it’s her responsibilities, if she wasn’t married and would do these things as a family member then also would you call it adapting?? By adapting, I mean to keep her mind open to all the situations, to everyone’s pov, I don’t know how to explain it, but my views of adapting is not limited to one’s adaptation to their surroundings or changing their lifestyle, I am talking about opening our minds to someone else’s opinions, thought process, and accepting that just like our view they too hold importance, they are right and wrong should not be the first concern but accepting that it’s okay if they exist, if people like them exists, just like we have a right to feel what we believe they should have that right as well

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Just this morning I saw PH tweet saying murtasim giving unconditional support to meerab

I wanna know what did meerab benefit from that unconditional support

Him doing basic thing like considering his sister's wish in her marriage by his wife's persistence is unconditional support

Neither channel, pH, nor fans said anything about meerab's unconditional support to mariyum despite facing hurdles.

But if murtasim even considers meerab wish of considering his sister's wish. It becomes unconditional support

If a girl does it, it's her duty

If a man does it, then it's his unconditional support.

Meerab is definitely supportive of Maryam and in reality the fandom is actually pissed with Meerab's hot and cold attitude with Murtasim. Kumuda never mind but when our parents fullfil their duty, we as children always refer them as supportive parents, because the word support is a term of appreciation in many aspects. Now should we take our parents love, respect and efforts for granted and give no appreciation in return?

Originally posted by: Moonks

No she should not but she should understand from where they are coming for you, for us, for her they are wrong but what about them? Did you tried to understand their situation, did she? You don’t know how their societies works, it is easy to say ignore people but how would you do that when you are 24*7 surrounded by those people. Meerub doesn’t go and sit with those people who passed rude judgements, she would never listen to those comments, she won’t ever be questioned but KMK and his mother would be? I don’t know how to explain it when you are not ready to understand what I am trying to say, everything is not about right and wrong, there are different realities of this world, some are beautiful and some are ugly.

If MB can pass judgements about someone's upbringing then she can very well receive the taunts for not doing forced marriage to her daughter.

By this logic even zubair thoughts also should be respected no? After all that is how his society works too.

Excited for today's episode. Bohat sare discussion hogi 4 episode wow 👏 busy week 🤣

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

WHEN TB WAS AT THE HEIGHT OF ITS POWERS

https://twitter.com/starflies_love_/status/1645094270532198400?s=20

Where is this murtasim gone.

Kyaa din thii bhi nah woh

Hayee kitna flirt karta thaa

Originally posted by: Gundamwing

Aap itna kyun stress mad worry feeling

Just remember one thing

YOU WILL SEE NOTHING

Anyways not having sex is their least important problem

I only want Murtu to get on the bed, his back is killing him

Their chemistry is soooo hot , sizzling hot ki kuch na dikha kar bhi bahut hot and sizzling hoga 🤪… when pillow and coat throwing can appear sensual then when it actually happens toh hot toh hoga hi🤪

Originally posted by: Moonks

I think you missed the point I was trying to convey, you all were talking about shifting the blame but you did the same as soon as you got the chance you shifted it on the other generation, girls these days have all the means to learn, there is a good and bad side to everything if they chose bad side it’s not the fault of their mothers. Sometimes, I feel so bad for our parent’s generation just because they don’t hold our values they are blamed for every wrong, we all wants them to understand what we feels but never tries to understand what they feels, they were not mean when they came into this world they were forced to be like this.

I am saying that teaching does not always involve oral teaching. And children learn from their parents when they observe their actions. It does not mean that our parents generation are doing right or wrong. Because they are also conditioned like that, they also learnt it from their previous generation. I feel that most of a child's thinking is shaped especially core values by their parents directly or indirectly. Some children will start thinking differently and start questioning whether what they learned was right or not. It happens because of the education and life experiences. The child who doesn't have the education and life experiences will just believe what they learned was true.

Not everyone blames their parents for every wrong. Children also understand their parents when they grow and experience life. Here I am expressing my point of view.

Originally posted by: Moonks

No she should not but she should understand from where they are coming for you, for us, for her they are wrong but what about them? Did you tried to understand their situation, did she? You don’t know how their societies works, it is easy to say ignore people but how would you do that when you are 24*7 surrounded by those people. Meerub doesn’t go and sit with those people who passed rude judgements, she would never listen to those comments, she won’t ever be questioned but KMK and his mother would be? I don’t know how to explain it when you are not ready to understand what I am trying to say, everything is not about right and wrong, there are different realities of this world, some are beautiful and some are ugly.

Bold …. Wow !! Another standing ovation !!

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

She should care about what MB and murtasim face for not doing forced marriage to their house daughter or should understand their's izzat will be gone if mariyum does marriage outside of their kandan so she should let mariyum face forced marriage?

If MB can pass judgements about someone's upbringing then she can very well receive the taunts for not doing forced marriage to her daughter.

By this logic even zubair thoughts also should be respected no? After all that is how his society works too.