TERE BIN - Yumna Z - Wahaj Ali DT #40 " Woh Mera Shauhar Hai" - Page 34

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Not being rude doesn't mean he let her act as his wife.

Would it be ok if meerab let's rohail sit on her bed to feed her in the name of pity.

Like people are saying Haya even went to the extent of physically hurting Meerab. Now, let's see how he behaves with Haya after some comes back.

Originally posted by: Neha_S

just jumping in the convo…

Murtu walked into a flat with his wife and her friend after listening to the so called friend say she’s gonna spend some time with me, don’t tell her hubby… R was openly saying she’s his love etc etc and Meerab was muted.

Because Meerab never confessed or lets him touch her, he now believes she’s in love with R and that’s why all this. He’s heartbroken, jealous and absolutely and completely shattered at this thought. And it’s totally justified. Finding your wife alone with a guy in an apartment apparently makes ppl go crazy.

meerab was totally wrong in going to the apartment with the guy who has been professing his love for her.

However, there’s no harm in Murtu eating all that Haya makes, be fed soup by her sitting on their bed, have haya make thinly veiled insults at his wife and their marriage, create misunderstandings between them, wear her clothes and try to seduce him by acting and him taking her for an overnight stay, trying to disrepute his wife by saying she’s carrying someone else baby, steal Gajra, and ransack their room and oh of course physizally assault his wife and do black magic- even though he and his family knows that she’s in love with him.

There’s no daag in his shawl after all that but there’s one in her kirdar now?

All that are okay. But meerab not pushing rohail hand like she did with murtasim is big deal? When she clearly showed her discomfort whenever he touched her unlike murtasim who didn't mind when haya was touching all his body, he himself touching her face despite knowing she dressed as his wife for obvious reasons.

This still was so chaotic yet calm . It implies , they are a crazy bunch of entropies when separated , but finds stability with each other 🌹

Originally posted by: pressu

Like people are saying Haya even went to the extent of physically hurting Meerab. Now, let's see how he behaves with Haya after some comes back.

Is he the same guy who wanted to kill meerab's kidnappers. Now he let go of the person easily who tried to kill his wife.

Originally posted by: Moonks

so we should see the difference in the situation as well

Ok.. question has anyone been asked out by a friend who didn’t have feelings for?

Did you misbehave or act rudely? Or calmly explained - hey not interested-

R told her he’s taking her to a restaurant. To talk -She didn’t want to get him arrested because she thought let’s not create a scene over something so simple. Will eat explain and then visit Saba.

Stupid? Yes .. but malicious- No

R is a friend and class friend for years. Maybe grabbing hands and just casual patting was ok between them. Murtasim is always very aggressive when pulling meerab and she was obviously pissed off seeing him pull the gun. So bring Meerab she pulled back and gave attitude. His fire feeds hers- that’s how it’s always been

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Ok.. question has anyone been asked out by a friend who didn’t have feelings for?

Did you misbehave or act rudely? Or calmly explained - hey not interested-

R told her he’s taking her to a restaurant. To talk -She didn’t want to get him arrested because she thought let’s not create a scene over something so simple. Will eat explain and then visit Saba.

Stupid? Yes .. but malicious- No

R is a friend and class friend for years. Maybe grabbing hands and just casual patting was ok between them. Murtasim is always very aggressive when pulling meerab and she was obviously pissed off seeing him pull the gun. So bring Meerab she pulled back and gave attitude. His fire feeds hers- that’s how it’s always been

Look at his agression. He was dragging her as if she is some animal. Not his fault. He is angry after what he saw. I understand.

But why is it wrong of meerab to push his hand after seeing his extreme aggressive behaviour.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

He safely sent her to village instead of jail.

Is he the same guy who wanted to kill meerab's kidnappers. Now he let go of the person easily who tried to kill his wife.

He forgave all her kidnappers and even let one of the kidnappers get married to his cousin.🤪

I didn't notice this but I read a comment regarding this. And also I think in SH review they mentioned something like this.

I don’t want to but I am still writing this and it’s my last post on who is right vs wrong.

Meeru was hesitatant with Rohail so was Murtu with Haya, Meeru may have listened Rohail bad mouthing Murtu but she didn’t listen a word against their relationship. That’s it for me, she values her relationship with Murtasim but she will surely take time to value Murtasim.

Murtasim gave Haya the leeway thinking she was his cousin and when haya talked about their time in the car it was clear that they were close but not before nor after marriage he took haya’s love confession calmly and neither Meerub did. They both were firm in their stands that they are married and it’s end of the discussion. You can have any delusional thought but we are clear so when they are clear in their stands then why are we in confusion?

Meeru gave the same leeway to Rohail as she knows him longer than she knows Murtasim*

Meerub character assassinated Murtasim and everyone was okay and now Murtasim doing the same is making him toxic. Murtasim being with Haya and Meeru seeing them then Meerub being with Rohail and Murtu seeing them together why are we giving different reactions to both the situations those who bash Murtu please bash Meeru as well and those who defended him please defend Meeru as well, I am saying it in a clear words stop being hypocrites, and start looking it as the situation is.

Neither Murtasim was right nor Meerub, Haya confessed his love in front of Meerub and Rohail did in front of Meerub so both of them are not going to be calm, haya said Meerub came in between and Rohail said this to Murtasim so what do you think the other person is going to do, Meerub was convinced that Murtasim doesn’t love her when Rohail said so but Murtasim was firm in his stand that it’s okay if Meerub doesn’t love him because one day she will do, Meerub was ready to leave him but Murtasim was not and this difference is because of their position in this marriage so stop using it for making one as good and other as villain but yeah I agree that Meerub can at least consider Murtasim as a human being and start respecting him, respect is a two way street and if Meerub is not respecting Murtasim so she should not accept that Murtasim will continue to respect and neither should we do.

And please stop quoting or tagging me in these Murtu vs Meeru posts, I am here to enjoy the show and a healthy discussion which I am doing without going into much details. Thank you 🤗

Originally posted by: Neha_S

Ok.. question has anyone been asked out by a friend who didn’t have feelings for?

Did you misbehave or act rudely? Or calmly explained - hey not interested-

R told her he’s taking her to a restaurant. To talk -She didn’t want to get him arrested because she thought let’s not create a scene over something so simple. Will eat explain and then visit Saba.

Stupid? Yes .. but malicious- No

R is a friend and class friend for years. Maybe grabbing hands and just casual patting was ok between them. Murtasim is always very aggressive when pulling meerab and she was obviously pissed off seeing him pull the gun. So bring Meerab she pulled back and gave attitude. His fire feeds hers- that’s how it’s always been

Beautifully put . That’s the bottom line .