TERE BIN-Yumna Z-Wahaj Ali DT #16 Meri Sari Umeed Bas ek Insaan Se Hai - Page 43

Originally posted by: aimmyangle

Exactly he respects her feelings as he is also suffering from one side love but what i think is he is still unaware of that how madly she is ... At what extent she goes... Us ki haya p yaqeen karnay ki sirf yeh waja nahi the k haya n a k bol dia use r meeub nahi dikhi use ... Us n yaqeen islye kia becz wo sb batain meerub use roz bolti the k she didn't want to live with him she didn't consider him her husband ... So jb use kisi n kaha k chali jao to wo chali gai here he wants her to take a stand for their relationship ta k use bhi pata lagae k meerub bhi kuch effort kar rahi hai relationship k liye .. but when haya said to him n he compared her word with meerub actions and talks so he belived her ....

Originally posted by: spnfan

Meerab herself revealing her bedroom secrets to rohail will be the nail in the coffin. No matter how impulsive someone is it's utterly dumb thing to do and there will be no justification for it. Forget murtu even an open minded liberal husband won't forgive that. It's not about being open minded but about the trust between a husband and wife. It's very rare when females talk about their sexual relationship with their husbands to their male friends even in a liberal society. Women talk about it with other women but not to their male friends. Here rohail isn't even shown to be that close of a friend for her to tell anything related to her marriage forget bedroom secrets. If rohail was a friend with whom she can talk about these type of things then he could have been the first person she went to when her parentage secret was out. The girl didn't even keep any kind of contact with not just him but her female friends as well. That itself shows how shallow her friendships are.

Even American or other western shows rarely show female characters discussing their sexual relationship with her husband to their male friends.

Each and every word is 👏

Judging by the writer's interview she seems quite intelligent regarding these issue ( and she should as her profession asks her to have these basic social knowledges)

So i hope they don't show something tooooooooooo logic-less i mean illogical. ..jiska equation 10 threads khol ke bhi hum na nikal paye.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

The major issue I had with their review yesterday was this.

Convenient feminism is honestly so off-putting.

Aamn really said Meerab is playing hard to get, like 'ab bass karde, meerab' really?

All of this is not intentional from Meerab's end. She never wanted to get married to Murtasim in the first place. Circumstances left her with no other option and she gave in. Even Murtasim knows that. Didn't he make it very loud and clear to Maa Begum in episode 20 that 'I am fine if she doesn't acknowledge me as her husband. I am happy that she's atleast staying me within me, even though our marriage was not willful'. The husband knows but they don't 🤪

They really need to stop with the whole 'judging' Meerab for being an ice princess and not sleeping with her hot and happening husband yet. Would they say the same if they thought Meerab was the hot and happening one (not that she isn't) and Murtasim kept resisting her advances? Surely, no. They would have a different outlook then. Double standards, eh!

Meerab is already deprived of so many agencies, her wishes, her dreams, her choice of partner (actually both of them here) but sure, they can sort it these issues later, let's get the physical barriers broken first. 🤪

What is hair pulling about their opinions is that they start the video with Ushna Shah, what happened to her was horrible it is criminal how people ganged up on her and destroyed her wedding. Good on you guys for your support of women on how they have a right to decide what to wear, right to decide on what is best for them, right to express themselves freely without being judged by society, right to be happy.

Then then go into the TB review trashing the female character of the show. Hold on what happened to all that free will, right to decide, right to an opinion, right to be whoever she wants to be. So all that talk was just before marriage, so after marriage what husband decides. Yes Meerab is a fictional character and Ushna Shah is a real person, but don't we express our opinions on fictional characters based on our expectations of real people.

No Meerab if wanted sex then she is a whore. SIMPLE case closed.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Maryam, especially is so well aware of Haya's obsession yet the girl never tries to warn her Bhai and Bhai of the extent that the girl is psychotic in her pursuit for Murtasim.

Maa Begum is huge dimwit too. In episode 21, Haya is outright telling Maa begum, 'mujhe acha nahi lagta Murtasim mujhse naaraz rahe' and all that and still her antennas are inactive.

Not to forget, her constant instigations against Meerab and even her advise to get their marriage annulled.

That suicide attack was ignored as if it was nothing. As if any woman would attempt self harm over random man on the eve of his marriage

Fools, I tell you!

Literally nothing about behaya and people's reaction towards her make an ounce of sense. It's utter rubbish.

Even meerab don't give much importance and all she does is complaint to murtu for encouraging behaya. For someone as proud and high as meerab that is a lukewarm response. At the start it was fine because meerab didn't care about murtu but now she does and she don't like a 3rd person actively bull dozing into her relationship and trying to break it. A girl like meerab would have definitely shown haya who the boss is.

What makes it all the more surprising is behaya isn't even trying to hide behind a mask. She is very open about her intentions even in front of maa begum. Whatever she is doing she is doing out in the open. She has expressed her explicit hate towards meerab and complete obsession with murtu to every single member of that household multiple times and not just once.

Originally posted by: Moonks

I think yes, until and unless there is a sudden change in a character or May be she would do this because Murtu is being touchy-touchy with haya so to teach him a lesson and it would backfire on her only😂😂

🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 If this happens and our doubts comes true main show se kuch dino ki sannyas le lungi.

Can't watch a female...that too who claims to be "main woh hun woh hun.. samajdar blah blah" doing this bewakufi.

Originally posted by: -INAAYAT-

Oh I am not blaming Murtasim in that sense. He isn't doing anything intentionally, but his lack of judgement in Haya's case is what's bothersome.

He got easily manipulated by her into believing that Meerab left him when he was unconscious and injured on the hospital bed.

Just imagine, what if Maryam didn't step up and tell the truth to Murtasim, he wouldn't have gone to stop her. They would have been separated.

That's where Murtasim went weak, in protecting their marriage.

Also think, he really didn't make a huge fuss about Haya lying to him, to the point that he yelled at his wife and she was about to leave him.

His empathy for Haya is trouble in his marriage. He is being a poor judge about it.

Originally posted by: mahiaana

🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 If this happens and our doubts comes true main show se kuch dino ki sannyas le lungi.

Can't watch a female...that too who claims to be "main woh hun woh hun.. samajdar blah blah" doing this bewakufi.

This is the reason of their eletrifying chemistry on screen.... They are very confortable with each other off screen... Wahaj is gentleman and makes you feel comfortable from First day... His all costars say this... And with yumna I never saw her this comfortable with any of her coastars.. I think she is comfortable with bilal too... But her repo with wahaj is so different... She really consider him as a true friend...

Imagine How much you have to be comfortable and close to your costar that you even talk to his wife on calls...

Najar na lge esi friendship ko

Originally posted by: spnfan

Meerab herself revealing her bedroom secrets to rohail will be the nail in the coffin. No matter how impulsive someone is it's utterly dumb thing to do and there will be no justification for it. Forget murtu even an open minded liberal husband won't forgive that. It's not about being open minded but about the trust between a husband and wife. It's very rare when females talk about their sexual relationship with their husbands to their male friends even in a liberal society. Women talk about it with other women but not to their male friends. Here rohail isn't even shown to be that close of a friend for her to tell anything related to her marriage forget bedroom secrets. If rohail was a friend with whom she can talk about these type of things then he could have been the first person she went to when her parentage secret was out. The girl didn't even keep any kind of contact with not just him but her female friends as well. That itself shows how shallow her friendships are.

Even American or other western shows rarely show female characters discussing their sexual relationship with her husband to their male friends.

Bold :- This is really worrying me to core. As i said in my other post not just murtu any sane person. Husband or wife whatever the gender , won't be able to forgive this kinda nonsense insensible act from the other half

I will again say that don’t underestimate Meerub, she is not immature like you all thinks, she knows when and where to strike. She is way more intelligent than Murtasim, but you can say that Murtu’s EQ is better than Meerub