Ak worries for the worst : Epi Air Date 23 April 2023 - Page 32

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

who is he?😆

I think the great Riff Raff Arif Sheikh one of the trio who are the inspiration behind your Ultra Genius pro max washing machine 👨‍🦲 the other two are 🧔🧔‍♂️

I apologize if someone else has already answered this question

Originally posted by: India_TV

u mean makers literally think v r bewakoofs??? and still can get this trp...sorry i m nt much aware about this trp...but from the talks it seems like a weekly report card..😂

Anything can be done in ITV for TRPs.

And the TRP Aunties as most people like to refer to them as such all they do is by habit turn on the TV and let the show run on their sets. If it is interesting they may sit and watch if it isn't they go about doing chores or whatever. But that TV is just left on.

They don't think too much about logic. They don't analyze who said what, when, where, why. They just go okay. This is the lead couple, how are they going to get together, how will they got married, ah it is their first fight, the first separation happened, how are they going to get back together, oh they got back together, now second separation is happening, they had a kid, female lead hide the child, when is the child's truth going to come out, etc.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

then it's a open ended they can show anything to redeem abhi 🤣 they can even show he was in comma as i have written in my OS🤣

The Makers could solve all this by having it be someone's very bad dream 🤣

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

I think the great Riff Raff Arif Sheikh one of the trio who are the inspiration behind your Ultra Genius pro max washing machine 👨‍🦲 the other two are 🧔🧔‍♂️

I apologize if someone else has already answered this question

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The Makers could solve all this by having it be someone's very bad dream 🤣

Originally posted by: India_TV

u mean makers literally think v r bewakoofs??? and still can get this trp...sorry i m nt much aware about this trp...but from the talks it seems like a weekly report card..😂

I think they are not really bothered about Internet audience or the general progressiveness of the society. Hindi soaps are extremely anti-women, casteist, calssist and what not.

For instance the families in Hindi soaps are always from an oppressor caste, poor people exist in the shows only for the leads to be shown as good, like akshu saving kids or donating dhanya. Or they are thieves. Only Abhinav is different and the fandom is trying hard to discredit him calling him a driver and what not.

Hindi soaps exist in a very regressive world. I got attracted to it because I used to get one month vacation for Durga Puja and Diwali and there was nothing else to do. And all the colours, clothes and songs were very catchy and even the romantic scenes were good enough for an Indian teenager.

So, yeah. They will show whatever they want and people will keep watching irrespective of it.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Honestly I don't thank any relationship in this show is healthy.

I personally feel Akshu is slightly delusional. She made this family to of course help raise Abhir. But I sort of feel like she is using Abhinav now. Like she knows if he goes she has to face the reality that its just her and Abhir. He's the key to keeping this "family" together. He's a shield she uses to keep people away. Hence her panic when they returned to Kasuali and Abhinav was having his mini crisis. From that point on I just felt like she was simply willing to do anything to keep Abhinav. So she allowed herself to give in to his wishes and wants as she knows he has fallen in love with her despite the fact she doesn't love him. It just felt so off putting for me. Granted she was trying her best to "move on" and essentially this marriage is like an arranged marriage. She decided to stop listening to her heart and just be practical about things even though she had her own reservations. She even asked Lord Krishna what was wrong with giving someone hope? When the underlying context was that she would never love. She's pretty much given up on love.

Goenkas have always been bad but there were so many ways she could have handled the situation. I feel like she isolated herself to protect herself but yet due to that isolation it made her ties with her family even worse. Kairav was acting like a dummy until recently when he finally patched up with his sister.

Writers have been there are some good things we did get after the leap but then at the same time some really bad things. We are back to characters saying one thing one episode and next episode they sort of contradict what they just said the episode before or we have people go 180 change in one episode.

I continue to keep my expectations low.

Just knowing how our conversation had been in the past I don't expect you to agree with anything I said 😆 We always have different view points.

For me, Abhinav and Akshara's relationship is the healthiest in the show. They understand each other so well. They might not be in love but they definitely are good friends and amazing parents.

I honestly do not think Akshara is using Abhinav. Yes, sure I agree she is closed off to romantic love possibly, but I also felt she really hopes to move on with Abhinav and who knows given the chance their friendship and understanding could really blossom in to an amazing love story. She for sure doesn't want anything to do with Abhimanyu. Also, I disagree that she is keeping Abhinav around to shield others off. Since the leap, she has shown she can handle things on her own.

At the same time, I do think she feels indebted to Abhinav for taking care of her and embracing Abhir like his own son, but I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

Also, Akshara handling the situation. I don't think she was in a state to handle any situation. She was a broken woman physically and mentally reeling from her circumstances. It was entirely in the hands of Goenkas to handle/manage her. She was at the weakest with no one around her. I don't know anyone who treats a family member like that who they claim to love.

When will realisation hit abhi that akshu hasn't moved on?

The name of their child Abhir is a dead give away 🤣

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

For me, Abhinav and Akshara's relationship is the healthiest in the show. They understand each other so well. They might not be in love but they definitely are good friends and amazing parents.

I honestly do not think Akshara is using Abhinav. Yes, sure I agree she is closed off to romantic love possibly, but I also felt she really hopes to move on with Abhinav and who knows given the chance their friendship and understanding could really blossom into an amazing love story. She for sure doesn't want anything to do with Abhimanyu. Also, I disagree that she is keeping Abhinav around to shield others off. Since the leap, she has shown she can handle things on her own.

At the same time, I do think she feels indebted to Abhinav for taking care of her and embracing Abhir like his own son, but I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

Also, Akshara handling the situation. I don't think she was in a state to handle any situation. She was a broken woman physically and mentally reeling from her circumstances. It was entirely in the hands of Goenkas to handle/manage her. She was at the weakest with no one around her. I don't know anyone who treats a family member like that who they claim to love.

Agree with you!

the state she passed is not easy for any girl.

In that kind of state, they will be very vulnerable. still, she made herself strong and raised Abhire very nicely. In POV she is a success as a Maa and Woman.

She loved Abhi more than her life. She even sacrificed her one year of life and favorite for him.

If you are hurt by someone you love that will be more painful. it's not easy for her to love someone else.

Still, for her son, she is trying to move on.

She had a healthy relationship with Nav.

I do agree, she feels indebted to Abhinav for taking care of her and Abhir, but that is true. what's wrong with that?

She built a nice nest around Abhir. but during the UD trip KM and Ar and all these gorillas again broke her down. That's why she is trying to move on so these people don't open their mouths.

But destiny has something else. Who can go against it?

But isn’t it your responsibility to

Understand the full

Thing when someone is picking up

Your ex wife or love of your life’s phones d talking about the kid? Why are we making excuses for every irrational action of Abhimanyu ? What kind of concern or care he had for his wife if someone picking up the phone and not being as articulate as you would like them to be will trigger you to cut the phone and not bother! Which person will again willingly make an effort to go back and say you know you asshole your son is alive ? I don’t know ..

I also see people saying Abhi is fulfilling his sons wish about the US thing .. this is why I think Abhimanyu’s parenting style is not very good or mature.. his way of loving people is to fulfill their every wish or to fulfill what his version of their wish is .. when it comes to a child isn’t it mperativr that you don’t just fulfill all wishes ? Isn’t there some discretion ,decision making as parent involved ? And if he intends to coparent , isn’t the first thing he needs to do having a conversation with Abhimav or Akshara about the way this should work rather than working with the child to sort of become the extra parental authority who disrespects and disregards the people who have that child a good upbringing ? How is it right what he is doing ?