AbhiM runs late: Epi Air Date 9 April 2023 - Page 39

Originally posted by: IAMHope

Precap: mini says she wants both ar and ak to celebrate gungur together, nav is shocked.

So we just saw Mimi worried that Ak might ruin AbRohi wedding just maybe two weeks ago. So it would make sense for her to keep both pairs away from eo - but here Mimi’s asking for a joint celebration together- why? Is she hoping to stress kon kiska hai in the GanBore celebration? And why is Nav worried?

I think the families for whatever reason now is probably like everyone has "moved on" Akshu is wearing MS and sindoor and she has promised to not do anything to come in between Abhi and Arohi. There hasn't been any major drama and Abhi and Arohi are now engaged and going on dates and resort vacations 😆

So its okay everyone happy blended family!

Little does anyone know what kind of messed up blended family is really there as Abhir is Abhi and Akshu's kid and this marriage turns Abhi until an uncle to his own child and really messes up the relations in the family.

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

I don’t feel sorry for her. She’s nice now because she’s getting her way. She is being shown as sensible understanding etc because she’ doesn’t have to work for it Abhimanyu’ is being handed over to her on a platter by both Mom and Son.

As soon as Abhi told her about giving her a mg of respect she immediately stopped the engagement and used Ruhi as Bait there was no need for her to think of sending Ruhi to boarding school, Ruhi is Ab’s weakness he came running back to her. She’s just doing it subtly now, when Ab packed his bags to leave home she stopped him otherwise she would have lost him forever So she’s playing her cards very well. She still blackmails and threatens Ash, why would she tell Akshara to leave UD.and she may not be lying but she hides the truth she didn’t tell Ab on confession day that she pushed Ak to leave UD using Ruhi as bait. She does enjoy Ak being blamed but it’s more hidden now unlike before when she showed her hatred openly. After the electric shock incident when she was with Ab in the bedroom talking about Ak and the jam she said when the person you hate is away it’s easy to forget but when they come in front of you the feelings come back.( I am paraphrasing)

@ bold in that case then they should get him to marry Arohi, if she’s reformed and sensible then she will be the best mom for Abhir. If she isn’t then Abhir will suffer the most, having her around his dad.

There is no need for Akshu at all she can go the Neil way.
Even after Abhimanyu’ told her it’s Abhir’s call she didn’t let go. As you said they will show us what they want to So if Abroghi is on the cards then we can’t do anything about it.
One day Abhimanyu will be shown to be in love with her too but if they decide to go that way I won’t be around 😆

I don’t like Arohi. or that new person.

Exactly if the go the cross couple way then to me no need to watch the show.

HC can carry his scenes but sorry KS cannot and they is nothing there to be the lead couple.

PR can carry her scenes but sorry JS is okay. The other issue with this pair is Akshu's point if view is completely shut to glorify Abhinav's character. There is nothing here to go okay they are a lead couple.

The strongest couple is HC and PR when they are acting with or against each other. They are Abhira for a reason.

But we are at the mercy of TRPs and whatever it is the writers want to write.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I feel the Makers want to show what is "moving on" like. They are trying for a more mature concept. The issue is the way they are executing it. It seems so forceful and we don't get proper point of views to explain why they are doing something or those little hesitating scenes that make you connect to the character on why they are doing it. This more so on Akshu's side. So it is harder for certain people to accept what is being shown.

Or maybe that is the point all along. It is suppose to be forceful looking. There are these external forces making Abhi act the way he is. He is afraid to break promises. He is held by Roohi's promise. He is being emotionally manipulated by his mother. He is being emotionally manipulated by Arohi. He is feeling remorseful of what he did to Akshu and she has closed her door as well. So he has no choice but to practically move on even if he won't ever truly be happy for himself.

Akshu is the same way. She is thinking practically and going well I have been paper married to Abhinav who has helped and supported me for 6 years. I owe him to try and see if I can actually make this marriage work. My family still only thinks about Arohi. They don't support me. I can never go back to Udaipur because Birlas still have connection with our family due to Arohi having Neil's child. The Birlas all love Arohi and they view me as a nuisance and a bad omen. Abhi is not engaged to Arohi and will soon start his new life with her and Roohi. I don't want my secret to throw the families in disaray again. I don't want to be yelled at again for something that isn't my fault. Abhi divorced me and he is the one that rejected me and our child. Now Abhir is my child only.

Will dynamics change once Abhir's truth is out? It has to.

Arohi

She is all about Abhi putting Roohi as first priority. Will she really risk that by accepting Abhir and becoming a step mom?

Manjari

Abhir is her full blooded grandson. Would she really forsake him because he is also Akshu's son?

Would she really agree in making her son, Abhi into a uncle to his own child?

You have verbalized the mental state of both character's very well. Fate has pushed them to a point where whatever is, makes more sense to push it forward coz that's what's keeping everyone happy in present. This is what many arranged marriages look like, not everyone gets the liberty of knowing the other person before marriage; many are pushed & asked to balance. Right and wrong in such a context differs person to person.

It shouldn't matter what Arohi thinks or Manjiri thinks, this time Abhimanyu has to let go of them and think for himself and also what Akshu thinks! She is the mother of his child. His respect for her in this context should have nothing to do with the other pivotal women in his life.

If he can learn to respect and be friend's with a vile character like Arohi for Ruhi, shouldn't the same rules apply to Akshara too?

If Manjiri didn't get questioned for hiding Neil's identity for over 25 years, here Akshara had and has some valid reasons for keeping mum about the paternity in the present tense.

Why should Arohi become a step mom when the real mom is alive? She can keep up the current Maasi equation in case Abhiroghi is long term. Manjiri may go many lengths in cutting Abhir from the Sharma family, she's capable of it. She's obsessed with bloodlines, she won't let Abhir go for anything. And she seems to hate Akshara with a blind fury.

In the end what Abhir wants may matter a lot and the final tilt will be in the direction he wants things to go in.

A. Assume for a minute the biological dad is already married to maasi when the truth is revealed.

Abhi will file for sole/joint custody to claim Abhir.

Aarohi will be filled with insecurity that Abhir is the full blooded grandson versus Roohi. But she will be the legally wedded wife so she might pretend to be willing to be a step mom to Abhir.

Abhir will grow up in two households- one as a Birla and the other as a Sharma.

This will be complicated but the rishtas all around will be honored.

Manjari will get the best deal - she gets to keep the newly whitewashed bahu beti she loves, she gets a relationship with her grandson, she is finally rid of Akshara for good. Roohi gets a step dad in Abhi.

B. And now assume the biological dad breaks marriage to maasi when the truth is revealed.

Abhi will file for sole/joint custody to claim Abhir.

Aarohi will be filled with insecurity that Abhir is the full blooded grandson versus Roohi. She will turn to OG Aarohi quietly plotting. Roohi will be disappointed with Poopy 💩.

Abhir will grow up in two households- one as a Birla and the other as a Sharma.

This will be complicated but the rishtas all around will be honored.

Manjari will get the best deal - she gets to keep the newly whitewashed bahu beti she loves, she gets a relationship with her new grandson, she is finally rid of Akshara for good.

Manju will continue to plot to get her son remarried to Aarohi.

C. Somehow Abhira Reunite ( Nav is cliffed) - if they are endgame the makers will move heaven and earth to get us there. Then legacy baby girl pops out. Ak cliffed. Aarohi and Abhi co parent respective kids.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Will dynamics change once Abhir's truth is out? It has to.

Arohi

She is all about Abhi putting Roohi as first priority. Will she really risk that by accepting Abhir and becoming a step mom?

Manjari

Abhir is her full blooded grandson. Would she really forsake him because he is also Akshu's son?

Would she really agree in making her son, Abhi into a uncle to his own child?

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I feel the Makers want to show what is "moving on" like. They are trying for a more mature concept. The issue is the way they are executing it. It seems so forceful and we don't get proper point of views to explain why they are doing something or those little hesitating scenes that make you connect to the character on why they are doing it. This more so on Akshu's side. So it is harder for certain people to accept what is being shown.

Or maybe that is the point all along. It is suppose to be forceful looking. There are these external forces making Abhi act the way he is. He is afraid to break promises. He is held by Roohi's promise. He is being emotionally manipulated by his mother. He is being emotionally manipulated by Arohi. He is feeling remorseful of what he did to Akshu and she has closed her door as well. So he has no choice but to practically move on even if he won't ever truly be happy for himself.

Akshu is the same way. She is thinking practically and going well I have been paper married to Abhinav who has helped and supported me for 6 years. I owe him to try and see if I can actually make this marriage work. My family still only thinks about Arohi. They don't support me. I can never go back to Udaipur because Birlas still have connection with our family due to Arohi having Neil's child. The Birlas all love Arohi and they view me as a nuisance and a bad omen. Abhi is now engaged to Arohi and will soon start his new life with her and Roohi. I don't want my secret to throw the families in disaray again. I don't want to be yelled at again for something that isn't my fault. Abhi divorced me and he is the one that rejected me and our child. Now Abhir is my child only.

Will dynamics change once Abhir's truth is out? It has to.

Arohi

She is all about Abhi putting Roohi as first priority. Will she really risk that by accepting Abhir and becoming a step mom?

Manjari

Abhir is her full blooded grandson. Would she really forsake him because he is also Akshu's son?

Would she really agree in making her son, Abhi into a uncle to his own child?

And hence I say…effed up the show

Originally posted by: Sushantikhana

All four are good at acting but just because of your hate for KS and JS for stupid reason you can't see it

It is a matter of opinion about their acting. I do not hate KS or JS. I am honestly looking at this objectively but if you feel any sort of criticism against KS or JS is considered hatred then you may need to look up the defintion in the dictionary what that word really means.

Their characters I do have problems with and it has been shown time and time again with TRPS that Arohi's character is not accepted by the audience. So having that character paired with the lead male isn't going to work for the show. It is still yet to be determined what people feel about Akshu with Abhinav.

Originally posted by: Dewdrops1995

I completely agree with everything but d last I won't agree

Abhi is like doing anything for ruhi or giving respect lesson just like doing it without any emotions. We can clearly see that today.

Got that.

what I meant was, they gave her all the rights as a wife.

I did post another one of his Birthday wishes, he is wished like a student wishes a teacher.

But for her mom and Ruhi only, gave her that position, while making decisions or celebrations.

Originally posted by: Dewdrops1995

Abhimanyu or HC is looking much older and tired than d beginning of leap

Is this to show abhi is tired of his responsibilities or HC tired with craappy track ????

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Maybe they are intentionally doing it. before the Leap, Ak used to look awesome. whatever outfit she wear used to look very pretty. after leap even at functions they not giving her good costumes.

Abhi, also they are making looks older now. after the leap he was Ok, but during Kasauli's trip his look changed but very handsome. after coming back make him a cry baby. Then bushy hair, now they changed again to look like 'Sherlock Homes'.

What do you think she wished for, any guesses?

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I feel the Makers want to show what is "moving on" like. They are trying for a more mature concept. The issue is the way they are executing it. It seems so forceful and we don't get proper point of views to explain why they are doing something or those little hesitating scenes that make you connect to the character on why they are doing it. This more so on Akshu's side. So it is harder for certain people to accept what is being shown.

Or maybe that is the point all along. It is suppose to be forceful looking. There are these external forces making Abhi act the way he is. He is afraid to break promises. He is held by Roohi's promise. He is being emotionally manipulated by his mother. He is being emotionally manipulated by Arohi. He is feeling remorseful of what he did to Akshu and she has closed her door as well. So he has no choice but to practically move on even if he won't ever truly be happy for himself.

Akshu is the same way. She is thinking practically and going well I have been paper married to Abhinav who has helped and supported me for 6 years. I owe him to try and see if I can actually make this marriage work. My family still only thinks about Arohi. They don't support me. I can never go back to Udaipur because Birlas still have connection with our family due to Arohi having Neil's child. The Birlas all love Arohi and they view me as a nuisance and a bad omen. Abhi is now engaged to Arohi and will soon start his new life with her and Roohi. I don't want my secret to throw the families in disaray again. I don't want to be yelled at again for something that isn't my fault. Abhi divorced me and he is the one that rejected me and our child. Now Abhir is my child only.

Will dynamics change once Abhir's truth is out? It has to.

Arohi

She is all about Abhi putting Roohi as first priority. Will she really risk that by accepting Abhir and becoming a stepmom?

Manjari

Abhir is her full-blooded grandson. Would she really forsake him because he is also Akshu's son?

Would she really agree in making her son, Abhi into a uncle to his own child?

Agree with you. Even I was always posting the same view. They both are forcing themselves into the new relations to move on.

As you said while showing above,

the way the makers are choosing is not going well.

To show that they can use Leads, instead, they are glorifying the Nav and whitewashing Ar.

In the process, the glorification went out of boundaries where they are demeaning a woman's pain, sacrifice, and struggle!

The Second is the communication gap. Abhi realized his mistake Ak doesn't know

Whatever happened that day - none of the families know.

Abhir's truth - only Ak and Nav knows.

At least they should clear out some of the issues then people will connect for this forced relations.

Abhi's facial expression is clear he is forcing himself, but he doesn't say no to his Mom who is blind with the marriage booth. nor to Ar who doesn't want to see the truth or Ru who doesn't even understand.