Abhiya AT #328 ~ Ek Anaar Ke Peeche Saari Janta Bimar Hai - Page 26

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

You should always keep your financial and emotional independence. Shared bank account between partners is okay in one-two places for FDs and all, but you should have a single bank account for your salary, and have onus to decide where that money goes. It is not imperative to have a shared group of friends, it is wonderful to have your own circle where you can vent out and take advice. Because you need a support system that sees you as an individual too. If you give up everything for someone, they will have no value for you whatsoever. You will be equal to the furniture in the house.

~ Me, a phukat ka advice person with zero experience 😎

Yes , true.

As a married person I would say in a nutshell don't build your world around your spouse.

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

Mera jaana is waqt zaruri hai because I am heartbroken aur heartbreak or broken concept kabhi ghar walon ko samajh nahi ayega😆

They know my situation but they expect everything to be all ok in seconds which is not possible.

Absolutely understandable.

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

They will not understand my inner battle.

Why would I not want myself to be okay , ofcourse I want but nahi horaha toh kya karsakte hai I have to embrace pain and they will not like to see me like this so they should just give me time and trust on me for the time being 😳

I hear you 🤗

It takes time to heal a wound, sirf band-aid se kuch nahi hota hai ❤️

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

take your time dear. Life me ups and downs ate rhete he sabke sath hota he. 🤗

And if nothing, it makes you more perceptive.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

I hear you 🤗

It takes time to heal a wound, sirf band-aid se kuch nahi hota hai ❤️

Yes I know 🤗

And to be that strong one has to be given ample time to heal.

Originally posted by: palakluvsabhiya

🤗 trying just to get out of a 5 year relationship is a bit more painful.

It definitely is. You build your life around someone hoping for it to be a happy ending just to see everything crash and burn.

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

Absolutely understandable.

Wish they understand too and I am hoping they will 🤗

Originally posted by: nautankitadka

It definitely is. You build your life around someone hoping for it to be a happy ending just to see everything crash and burn.

😭🥺

And the last memory you have of them is not hateful.

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

happens. Pain is part of life just like happiness. Many of us have been through it❤️

And many of us have never been blessed enough to even have a relationship.

Atleast you had 5 years of that 👍🏼

Not comparable, just saying it out loud ❤️

Originally posted by: Abhaythevampire

I have new question. I was rewatching that sunburn healing scene. Piya ese pura din aram se tank top pehnkar ghumti thi. Jab abhay ko sun burn dikhane sweater nikalna tha to achanak itni kyun sharmane lagi? Five mins pehle to same tank top pehnkar library me ghum ri thi 🤣🤣

Woh kaunsa gaana hai, woh yaad nai aa raha hai, lekin it says something like saiyaan se sharmana something, that is true here 🤣