GHKPM daily episode discussion thread #93 - Page 120

Originally posted by: Moor278

I don't mind accepting that I was the one of them who said this...

I didn't like it then too

Yes me too didn't like Savi going out with jagtap all alone in the night. When she came back, they showed k her clothes were changed. Savi is shown as an independent child. So ok.

But as you said k treatment of the scene is sick n pathetic

Originally posted by: Moor278

First of all I didn't call her pedophile. I don't insist on her being one.

Read through all of my previous comments. I have only maintained her body language is weird and I felt squeamish seeing it.

And I have mentioned not just the makers and actors but also his parents.

I am also not saying that 'I know' Tanmay would be uncomfortable.

My entire point is even if he is will be able to distinguish the difference? Who is the responsible adult here? Who should be the one to understand this difference between good and bad touch?

And how would you explain the situation 'without' bringing in the child actor in the scene when it's a scene specific between an adult and a child.

Thirdly... it's not just intention... assault doesn't only mean 'intended' assault. And it's of varying degrees. Don't we feel uncomfortable in crowded buses and trains? Are all those people pedophiles?

Also it is you who is assuming her intention is not wrong. To flip the question on you... how do you know she did not intend it?

If you think I am assuming about Tanmay ... I can say the same for you.

What you are not understanding from my comment is why couldn't there be a better treatment to the scene from the makers and boundaries from the actor? Like they do for scenes between adults.

The show and especially NB Aish are repeatedly bashed for mixing reel and real and everyday there is someone or other commenting on their proximity in scenes. It's still okay in this context... but not with other actors and especially child actors.

P.S. let's just end here.

Saying it again... it's his parents who should be concerned and should voice it out to the makers. But if they are okay, who are we to complain?

But since mrng people are complaining about something which is purely imagination not resemblance with reality.i had watched tanmay last show too.His parents are comfortable.I really don't understand what's other problem

Originally posted by: rac1

It is good .u need that in today society. Especially with girls .

Absolutely... I also go through with her on good touch bad touch on regular basis.

At some point we have to let the kids be on their own... The least we can do is prepare them.

Originally posted by: Moor278

I don't let anyone touch my daughter on her face, kiss her, sit on their lap or take her pictures without my consent.

What level of paranoia would you call this 🤣

Originally posted by: Moor278

First of all I didn't call her pedophile. I don't insist on her being one.

Read through all of my previous comments. I have only maintained her body language is weird and I felt squeamish seeing it.

And I have mentioned not just the makers and actors but also his parents.

I am also not saying that 'I know' Tanmay would be uncomfortable.

My entire point is even if he is will be able to distinguish the difference? Who is the responsible adult here? Who should be the one to understand this difference between good and bad touch?

And how would you explain the situation 'without' bringing in the child actor in the scene when it's a scene specific between an adult and a child.

Thirdly... it's not just intention... assault doesn't only mean 'intended' assault. And it's of varying degrees. Don't we feel uncomfortable in crowded buses and trains? Are all those people pedophiles?

Also it is you who is assuming her intention is not wrong. To flip the question on you... how do you know she did not intend it?

If you think I am assuming about Tanmay ... I can say the same for you.

What you are not understanding from my comment is why couldn't there be a better treatment to the scene from the makers and boundaries from the actor? Like they do for scenes between adults.

The show and especially NB Aish are repeatedly bashed for mixing reel and real and everyday there is someone or other commenting on their proximity in scenes. It's still okay in this context... but not with other actors and especially child actors.

P.S. let's just end here.

Saying it again... it's his parents who should be concerned and should voice it out to the makers. But if they are okay, who are we to complain?

If a person kisses a child out of pure love that is not assault if the child is comfortable with it.

But if a person even touches a child finger out of bad intention then it's definitely a assault.

So for me intentions matters.

There is a pic of ayesha aria having lip kiss. No one would dare to accuse ayesha of pedophile. Because most of the people believe her character. The same consideration should be given to other actress too.

One side you are saying you are not calling actress intention as wrong other side asking me how do I know her actions are not wrong. It's contacting.

The thing is about actress body language. Criticise her body language not her intentions.

Originally posted by: Jrf2021

But since mrng people are complaining about something which is purely imagination not resemblance with reality.i had watched tanmay last show too.His parents are comfortable.I really don't understand what's other problem

It didn't look appropriate to me ... and it is not because I don't like the actress.... The vibes were off... not motherly.

The rest I have mentioned in the comment you quoted.

We are voicing an opinion like we usually do.

If so many people felt it... shouldn't it reflect something?

Originally posted by: Moor278

I don't let anyone touch my daughter on her face, kiss her, sit on their lap or take her pictures without my consent.

What level of paranoia would you call this 🤣

Moor same here. Aur kisika aise touch karne ka sawal hi nhi. There was a case on itv series set...actor ko phir kaam nhi mila abhi tak. Decorum bhi koi chiz hai. A

Even boys aren't safe. Abhi gender bias nhi raha issmei. Arrey kia hum kuch jyada ho off-topic chale gye...

Sorry

SAI LOVES VIRAT

VIRAT LOVES SAI🤣🤣

Yaar Mera sasta review thoda tharki hai. Mahaul ki sensitivity and garamahat ko dekh ke soch rahi hu pata nahi kisko dukh hoga. But no kids are involved. Unko exclude kiya hai

Tanmay ka naam toh topic divert karne ke liye liya tha shayad. Asli cheez pe focus karo. Patralekha was creepy towards the vinu.

#SaveVinu

Originally posted by: Moor278

It didn't look appropriate to me ... and it is not because I don't like the actress.... The vibes were off... not motherly.

The rest I have mentioned in the comment you quoted.

We are voicing an opinion like we usually do.

If so many people felt it... shouldn't it reflect something?

So many people is very abstract .it's just 10 if members who are saying this again and again.its not reality.

And it doesn't reflect anything.i watched that scene specifically after reading comments here.but I found nothing wrong.it was directed badly but then entire ghum direction is pathetic.