Originally posted by: FanofAreebsMum
He isolates her from her friends, she’s now stuck in a house and needs his permission to go anywhere.. he’s allowed to make a 1000 mistakes but he throws a tantrum when she makes any even if they weren’t made with ill intentions.. gaslights at every opportunity. drags her around like a cattle .. no respect for her personal space .. and many other reasons
but no he’s an ideal husband because he doesn’t rape her or beat her.. the bar for men must be really low then.. Murtasim is a red flag !!
She got caged post marriage, got slapped, got attacked physically, the family including her husband didn't say single thing to the person who tried to kill her, her husband don't feel the need to take her opinion into consideration when she expresses something (nyla and current track), she had to jump to prove her character. Still he doesn't trust her fully (insecurity).
Her mother in law leaves no chance to taunt her. Every person in the house treats her as just izzat.
Despite everything she don't want another woman to go through what she went through. Even if that person is haya.
She wants to help mariyum at the same stopping her from taking wrong decisions like eloping.
Maa begum didn't even took a second to blame meerab when mariyum denied for marriage. When it is because of same meerab, her daughter still is in her house instead of eloping.
But she is toxic. If being rude, insensitive or whatever makes one toxic.
Then how the actions like slap, asking wife to jump, using a woman to set scores with enemy, not considering sister consent in marriage r non toxic traits.
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