Do people really want Nav to give up on his family? - Page 5

Originally posted by: DevilHere

I won't say i like where ak stands with this she had 6 years to give him a chance she chose to do that a) out of gratitude b) with abhi as a trigger

It feels like after all abhi did she doesn't consider him an option hence nav .which for me is unfair...nd probably the premise on which they reunite the abhira

I won't say she is using abhinav as a shield. Abhinav shields her and she enjoys it , appreciates it and acknowledge it.

I don't think abhinav is In love since 6 yrs. It started as an arrangement , over the years he fell in love with her and before abhi came into the picture , abhinav already decided to ask akshu if they can be more than what they r now. May be due to the timing of the proposal we may say akshu said yes bec abhi was pestering her but if it was so, she wouldn't take the first step in kasauli and later. Akshu returned to kasauli for good n abhi plus birlas and goenkas were out of the picture . Intimacy would have happened .

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I’ve been reading some stuff on here where people are expecting Nav to reunite Abhira. Do people really want him to give up on the only family he has, his son and his wife who are his entire world? How easy it is for people to give up on families like this or just hand them over to someone like that?

I still remember how he reacted when Abhimanyu asked him to give him Akshu. It’s easier said than done. The only way this seems possible is if he sees Akshara not fully moved on yet (I think she has and is sincere in her relationship with Nav) or he has a deadly disease of some sort. I don’t see any other reason for him reuniting them. He can’t love bhai ji over his family to sacrifice them lol.

Please don't make Abhinav reunite Abhira otherwise story will become boring. I already started hating that episodes when Abhinav was feeling guilty for Abhimanyu.

Abhimanyu can see his son as Docman nothing else.

Abhinav isn't in love for 6 years it's obviously been gradual for him too.... it's gonna be gradual for ak too.....if abhir's sickness track hadn't come that might've happened...being friends nd having respect nd all that is good..but from friends to partners is also a journey....she's in the middle of it...It was an arrangement both mutually agreed upon...was that arrangement fair to nav..i don't think so..... personally I don't see gratitude as a good base for a relationship....u can't get into a relationship throwing a pity party for yourself....nav being a stranger did so much for her nd that's why she wants to give herself a chance to move on with him...but when he's her partner he'll owe her everything she's grateful for now...the gratitude is out of the picture...what if she realises nav is a very good person , friend to her but not someone she can see as a partner...where does nav stand then...there are too many good people around us.... sometimes people r good to us but we just can't bring ourselves to love them.... she's already scarred from her first love she's bound to be hesitant to love again to give herself so completely to someone..hence i said there's progression but ak is still not there yet while nav is...nd there could be chance ak might not whole heartedly ever be there...which to me is unfair to nav...not saying she's not trying....but she seems to trying to hard with abhi being a trigger....from the story perspective abhi presence has complicated stuff for sharma fam

Or his badepapa that he "snatched " from Akshara after manipulating them.

I want Abhinav to produce a call recording of Abhimanyu rejecting Akshara amd her child, if at all there were to be a custody battle.

Abhinav might just do this. See the man loves Abeer so so much dt for that kid he would just about do anything. Even for Akshara for dt matter. He loves them selflessly. He even has Abhimanyu on high pedestal ....which obviously Abhi doesnt deserve.

But after last episode .....I personally feel Abhimanyu doesnt deserve Abeer or Akshara. After hearing all the hardships that his ex wife went through bcz of his neglect......he didnt for a second feel gratitude for their saviour ....Abhinav. He was like " sab apni jagaha theek hain" !!!! Theek hain ??? What theek hain Dude ??? Had it not been for him you wouldnt even have a child to put your so called fatherly claim on. Abhimanyu is nothing but a SELFISH AND SELF CENTRED , PETTY human being. In one minute he forgot abt Roohi too. I am absolutely repelled by his personality !

Today's episode is worse than yesterday's. What an absolutely pathetic excuse for a human being!

I don't think the journey is that simple. Abhi - Nav will fight for Abhir/Ak. They have to, it's been shown from the beginning that Nav is super possessive of Abhir and, while otherwise calm, does get violent when it comes to Abhir. I would have loved for Abhi-Nav and Ak to co-parent, but even in that Abhi will always be the issue. Nav-Ak survived cause Ak took the role of decision-maker in most cases. She decides what happens and usually, Abhinav agrees. In a few cases where they aren't on the same page, Abhinav usually convinces her. Abhi is not like that, he will just state his decisions and expect Aksnav to follow. If they ever have a different viewpoint, he won't even consider it. It's difficult to co-parent with someone like that.

I think Nav and Abhi will fight esp during the custody battle. Eventually, Nav will see Ak and Abhir being more attached to Abhi ( which will be hard for him and I am really sad about this). Finally he will realize that Ak is only with him out of guilt and he will set her free. Maybe he will die soon after or will continue to co-parent. My fav option is that he is revealed as a long-lost relative (possibly Abhi's brother). That way he can stay and they can slowly untangle this mess.

Originally posted by: lagjagale

I don't think the journey is that simple. Abhi - Nav will fight for Abhir/Ak. They have to, it's been shown from the beginning that Nav is super possessive of Abhir and, while otherwise calm, does get violent when it comes to Abhir. I would have loved for Abhi-Nav and Ak to co-parent, but even in that Abhi will always be the issue. Nav-Ak survived cause Ak took the role of decision-maker in most cases. She decides what happens and usually, Abhinav agrees. In a few cases where they aren't on the same page, Abhinav usually convinces her. Abhi is not like that, he will just state his decisions and expect Aksnav to follow. If they ever have a different viewpoint, he won't even consider it. It's difficult to co-parent with someone like that.

I think Nav and Abhi will fight esp during the custody battle. Eventually, Nav will see Ak and Abhir being more attached to Abhi ( which will be hard for him and I am really sad about this). Finally he will realize that Ak is only with him out of guilt and he will set her free. Maybe he will die soon after or will continue to co-parent. My fav option is that he is revealed as a long-lost relative (possibly Abhi's brother). That way he can stay and they can slowly untangle this mess.

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How is nav super possessive of abhir? If he is super possessive he wouldn’t even let abhir bond with Abhimanyu, will feel bad about taking abhir from Abhimanyu, remind Akshara that Abhimanyu has a bond with his son cos he is the biological son.

And super violent? All I saw is a concerned parent.