GHKPM WU & EDT 103| DT Note P.61 - Page 58

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I seems like a match on and Karma has designated the job job to each team to deliver it to the other.

P was rendered speechless when V gave it off the the Mahila mandal and clearly declared that no one can question Sav's rights on the him and in CN.

P felt isolated, exactly how Sai was made to feel. V the husband not standing up for the one in "wife" role. The only problem, P has no recollection, nor does she realise that it is karma delivering her dues. She feels that she is being wronged. No guilt about her own doings.

The family got a glimpse of the monster they created and nurtured. P's "mera ghar" definitely hit home. Not sure if P will somehow trick them all out of the property too. But they would have realised the blunder of handing over the reigns of the house and business to P. The "Malkin" they raised will kick them in theB***.

Though P has no realisation that this is how she treated Sai and the family treated her, her questions were right. The family were dumbfounded. Including V. Again, I didn't see guilt, of having wronged P. But somewhat like he let out a secret in his drunk state. Well that is for us to wait and watch to know. I hope V has a comeback for P's attitude and her ultimatum. High time he tames the shrew. She is stepping over and getting out of control.

I don't think she meant surrogacy. Surrogacy was only for BK. But then BK used her because she wanted to be used. It was P's plan. How is she clearly ignoring he own ill-intentions. She forced her way into this surrogacy. She wasn't forced, nor was she the choice. So how is she talking about being used.

If she is referring to the adoption, then clearly the rules of the marriage were agreed upon by both parties. She is the one twisting and trying to seek payment for her services. "Services" that is what I would call it. Because she is making it as a transaction with her intentions for repayment. If she helped V out, it was supposed to be as a friend, but now she wants him to give her the rights of the wife, love her in return.

It is unbelievable how Pakhi forgets her deeds. How she forgets who Sai was to the family or Virat. If there was any other woman in her place, the fight she was putting up is laudable. But she only ended up reminding atleast to the audience, how Sai was denied everything. I hope family ponders on it. That girl didnt raise a word against them. She was content to get love from Virat, and basked in it till he misused her trust during surrogacy.

When Pakhi told him that he is her husband and has to fulfill her every wish, I almost choked thinkng about Sai. I think Sai asked only one wish from Virat, to keep pakhi away from the house. I dont think she ever asked him anything. He fulfilled all her wishes without asking. But he failed to fulfill one wish she asked him openly :( I wish he ponders on that.

As far as Pakhi is concerned, she will get nothing unless she gets love and respect from Virat. She should fight there. If she cant win him in the closed doors, then what is the use if she gets support form the family. They cant force him to love and respect her!! If she is still sticking to him after holi drama means only one things, she is egoistic and spitefull.

I cant wait for her to lose Vinu! I want her to feel the pain and betrayal that Sai faced when the entire family snatched her child and gave it to Pakhi. Here Vinu himself should hate her. After that, whatever Sai gets is a bonus.

V didn't fulfil Sai's wishes.

Her wishes were very simple. To get love, trust, respect from her partner and his family. Which V could never do.

Even without that she did everything and more that she could for them all.

And when she didn't get it, she left. Simple. In return she didn't do mudslinging, she did not wish ill , she didn't give badduas . She just moved on in a dignified manner.

Sai has been in Ps position many many times and for no reason. She has been insulted, name called, character assassinated even for doing good

Akele khadi standing up for herself when everyone questions her- pullu lunch, amey issue, ladakh trip issue, devkit saga, Vs injury in hospital, V return post gsw in mission, harinees issue, post harines bday party revelation of VP, p parents anniversary, post Sam return when she was locked up, in mimo phase when she was accused of hugging V in public, Buying ninad harmonium, NiNi anniversary time, post Shruti kaands, V injured again due to Sada- in hospital, post his injury, her career issue, when she was accused of medical negligence, Sams death, her decision on surrogacy, post illegal surrogacy, when her child was snatched from her, when she was ultimately forced to leave the house. These are only some of the many many times Sai has been publicly accused, insulted, hurt while she has minimal to no support.

Even when she had support it was not enough.

Rarely has V been able to prevent Sai getting hurt.

Look at how little P has had to answer for.

Everyone is so mild to her right from volume to words used.

I meant the wishes that were not so important but still getting fulfilled by Virat without her asking for it. Even the important career vs bahu decision, she left to him trusting him. Surrogacy also, she trusted him fully. she wanted to go for surrogacy for his sake, and he finally fulfilled it (ofcourse no other option for him).

The only wish, if I remember correctly, that she asked openly for herself is to keep Pakhi away from the house and he failed to fulfill it. That pains me.

It would have been a good poignant scene if the family or virat had atleast thought about Sai how she never asked anything for herself, except for one thing and they all failed her.

Ghum is not written sensitively .. we have put too much of our emotions.. and the makers ., they are a lot more practical.. a lot of things could have been poignant.. they want to play for both sides ..

I am not sure how much pro Chavans are for Sai .. right now . They are extremely money - minded I won’t be surprised that they may all shift towards Pakhi now that she controls the finance and that’s why nobody is introspecting what they did to sai

How come virat has still not realised that he has wronged her so badly .. he tells her sorry in Nasha .. but what is he sorry about .. does he know where he has erred

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

Ghum is not written sensitively .. we have put too much of our emotions.. and the makers ., they are a lot more practical.. a lot of things could have been poignant.. they want to play for both sides ..

I am not sure how much pro Chavans are for Sai .. right now . They are extremely money - minded I won’t be surprised that they may all shift towards Pakhi now that she controls the finance and that’s why nobody is introspecting what they did to sai

How come virat has still not realised that he has wronged her so badly .. he tells her sorry in Nasha .. but what is he sorry about .. does he know where he has erred

virat I can’t explain at all if I go by what is being shown. He is guilt free of anything. After all this drama he will go and play pati to sai. In his actions he is being pati to sai. Only muh bola pati with pakhi.

I mean how is he not showing any urgency to mend things and be with sai? There is no sexual pull towards sai also? It will Atleast induce some urgency right? I am at loss of words to describe his actions . He was starved for 7 years! 😆

I thought kids will pull him first, now sai is there available to him in his house and if he makes things right, he can get his family back and sai back rigth? What is this slowness 🤔

is he waiting for vinu to go to sai? May be that is the only reason he is putting sex to the back seat! 🙃
Thinking like a father finally!! 🤣.

Originally posted by: LadyD

Her any rights as wife is wrong as she agreed with terms when she got married & if she expected things to change then that was never promised to her. She had accepted the fact that Sai being in their life even in absence for ever.

That’s what it is most unnatural and stupid and illogical.. it is almost robotic what Virat is suggesting

He thinks he can live both women as his wives in the same house denying them a normal life ..

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

That’s what it is most unnatural and stupid and illogical.. it is almost robotic what Virat is suggesting

He thinks he can live both women as his wives in the same house denying them a normal life ..

No sex has become normal to him over 7 years! and being Virat, he will project his own feelings on others 🤣. If I dont feel like doing it, Sai also will be feeling the same. Pakhi, I dont care what she feels. 🤣

Yes true after he found out that Sai is alive and she has a child .. and then jagtap is in contact with her

He gave extra promises to sai .. which has given patralekha extra power n energy

Things were all right post leap .. but after the discovery of Sai .. it became better and better for patralekha

Originally posted by: Sherry24

I seems like a match on and Karma has designated the job job to each team to deliver it to the other.

P was rendered speechless when V gave it off the the Mahila mandal and clearly declared that no one can question Sav's rights on the him and in CN.

P felt isolated, exactly how Sai was made to feel. V the husband not standing up for the one in "wife" role. The only problem, P has no recollection, nor does she realise that it is karma delivering her dues. She feels that she is being wronged. No guilt about her own doings.

The family got a glimpse of the monster they created and nurtured. P's "mera ghar" definitely hit home. Not sure if P will somehow trick them all out of the property too. But they would have realised the blunder of handing over the reigns of the house and business to P. The "Malkin" they raised will kick them in theB***.

Though P has no realisation that this is how she treated Sai and the family treated her, her questions were right. The family were dumbfounded. Including V. Again, I didn't see guilt, of having wronged P. But somewhat like he let out a secret in his drunk state. Well that is for us to wait and watch to know. I hope V has a comeback for P's attitude and her ultimatum. High time he tames the shrew. She is stepping over and getting out of control.

I don't think she meant surrogacy. Surrogacy was only for BK. But then BK used her because she wanted to be used. It was P's plan. How is she clearly ignoring he own ill-intentions. She forced her way into this surrogacy. She wasn't forced, nor was she the choice. So how is she talking about being used.

If she is referring to the adoption, then clearly the rules of the marriage were agreed upon by both parties. She is the one twisting and trying to seek payment for her services. "Services" that is what I would call it. Because she is making it as a transaction with her intentions for repayment. If she helped V out, it was supposed to be as a friend, but now she wants him to give her the rights of the wife, love her in return.

From P's POV she has been wronged, only now she was getting what she deserved, and that is being shifted from her.

Remember in her wedding to Samrat, she hallucinated that V was marrying her. She always imagined herself his first wife, that is why she walked in and out of Sairat room "haq se", when objected "beizzati huwi" also comes from that hallucination. It took long time for me to understand, kaise huwi bhai?

Jagudarni story also stems from her that thought process. V promised to be celibate for her, but could not help himself from falling in love with her. In her opinion Sai charmed him into it.

The incident after Sai ousting, she asks when you can have meals with Sai in this room, why can't she?(she is his first wife na). At that time she couldn't vocalize it, but now haq se she can say that.

She wanted him, and has him now. She feels her prayers, her vrats, her tapasya at last have been answered. At last she has got her rightful place, a socially acceptable rishte ka naam. Remember her dialogue of saccha pyar comes to you if you have patience and chaah (maybe another word, imo obsession), when Sai escaped from jail.

Troubling Sai was to show to V and others how unsuitable she is for V. She was looking out for V's best interest. His rakshak. His true life-partner.

How many times she has said that her claim on V comes first, his first promise was to her, so from her pov there is no question of wrongdoing so no guilt either.

Medically, you can call her psycho, delusional, possessive etc, but in reality aise logo ko fitna kahte hai