Originally posted by: solembaum
Actually I do not think it is true that Akshara has no bond with her child ..they are showing more of the bond with Abhinav, but they did show her lighter side with Abhir too and without a bond I donât think the child can be so well brought up in most ways .. she also tells Abhimanyu when they were on nightwaych during Abhinavâs accident , that she plays a lot with Abhir .. I think they just are not showing that part and they want to show how Akshara has changed and hence showing only the part of her being a strict mother .. at least this is my interpretation .. on Arohiâs side also they are showing more of Abhimanyuâs bond with Ru .. so I guess they are just setting up grounds for the conflicts ..
sorry I realized later that I havenât worded my post properly I agree she does have a bond and a very loving one too thank you for pointing this out
I give her credit for Abhirâs upbringing and how lovable he is. There was a scene in the Udaipur ep when Abhinav also acknowledged that Akshu was solely responsible for how Abhir has turned out.
Trying to answer why Akshu is not having a bond with her son I was just making a general comment about depression and PTSD after birth I will try and change the wording of my post
I love both Abhimanyuâ and Akshu but lean more towards Akshu
I have had a lot of trauma related to my marriage in my life and know how difficult it is to move on and stand on your own feet sometimes we cling to any support we can find even if our heart is not in it.
Itâs very easy to dictate what other women should do or how one should behave in a particular situation but only when a person goes through it, they realize how difficult it actually is. Marriage can show you hell or heaven on earth.
I agree they have focused more on the men bonding with the children than the women
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