Episode discussion # 18 note pg 146 - Page 76

They have to talk together and understand things rather than saying you are interfering and you are elder, you are not saying anything.

Originally posted by: Revutty

They have to talk together and understand things rather than saying you are interfering and you are elder, you are not saying anything.

BAs vo hi hoga. Donon jaldi ek dusre ko samajh lenge. Bas imaginary world me hi hota hai ki sab kuch jaldi bath karke ya bina baath kare donon ka perfect match hota hai. Par asal jindagi mein do log jo contrast hai usko ek baar chot khane se hi patha chalega a. Ab vo yahi dikha rahe hai . Par problem yeh hai ki agar vo khud ki jindagi keliye lade tho koi bath nahi par vo dusaron ke liye lad rahe hain.

Un donon ko samajhna hoga ki parivaar ki problems bhi khud ki rishte ki baad mein aathe hai. Jo kuch bhi ho uska asar vo khud ki rishte mein nahi padne dena hain.

Originally posted by: Fanzzz

I Ffed through the episodes....

So, what i understood... Amid all the chaos🤪

Pura raita fel rakha hai...

Abhi is behaving like an ar$e...(pardon my language)🤬

Priya has blown a fuse... But i am with her on the property thing... Now I understand why she needed a security...🤪

Problem in Raichand house is they don't talk... They react and then over react... The way Abhi brought out the entire thing in front of the entire family was so uncalled for...😵

Bamba and Yogesh for the first time have a solid plan and I feel it will work... Atleast for the time... But i still feel this dubba thing is a hoax...but something definitely happened in 1998..🤓

I liked the convo between vidhi and Dev... Dev has his own insecurities and rightly so... He has been alone for so long it's obvious he doesn't want to lose that one person who means so much to him...🤗

I loved that Dev again asked Vidhi not to interfere... I hope Vidhi learns it...👍🏼

She is new to the family... She needs to first understand the dynamics and the people rather than butting in everywhere and solving others problems... She should focus on strengthening her relationship with Dev... Such a typical ITV mahan bahu syndrome...

But there is so much drama that the chemistry between Dev and Vidhi seemed to have gotten lost... At least I feel it...🤔

I really liked the dev- vidhi parts of the last few episodes - I think the makers are trying to show their relationship/growth in their relationship but it is sandwiched in between all the family drama, so it gets lost.

Whenever vidhi is on screen with all the other Raichand’s I only see tulsi bhabhi. And it’s very difficult to relate to that version of her. Like they are trying to make her holier than every other Raichand and that is a tough pill for me to swallow.

I think ITV writers struggle to show anything without family drama - it is far from reality but they assume their target audience cannot relate to anything else. I wish they wrap up the 98 drama and move forward. It’s like they’ve opened a can of worms with that track and have no idea how to shove it down peoples throats.

Originally posted by: Revutty

May be he has the habit of handling responsibilities alone, solving issues alone , bearing pains alone .But now he should understand that he is not alone. His wife is his better half. Yeh kya baat huyi kee Vidhi interfere kee toh bole mein khud problem solve karunga,tum maayke chale jawo.... Bhaisaab aapne shaadi kyun ki ??? Please drama end karke kuch accha dikhawo makers.

it takes time to get to that mindset though, it doesn’t happen overnight.

And I think he is so so worried about vidhi fitting in, and not irking people that he wants to take her out of that situation, so that she will not be tempted to interfere or butt in. Like you said they come from very very different backgrounds and it takes time to find a middle ground.
Like she said she doesn’t want his wealth, he is like I don’t want your help in solving this. Both are two extreme reactions.

So true... With this 1998 drama, yogesh and Bamba plan and Priya and Abhi issue... Too much is happening together... It's all over the place... And Dev Vidhi never had got enough time to know eachother well enough... Plus Dev is set in his ways... At that age everyone is... He has been handling problems at home his way and it had always worked... So it's obvious he doesn't want any interference.... Vidhi is still immatured and obviously comes from a family and society where everyone leaves in each other pockets... Everyone has a right to comment in everything and get away with it...

So it's a complete mad house at the moment...

On top of that it's ITV where the writers half of the time are clueless how to handle raitas... So they go back to old tropes of making the bahu mahan who single handedly solves every problem...

https://youtu.be/DBOAUJV835g

Accha huwa you tube waale ne title nahi daali Maa - Beti kaa Sangam🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Revutty

You know what, Sneha in recent interview said that now she feels very much stress on playing Amba's role. She wanted to do different kind of villain apart what we witnessed in other daily soaps. But the plotting plans which is given to her now regarding Dev being a girl's dad she herself feels that plan as utter cheap. Because always she was obsessed for Dev and she is been noticing him for the past 15 years . So she is well aware that this can't be possible. She wants to do revenge ,but not following the tricks which are been shown in other daily soaps like bringing another girl , bringing a daughter and all..If she can't feels her character's capability is not properly executed she will probably quit. For now she won't quit as already she has signed according to contract for 3 months . But once the period of contract time ends if she feels her character's progression is not shown in proper way chances are highly that she may quit.. Yaar Amba is big potential for this show. Why makers can't just keep her classy by showing her just as a business rival of Raichand industries? It would be interesting to watch

This is interesting. If you go by the Mahabharat angle (which I think they left behind long ago), Amba fails in her first lifetime, does tapasya gets a boon and comes back as shikhandini etc etc. Going with the ITV tropes - maybe after her grand plans fail, she will pretend to die and come back in a new avatar played by a different actress (Aamna maybe?)

Originally posted by: Revutty

https://youtu.be/DBOAUJV835g

Accha huwa you tube waale ne title nahi daali Maa - Beti kaa Sangam🤣🤣

Kyunki beti bhi kabhi cousin thi ye title bhi daal de to koi hairaani nhi hogi.

Originally posted by: carljung

Kyunki beti bhi kabhi cousin thi ye title bhi daal de to koi hairaani nhi hogi.

🤣🤣

Yes Raichand house ka Naya naam rakh dena chahiye - Mad Raichand House! 🤣🤣

I think Amba and Yogesh played their cards quite well this time - bring a storm in Raichand house, hit the weak links (like Abhi for taking over Raichand empire + exposing Priya's EMA + Vidhi didi for 1998 to plant seeds of doubt in her mind regarding Dev's past) so they can carry out their biggest kaand of taking over Raichand industries! 😡😡

They did everything in quick succession so that no one (including Dev) can truly smell what's going on with business to get to the root of the issue! 😳😳

On one hand Yogesh will keep Abhi distracted in office and keep fanning Abhi's drinking problems; on the other hand Amba will keep fanning Vidhi Didi's 1998 doubts!

And bam - like a colossal disaster - Raichands will, unfortunately, lose everything! Business and family reputation! A name that Dev worked very hard to earn and protect for 30 years! 🥺🥺

Dev and Vidhi Didi obviously need to work with each other come to a middle ground - Dev loves her too much and is trying to protect her and ease her into the new family so she can learn to read the room first before jumping in, but Didi being Didi is too eager to get her hands burned! 🥱🥱

Originally posted by: Fanzzz

So true... With this 1998 drama, yogesh and Bamba plan and Priya and Abhi issue... Too much is happening together... It's all over the place... And Dev Vidhi never had got enough time to know eachother well enough... Plus Dev is set in his ways... At that age everyone is... He has been handling problems at home his way and it had always worked... So it's obvious he doesn't want any interference.... Vidhi is still immatured and obviously comes from a family and society where everyone leaves in each other pockets... Everyone has a right to comment in everything and get away with it...

So it's a complete mad house at the moment...

On top of that it's ITV where the writers half of the time are clueless how to handle raitas... So they go back to old tropes of making the bahu mahan who single handedly solves every problem...