GHKPM daily episode discussion thread #93 - Page 122

Originally posted by: Moor278

Please tell me where I said her intentions are wrong??????

I have only mentioned body language.

The contradictory question was for you, because you said I am assuming stuff about Tanmay. So I said I can say the same for you.

What do u mean by it? If I am "assuming" her intentions are not wrong then how r u assuming her intentions as?

Because the whole purpose of dragging tanmay becomes valid only if the actress intention is wrong. When it is right then how does it concerns tanmay? Because for him it was just a scene which is being shooted infront of many people.

Anyways this discussion is going nowhere.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Suffocate mentally, emotionally and aaj jaise she was sleeping, even physically suffocate karegi

Haa...bacha apni behen se milna to duur baat nhi kar sakta. School nhi jayega, abhi yeh behavior ek DCP k bete k sath dikhaya jaa rha hai...mamta to nhi hai. Isse pagalpan kehte hain.

N mere liye injustice of highest order. Kal Sai CN aa jayegi to P Vinu ka hath apne hath se tie karke ghumegi I guess

Originally posted by: Nirip

You have to. Jaruri hai

I agree with y’all. 🤗 This post has made me emotional for some personal reasons. Anyway— hats-off to you guys. 🤗🥺❤️ i can say that you guys are doing an amazing job with your kids. ❤️

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Let Vinu tell he wants to go to Sai. Then need to see extreme behaviour.

Jehh baat👏👏

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

I should start doing this for my kid too

Please do... and try the boundary stuff at home as practice.

If the kid knows that they shouldn't do so n so with close relatives... they would understand to not do it in front of strangers.

If we let family members be close to the kid... will he/she understand the difference between doctors, trainers, acquaintances, mummy papa's friends, neighbours, househelps etc? How else can you teach to distinguish this?

These are the people they see on regular basis... only restricting for strangers won't solve the purpose. Does abuse happens only through strangers?

I personally believe that except for primary caregivers nobody should be allowed with the child intimately and unchapreoned.

Baki jisko Jo lage 😔

Originally posted by: Thanuj

Virat during Shruthi's talk, in his first meeting with Shruthi, he looked at her baby bump and started talking—the same kind of scenes were repeated many times. I felt extremely uncomfortable while watching that baby bump scenes. So I called out.

Coming to the characters and what image the team made in our minds,

When Virat was Sai's husband, he had done patralekha delivery, which Sai allowed him to do. She didn't make any cheap comments on it, but still, as an audience, I didn't like that scene because of Patralekha's intentions and their past history.

Regarding the recent bus incident, Patralekha made many cheap comments regarding the CPR process. You took sai in our arms etc etc.. not one time many times infront of family members.Here, if someone were in the virat place and giving CPR to Sai, then also can't see anything wrong in that scene.

Coming to Patralekha's character, all these years she had shown a lusty woman run behind her brother-in-law, tried to separate him from his wife, and at the end she succeeded in her plan. So we have some image of the Patralekha character in our minds. because of the actor's inability to emote different emotions with vinu and virat. In both scenes, her expression is the same.

Note: My analysis is based only on the characters of Virat, Patralekha, and Sai.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Again, where have I even mentioned the child actor pe zulm. You start the topic and then go on a backfoot by blaming someone for something that they have not done. Yaar Kumuda, I know you hate the show. I don’t. I come here to enjoy. So please let me enjoy. ❤️ Please 🤗

You urself called me pakhi fan just because I asked people to not use sensitive topics like pedophile. So it's not me who is blaming people for the things they haven't done.

Anyways it's better to end it here.

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

" It is you who is assuming her intention is not wrong"

What do u mean by it? If I am "assuming" her intentions are not wrong then how r u assuming her intentions as?

Because the whole purpose of dragging tanmay becomes valid only if the actress intention is wrong. When it is right then how does it concerns tanmay? Because for him it was just a scene which is being shooted infront of many people.

Anyways this discussion is going nowhere.

sorry to interrupt ..

first of all the problem was how the scene was translated which did not convey what it meant to be...I believe The actress did not have such gross intention either...But the actress failed in big time conveying the right emotion and it came out unpleasant...I have little cousins and i have seen how they are restricted from physical contact with others..That goes with this child's actors parents..And also same goes to aria ' s parents...

I think this is what majority of us want to say

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Don't tell me you didn't support the statements where the kid name was dragged. Didn't you react to those statements by agreeing towards it by thumbs-up reaction.

I gave "thumbs-up" reaction to all posts. I did that to even your posts even when I don't agree at times. Yeh logic toh flawed hai. Again, I come here to enjoy because I love the show. So please do not question me because I "thumbs up" comments.

I already finished long ago.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Please do... and try the boundary stuff at home as practice.

If the kid knows that they shouldn't do so n so with close relatives... they would understand to not do it in front of strangers.

If we let family members be close to the kid... will he/she understand the difference between doctors, trainers, acquaintances, mummy papa's friends, neighbours, househelps etc? How else can you teach to distinguish this?

These are the people they see on regular basis... only restricting for strangers won't solve the purpose. Does abuse happens only through strangers?

I personally believe that except for primary caregivers nobody should be allowed with the child intimately and unchapreoned.

Baki jisko Jo lage 😔

Love this...As a parent, I have the same belief.❤