Originally posted by: shirin04
hi i have an entirely diff perspective. Even dev and vidhi did not talk about this,that does not mean ki vidhi should not work as she had not clarified before. And abhimanyu is a man child who has refused to hear her side and honestly considering how she was being thrown out of the house even i would have wanted the house to my name. The raichands could have seperated her from her daughter if she didnt have the house to her name. As far as i have seen she doesn’t just flunk around the “the house is mine “ at every point and has mentioned it only when she was being extremely humilated and was about to being thrown away. If satyavati wanted to give vidhi responsibility that is fine but that should not come at expense of humiliating someone else no matter how bad you think she is . Also priya treats vidhi like trash because vidhi deserves that. If you Come around my house and start lecturing me about how to be a good mother and wife i would have also treated her like trash. If vidhi just stayed in her lane and did not try to butt her nose in priya’s affair I don’t think priya would have even bothered with her.
This is something that I am really conflicted about - I keep going back and forth on Priya, so just going to try and put my thoughts into words. Priya’s character had a ton of scope and there was a time where I could sympathize and relate with her, because all she was is misunderstood.But I am unable to do that right now.
She is no longer just misunderstood, she is willfully trying to do harm and put people down. What satya did is unacceptable, but she could have either kicked everyone out or walked out herself. I would have respected that more than anything. Any well read/educated woman would have done that. She has means, she now has a house that she can sell.
She keeps harping about her MBA - anytime in the last many years she was married she could have taken a stand and walked out. If she was that confident about having a highly paid job, she could have very well gone and tried to find one. She could have done that instead of taking the house from someone else. That is just crass and cheap.
She has thrown her relationship with abhi under the bus and thrown her towel in willingly with the ilk of maasi and Amba.
Vidhi crosses a line every time she comments about simmi, but both Priya and abhi are responsible for that. If my niece were to come in and tell me my parents are fighting and I’m scared, would I just sit by or would I go talk to them? Yes there are boundaries that one shouldn’t cross. The last time simmi tried to talk to her mom, instead of listening, priya shoved her. So I don’t blame her for going to vidhi instead.
For how much ever she flaunts her mba and her hoity toity upbringing, her behavior ever since vidhi came into their house has been extremely cheap.
Re bold: as much as I wish that to be true, it is not true - priya and maasi humiliated Vidhi a few times before she started butting her nose in Priya’s business and simmi. She doesn’t like Vidhi because of her goody two shoes nature and she has mentioned that in the past as well.
Again - I don’t think it is Vidhi’s business or anyone else’s business to comment about anyone’s parenting style, and she should stay out of that. What she said during the school fiasco was way way out of line.
But when a child comes and tells you she’s scared - I don’t think anyone can just sit by and watch.
People tend to tread on eggshells when it comes to new relationships, and vidhi hasn’t been that way. She is at fault there too - and I think even if she were to try and mind her own business, circumstances don’t favor her. Maasi started pitting them against each other, and priya for the lack of better sensibilities fell for that. Now satya in an unnecessarily dramatic way did the same. I wish vidhi had said no, but why would she?
Please forgive the word vomit - but Priya’s character has been completely butchered. As much as I want to try and relate to Rishina’s version of Priya, the way the scenes are written tell a completely different story.
Edited by sns23 - 2 years ago
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