Originally posted by: AuntyDepressant
I keep on reading on this forum .. ohh why Meerab said yes to the marriage .. why didn't she leave.. leave where? Her family would have left her to go where ever she wanted?
Unhon nai usay zameen kai andar sai khod nikaalna tha.
And suppose Meerab would have refused to marry Murtasim but would not have left instead she would have chosen to live at Murtasim's house. Tou kia hota? unhon nai usay chain sai rehnay daina tha.. shadi par tou woh usay constantly majboor kartay hi rehtay.
Aur Murtasim nai tou stand liya hi nahin. Meerab bibi nai haan ki aur owh bhi nikal paray shadi karnay.
Well said.
They would have never let the daughter of their family go anywhere else. Even when she was with Waqas and Anila, Anwer dictated her life decisions. Waqas always took permission from them for any decision regarding Meerab.
There was no way they would have let Meerab go and live on the Streets or at any friend's place. Leave everyone else, Murtasim would not have let her go after knowing she's their blood. They thrive on Izzat, which largely rests on the shoulders of the women in their family.
Meerab's refusal would never have been accepted. Maa Begum was clear about keeping Meerab's share of property with them, there was no way this marriage was not happening ever.
Law education was already denied to her, and they would have pressured her to agree for the wedding anyhow.
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