Originally posted by: iheartChai
Hello everyone! 🤗 I'm back from vacation.
I have been on episode strikes (only reading written updates/listening to spaces) cause I knew I couldn't take all the cringe being served and the story was going nowhere. I simply cannot take the fact that due to this cameo they have literally shoved Akshara's point of view down the drain. Everything written is to just glorify Abhinav. He has now become the female lead, the male lead, the fatherji, the motherji, the brother, the sister, friend, etc 😡
I know the writers are doing this on purpose to show Akshu in a really bad light. I feel like it's the same way we felt when Abhi just wasn't getting where he went wrong and was pity party crying on the streets. We are now in the Akshara ego and fear phase. I can only hope this return to Udiapur will give a reality check and open her eyes that Abhi is not someone to fear. Her last encounter gave him a big kick in the right direction to realize what he did that day. The guy is now all about respect but he feels worthless and giving other people who did him wrong respect instead of respecting himself. He's trapped by Roohi, Arohi, and Manjari. And he's only trying to "move on" because his ex told him to get a hold of himself after he ran after her and confessed he wanted her back. I agreed with Akshu's rejection there because if she had just come back to him it would have solved none of their problems. She would have to face the storm of the families and she simply does not have it in her to do that anymore. She would look like the bad person again snatching Arohi's happiness and the families already look down at her. She just wants peace.
I can only hope when she comes back to Udiapur and Abhi remains respectful and apologizes to Akshu for his previous behavior. I hope that she sees a different Abhi. The Abhi that she initially fell in love with. The guy who has a big heart. I want Abhir to want his Docman more than Abhinav. I want to see Abhi and Abhir bonding. Just as so called Abhinav has shown so much fatherly love to Abhir that Abhi does the same to Abhir and Akshu melting and realizing there is nothing to fear.
I want Abhinav to get his own reality check that he does not belong in this family. Everything that happened in that return Kasauli trip was forced by Akshu because she didn't want to let go of her illusionary world. I know we haven't received much of Akshu's view point but I still stick to the scene where she was praying and apologizing for leading Abhinav on and giving him hope. We saw only small glimpses of her making uncomfortable faces in the recent episodes. She was so desperate to keep someone on her side she was willing to satisfy every wish and want of Abhinav. Where is her own self respect? I can understand she only married Abhinav so Abhir could have a father. A mother can do anything for her child, but the writing has been so bad it's hard to connect her actions and dialogues to this concept. She literally had been ignoring her child for a few episodes to chase after Abhinav to make sure he didn't fly the coop 🤔 I stand by Akshu is not in love with Abhinav. She is only giving respect in this relationship and seeing what does "moving on" mean. Every action she has taken is to keep Abhinav as he is the shield to her facade. If he goes away there goes her only friend and support and her facade breaks and she has to face reality. So in my honest opinion she is using Abhinav. Abhinav has no idea and is happily going along and his confidence is building and he thinks he has the rights to do whatever now. But at the same time I also think Abhinav is slightly emotionally manipulating Akshu so he can live out his dream fantasy of making this fake family real. I mean how many times does Akshu has to repeat the line. My husband, my husband? Or Abhir is your son, Abhir is your son? After 6 years of that chanting it almost subliminally takes hold and Abhinav thinks "Abhir is my son." "I am Akshara's husband."
This accha aadmi is not accha at all. I know the writers keep giving him these goody-goody dialogues and he almost acts as a guidance counselor to Akshu and other characters but him knowingly posing as a father when he knows he is not the real father and lying to the real father without an ounce of guilt??? Sorry you are in my bad books. I cannot wait for you to get cliffed. I need this character to die. He is past his expiration date and outstayed his welcome.
I know I sound crazy but I am still in this for Abhira. I don't expect a quick reunion. In fact I'm fine with them co-parenting for some time and slowly get back together but I want all third angles out. Abhinav needs to leave or just die. Abhi and Arohi's marriage needs to get called off. Arohi can just sit at Birla house for all I care. But she cannot marry Abhi. It's absolutely ridiculous considering all that she has done. She does not get a redemption through Abhi via marriage. No! She can however, exit out of the marriage herself and reject it at the last minute. I will be fine with that.
I am trying to remain positive and not give into rants about how dark it can go because I honestly don't want to give the writers any ideas on how to further ruin Abhi and Akshu. It isn't even about Abhira it's about the individual characters now. We know they stalk social media and IF. So, I may not be as active until Abhinav leaves/dies. I know I probably sound childish and ridiculous. I apologize if I hurt anyone's feelings. I'm tired of the crap being shown on the screen.
Anupamaa
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