Originally posted by: Winterberry
Hellos morning!
Just dropped in to ask this weird question that popped up when I was patiently waiting for oil to heat for puri to fry!Has it ever crossed anyone mind that for a man like Murtasim, how difficult or humiliating would be to have haya coming and rubbing it on him that your wife doesn’t love you or care for you inspite of you moving mountains and scrubbing floors for her ?
Meerab and her plight and his softening to haya is not topic of discussion here so let’s not bring it here ! I wanna talk purely from mans perspective, esp someone like MK who has world and women at his disposal is trying so hard to save his marriage and she seems to be cold/ hot but not much reciprocating !If he says it’s okay if she doesn’t love me, my love is enuf for both of us —- he will be called insensitive
If he says it’s okay , respect her feelings she is not obligated to reciprocate my love so he lets her go—- he will be called saad and thanda.
He should not be talking with Haya at all, she is not his god damn therapist or marriage counsellor. They have changed who he was before marriage to what he has become now, and this change wasn't gradual nor was it explained nor does it make sense.
Yeh khandhan mujh se hain, mein khandhan se nahin hoon
That is not the type of guy I expected to have such open free discussions of love and marriage with anyone. He was lonely and Meerab felt like the only light in his life, now he is letting in so much light that Meerab is lost.
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