Originally posted by: spnfan
Meerab might not have confessed but she clearly is giving hope to murtu and she didn't leave him when she had the perfect opportunity to leave him. What exactly does meerab want from this marriage? She isn't leaving but she isn't putting any effort either but enjoys all the attention showed on her by murtu and also openly demands her haq on him. Then she goes around telling her friend whom just confessed, about her marriage secrets. There is a limit to showing meerab to be senseless and a blabber mouth who speaks without thinking twice. She ain't a 16 yr old who don't know the basics of marriage and was forced into one. She is old enough to understand that she shouldn't share something about her marriage that will affect her husband as well. That's being disrespectful to the institution of marriage. At that point she didn't have any reason to compain about murtu as a husband. Even if she was forced into the marriage she was staying in that marriage willingly and she herself was making advances towards murtu by showing her haq on him and letting him flirt with her and going on dates with him. For the last few episodes she haven't shown any resistance towards murtu or this marriage.
Murtu is also wrong with behaya but at that time meerab didn't know murtu left with behaya. If she said all of that to rohail after thinking murtu is playing her then she can be justified but she said all that after having a romantic evening with him and enjoying all the attention he was showering on her.
Also two wrongs doesn't make a right. Just because murtu is a dum dum when it comes to behaya doesn't mean meerab has the right to go around tell secrets about their marriage. If she can be justified by saying she never promised to not disclose the contract then murtu can also be justified by saying he ain't getting it from his wife so he is lurking around other women.
Yes she went to date with him. But didn't she told murtasim that she doesn't love him in that evening too? After that date, she immediately started being her old self to him by saying she doesn't care for him, taking care of him only to not get taunts from maa begum.
Regarding the whole jealousy, she made it clear that it is more about her getting disrespected than any feelings.
Yes she loves him. But she pretty much tried to hide her feelings by not giving him hope through her words. Even if she doesn't love him, she would have reacted same way for haya thing because it's about her getting disrespected.
I didn't say she didn't do wrong by disclosing about contract to her friend.I am saying she is not as much as wrong as murtasim who is giving leeway to haya by entertaining her unintentionally.
About her enjoying his attention. If she outright rejects his advances she is rude, if she takes his advances nicely by making it clear she doesn't love him then she enjoys attention. Either way she will get blamed.
Is it her fault that she is taking time to come to terms with her feelings? She told rohail she herself doesn't know what she wants. Because she is tired of latest happenings in her life.
@bold I actually don't mind this justification as long as murtasim doesn't say he loves meerab.
Meerab didn't promise murtasim about contract so I find her mistake less offending. Whereas murtasim promised to stay loyal to meerab and respect her feelings so I find his actions more offending.
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