Originally posted by: Rosyme
Ok i don't agree with that.
She should think what's best for kids atleast for Savi. Now Vinu s out of her control.
You can't keep having kids and do what s good ur urself.
Tmrw if she has a kid with Satya and Amba or Satya s ex GF comes back, again she will leave that place and go.
U have to do what's good for kids also. There has to be a balance.
In fact both parents have to work towards what's good and fight for their kids betterment. Only if Savi s comfortable she should marry Satya. She should take time for Savi to gel with him and accept him rather than just going ahead.
That's my opinion.
Not thinking about kids doesn't mean that she should put them in a situation that would mentally scar them. Of course, Savi and Vinu's well-being will be a top priority for her, but she should not let their temporary judgment determine her actions, if for no other reason than for the fact that Savi and Vinu don't actually understand the full gravity of the situation. They, just like every other child, are only driven by their love, but the reality is so much harsher.
Children are very sensitive, but they are also fairly volatile. Look at Vinu now, even though he still hasn't given Sai the title of a mother, he is now completely fine with her presence, even enjoys it, while before he was so repulsed by her that it felt as if there's no chance of them ever having a decent relationship. The same can be the case here too.
Personally, I am not a huge fan of Sai again marrying someone out of compulsion, so, my point was more around Sai leaving the Chavan Niwas. But even if she wishes to marry Satya, because that's what she thinks is a better path to take, then she shouldn't stop just because Savi wants to stay with Virat. She might be angry in the beginning, and she will definitely miss Virat, but afterward, she will be fine once she gets to know Satya and his family.
But if she continues to stay with Virat in CN then it would be much much worse. And Savi doesn't understand the problems they will face if they stay with Virat, but Sai does. There is a mild chance that Sai marrying Satya will harm Savi (a mild one, for I am fairly certain that even after everything, Sai won't keep Savi from meeting with Virat), but if she lets the situation go on as it is now, then Savi will 100% be harmed.
BUUUT I am fairly that they all will return to CN home of tortures, for this is Ghum and they love Drama.
Edited by ShipIsSailing - 2 years ago