AbhiM’s bitter realization: Epi Air Date March 16 2023 - Page 27

Originally posted by: iheartChai

I have yet to read any posts here. So these are my quick thoughts.

So I'm going to rant a little first. Just to get some of the bad out of my system. I know that Abhinav has these insecurities and he's comparing himself with Abhi and his standing, and his guilt about coming in between. I know the writers are trying to keep showing him as this "good person" but it is getting to be too much and I'm beginning to think more and more its like an act especially when he wants something to happen for himself. I notice he always downgrades himself to almost force the other person to respond like "Oh, don't say you aren't smart. You're fine." And I know what is coming tomorrow because he's going to whine about how he cannot give Akshu a grand love story and all this other blah, blah, blu, blu stuff to make Akshu lose her patience and say "No, I rejected Abhi and I choose you. I don't need a grand love story. I want a simple life with you." It's going to be that parallel nonsense talk like how Abhi convinced Arohi for the marriage for Roohi's sake. So we get to hear Akshu make ridiculous comments about things to an extent and Abhinav start being oh chirpy durpy again 🤔

Now coming to the ⭐️ today. Abhimanyu Birla 👏 He's in his realization mode now and he's admitting how he failed to stand by Akshu. I'm so happy he ended up spilling all that out to Shefali. She's the one who had told him not to let Akshu go despite everything but he didn't listen. And now she's hearing his sorry and self reflection. The only sensible Birla in that house hold that he could actually talk to. I'm so glad he opened up to her.

So now we know why he is speaking so softly to Arohi. He feels ashamed of himself and how he had conducted himself with Akshu. And honestly Arohi needed to know the truth. What he did and how he treated Akshu. I think that gave Arohi some food for thought that if this man who was "supposed" so in love with Akshu could treat her in this way what could happen to me? But more importantly it showed that Akshu was never her enemy. Abhi has always been in love with Akshu and she cannot forcefully take him away because he will never belong to her. So thinking as a mother and what is best for herself and her child is to back out of this engagement. I'm hoping to hope that it stays this way with what the pre-cap implied with Arohi backing out. I hope Abhi keeps his mouth shut.

P.S. Abhira are End Game ❤️

P.P.S - when can Abhinav get cliffed? 🤣

I like your POV on nav, here I am feeling bad that akshu will lead him on, but it could be that he’s playing mind games.. see this why I need background for this man, where did he come from, who is he? If he’s an orphan which orphanage did he come from. He made no friends along the way?? I need some background context lol….

I also loved her spoke to shafali I got scared when aarohi was bringing the milk, I said oh lord another milk date (don’t hit me with the spatula) but the correct person came!

Aarohi for once think as a Mother.. will you be able to handle roohi when Abhimanyu leaves you both for Abhir and akshu? For once in your life do the right thing.. same thing akshu said to her she has not changed one bit. This is your chance aarohi!!! Plz take it!

Now to the most Important question when to cliff Nav, just after abhir’s truth comes out, when fake marriage news has revealed and aarohi/ Abhimanyu marriage is called off! Because these gorillas are not going to believe akshu that the marriage was fake, so nav has to say it and Amma can be the witness. Then we can throw him off the cliff! Where he will be happy that he got his bhaiji, ak ji and nikkiji(however you spell it lol) together! If he dies happy then there are no chances of his ghost haunting them! Loll

Originally posted by: D_e_s_t_i_n_y

Shefali and Abhi convo was good but what is the end result of this?

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Originally posted by: Hopefaith

Good episode Abhimanyu accepted all that he had done to Akshu

points which stood out for me Repentance has come but along with it he said he’s let her go forever, so no Akshu in his life anymore so how will they get back together?

In his convo with Arohi he started with before we start our relationship I want to tell you

So he’s still ready to go ahead with his marriage with Arohi

Akshara I am afraid is now going the Abhimanyu way anger and ego and rejection have taken over it’s her turn now to act recklessly

I liked whatever Abhinav said today but don’t know if he’s using reverse psychology with Akshu to get her to defend their marriage or was really honest

Precap from Akshus side not getting a good feeling

Akshu said you didn’t hear my answer to Abhi

My gut feeling She is going to tell him she rejected Abhimanyu he’s her past and loves Abhinav and only Abhinav,

thereafter I don’t know what’s going to happen

Arohi did not say she wants to break the engagement she said she’s not ready right now,

Since Abhi has left Akshu behind maybe Arohi and Abhimanyu are going to give each other time to get to know each other as a couple, friends, start afresh on a clean slate and same for Ak and AA

So both cross pairs getting to know each other on an adult level ( as in dating)

episode belonged to HC acted very well 👏👏👏 he’s a fabulous actor especially in subtle emotional scenes the difference between when he spoke to Shefali and Arohi was so well done 💕💕💕

JS was okay too

I don’t know how they are going to reunite because I feel both are ready to move on, one after repentance and the other in anger

I've heard somewhere that there's no meaning of repentance if you're repenting to gain something

Here abhi really realised all his mistakes and repenting without any hope to get Akshara back in life

This is the real repentance now we can forgive him for all the mistakes he did

Now I just want him to defend Akshu infront of his mother and also make her realise her mistakes but that's not going to happen till Abhir's truth revealation

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Who here actually wants to see him with Arohi?? Not me certainly. It was really sad actually to see him repent on one side and then show that he has changed to Arohi. From calling Akshara a murderer of his babies and baby brother, he swung to telling Arohi - you are a good mother, I respect you.

When we think about it from that angle, we cringe from all directions.

As for marriage institution - if the show wanted to show single parenting and how good a man or a woman can do it if they love his / her child - we wouldn't be here today. There would be no Abhinav and no Arohi holding onto that chain, standing near the door of Abhimanyu's room, holding a glass of milk.

@Bold - Better to spiral out here among us than take it out on innocent furniture or electronic devices 😆🤗

Not in a 1000000000 years would I want to see Abhimanyu and aarohi.. I have to tolerate her cause the makers won’t kill her. Yes it is sad, which is why that conversation makes me sad, this vulnerability and honest face was suppose to be for akshu.. not her!!!

so true, spiral here and keep my stuff intact lol, I’m happy and so is my furniture lol!

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Today one kid is lashing out and the other is sitting in one corner, refusing to eat but crying that he is hungry 🤣

Slap them both straight! Who has that spatula? I need to borrow it lol

Originally posted by: Hopefaith

@ bold what I meant was starting to get to know each other before marrying, for themselves not for Ruhi rather than jumping in to marriage because he’s been rejected

Abhimanyu Birla wants a rebound to get akshu out of his system, so he wants to clear the air with aarohi! Oh Dr. Birla akshu is here to stay, so you may need to try something else to move on loll!

Originally posted by: Suvika.

Agree 100%

Reunite options I am seeing only two.

1. Abhinav's death

OR

2. Abhir's health.

I don't like either option but if I have to choose between the two, I'd go for option 1 followed by option 2.

Abhinav - I don't think he is using reverse psychology. He seems like a simple, normal, genuinely good guy, his fears and thoughts natural.. (OK makers, I'm prepared to be clowned 🤡😆.)

makers will pull something out of a bag and make us look like clowns! Here we are over analyzing episodes like we are doing our masters on this show! Writing our thesis and trying to defend it.. the makers will come and say Abhinav who? This show is about Abhira and abhira end game! Loll

Originally posted by: IAMHope

The pendulum shifted waaay to the other side - from zero realization to “over” realization and guilt. He will now squish organic memories of Ak thinking it’s paap to think of a married woman like that.

Nav is asking the right questions to get her thinking. I hope Akshara focuses only on her exams for the moment.

Many, many thanks Suvika for watching the episode and writing us a summary 🤗

@red - damn!! I didn't think of this angle!! Double damn!! 😆

Akshara - yes I think irrespective of what she says, he'd say first do your exams and then we will start our life together. (fingers crossed)

🤗

Originally posted by: iheartChai

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Grace, the makers have to first remember the said conversation na 🤣

Originally posted by: 25LALAn

after tdy's episode really no hope for abhira... there is abhi who realises what he has done and feels he deserves nothing and then there is akshu who is now all in for her relationship with abhinav to start even with love. I did not sense any feelings from her towards abhimanyu not love, not anger, not hate, nothing... I guess so much for soulful love it seems as if abhi only felt something for her.. I did not say love cause he self proclaimed he doesn't know the meaning of love. is there an itv drama where the FL also realizes what she has done or is it always all the time ML mistake?

Akshu is still angry and she is fearful. She doesn't want to lose this illusionary world she created. She literally has no one. Goenkas have been shown to be useless. Obviously she has no connection anymore with her ex in-laws who all blame her for Neil's death with the exception of Shefali probably. Abhi her ex-husband was not there to stand by her when she needed him the most. She is the most angry at him and she rejected him which has kicked off his realization and eventual redeemption.

They have shown so many indications that the house in Kasuali is not the same. And Abhinav is saying some truthful dialogues about the situation that is happening. Abhi and Akshu's is love is genuine. He doesn't belong in this equation because he is not Abhir's real father and he is not the partner for Akshu. It's just he's also feeling sorry for himself and blah, blah, blu, blu pity talks. Akshu will forcefully make the decision to move forward. But when push comes to shove she will receive the same realization that she cannot move on because she only loves Abhi. This is the parellel track of how Abhi tried to move on and ended up proposing marriage for Roohi's sake to Arohi. But when he realized what this marriage really meant with how his room was going to be redecorated (his memories of Akshu and him in that room being removed) and his mom making comments about husband and wife relationships he started to freak out. This will happen to Akshu as well.

So everyone is slowly being reset. Abhi is in realization mode. He will have his chance to redeem himself when Abhir's birth truth comes out. That is when Akshu will receive her reality check regarding her choices. Reunion is still a long ways off but things are moving forward to that place.