Bilkul pagal gai doosron ki zindagi mri taang adana hi kaam hai.
Isski parvarish toh hum dekh chuke hain - Dev, Shiva, Krish abb inn chaaron bacchon ki zindagi bigadne pe tuki hui hai.
If she is so gung-ho about correcting kids bad behavior at a very young age, why didn’t she follow the same thing with the devars. Why are these 3 nut jobs have to get married and ruin a girl’s life.
My husband and I take turns to spend time together as a family, go bicycling or hiking or kayaking or individually with our kids, I take them for movies or shopping, both of then together or individually too like mother-son time or mother-daughter time, likewise my husband spends time with them too, takes them on a ling drive, father-son and father-daughter time. In these individual trips we discuss a lot and learn a lot from our kids which my husband and I discuss later amongst us. I am thankful to God that in this changing world, my teenagers still talk to us, share their problems, seek our support and are grateful for their privileged life. In one such conversation, my son said, if children make mistakes elders pounce on them but of elders make mistakes and the children call out, why is it so difficult for elders to accept it, especially in Indian society. I told him it used to be like that when I was growing up in India, but his times have changed and acknowledged I bet parents do listen to kids theses days especially if they are called out on their mistakes. He was thankful that my husband and I are all eyes and ears on our kids. We both are definitely open to what our kids say and many times it has helped us in correcting our mistakes too.But here if Devars and Devranis say anything, Bhabima becomes defensive and starts playing her victim card. Kaisi Maa hai ye? 🙄
I agree 100%, Akka.
My sister and I share a similar relationship with our parents (like you and your kids), to the point now that they talk to us about all things. Sometimes, my dad even asks us for advice because we offer a different perspective. And we still talk to our parents about anything and everything, regardless of the topic, because they made sure we knew that no matter what they'd always listen. In India, this is a growing idea but still uncommon (sadly).
Dhara has nothing to do with the word 'Maa'. She is a nutcase with superiority complex, saviour complex, stupidity complex, and any other crazy complexes. She has no clue what it takes to raise a child properly.
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