Anupama is a terrible mother to all her children

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I keep hearing that she is a horrible mother to choti Anu, and that she prioritizes her three grown children over the young child. I disagree with that. How long has it been since she last visited Toshu? She does not even seem to remember his bad state, kam se kam she could have phoned the Shah family to ask about his welfare. As for Samar, she never encouraged him to be mentally independent of her and instead relied on him as an emotional crutch. For example, when he had an overseas job offer, she did not even encourage him to go even though he was hesitant about going because of family issues she is partially a part of. Now that she has Anuj, she does not give him as much importance and treats him like an after-thought (I am a grown adult and if I visit my mother to celebrate her birthday with her I will honestly be disappointed if she asked me to come on another day because she wants to spend time with "her" family. It is not their anniversary or Valentine's Day that she needs time alone with Anuj. You can spend your birthday with all the important people in your life on your birthday. I even bring together separate friend groups and they get along and mix with one another for my happiness.)


NGL I don't know what to say about Pakhi. I mean she and the Shah family raised her to be an ungrateful brat but that is a collective problem.


She keeps saying she loves Anuj more than anyone else in the world. Which mother keeps saying that and what is the reason for it? You love your partner and your children differently and it does not make sense to compare two different kinds of love. Whom does Anupama love? She loves herself and herself only. She keeps running to the Shahs because of the importance she feels there; they have made her think that they cannot survive without her (more like they choose not to).


Honestly, I just read the summaries and skip the episodes now, because I cannot tolerate Anupama's sharmana and Anuj's roadside Romeo wala romance.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anupama said hum log baad ek saath celebrate karenge

To anupama ke khud ke bache raat mein kapdia house mein celebrate karenge anupama ka birthday

Anupama ne bilkul mana nahi Kiya Hai

Toshu ke saath anupama already 13 days rahi hai aur uske baad bhi rahi.

Ab har time Toshu ke saath nahi raha jaa sakta

Ab anupama beech beech mein Toshu ke pas aati rahegi

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Her own daughter son pakhi and toshu did not remember anupama birthday not even bother to wish anupama birthday toshu pakhi complete ignore anupama birthday saying mummy kya choti bachi hai jo is age mein birthday mana rahi hai amd both pakhi toshu celebrate promotion success of kavya infront of anupama when anupama first tme birthday show in serial

To jo pakhi and toshu ne kiya hai anupama ke saath woh Sood Samed Laut ke aa raha hai .as you sow u reap

Edited by surabhi01 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Anupama just met toshu on shivratri n he is fine now. He will take time to recover n no one can sit beside him all time. Everyone has their job n life to look after.

It's good anupama is taking space n also giving space to her children. Too much dependency on parents doesn't let children grow n it also creates issues with their spouses too. Like vanraj could go with kavya for Delhi job but because of his parents he is still unemployed. Pakhi is behaving normal when her mother n father stopped taking her sides.

Waise bhi in every celebration kapadia n shah come together n fight. It's better they don't come together for any celebration 😆

Anupama was expecting no one among shahs remembering her birthday like always so she planned her own birthday like she wanted this time. Toshu n pakhi doesn't deserve to celebrate their mother's birthday as they never remembered nor bothered to celebrate after knowing. Samar is happy in his mother's happiness also he has his love life now. So he should focus on that now n not his mother. Otherwise this girlfriend will also run away😆

Edited by naaznin - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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If my young son was confined to a wheelchair, I may not sit beside him 24/7, but I will surely be sad 24/7. It will be impossible for me to dance around happily, when my son can not walk by himself.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

If my young son was confined to a wheelchair, I may not sit beside him 24/7, but I will surely be sad 24/7. It will be impossible for me to dance around happily, when my son can not walk by himself.

How can a mother do romance while her child is paralyzed 😳

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Har time bachon ki marji those hi chalega ki jub marji aayi apni Maa se ache se baat ki unke saath birthday celebrate Kiya jub marji aayi anupama se Bure Dhang se baat ki unka birthday bhul gaye

Anupama ki bhi to marji honi chahiye

Anupama Kitna Tarasati thi apne bachon ke saath birthday manane ke liye bus time bachon ko apni Maa ji chinta nahi thi Aur aaj bachhe Taras rahe hai

Yeh sari situation khud pakhi toshu ki create ki hui hai .

Bachon ne apni marji ki ab Maa apni marji karegi

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Milk_cake

How can a mother do romance while her child is paralyzed 😳

How can a wife enjoy her Poti's homecoming ceremony when her husband is confined to a wheelchair?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

How can a wife enjoy her Poti's homecoming ceremony when her husband is confined to a wheelchair?

I still can’t forget those days when Maa had first world problems on who to prioritise 😆
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Those kids never remembered her birthday when she was a Shah bahu, now that she's Mrs.Anuj Kapadia even Vanraj Shah remembers her birthday🤣

Too much fun😆

Anupamaa always had and will always have her priorities misplaced, that's her inherent nature

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