Katha Ankahee -- #5 daily episode DT - Page 39

Originally posted by: Viaanrocks

Meko ek baat batao birdie pe itne samajhdaar log kyun nhi..

How is this possible that all rational and sorted people are present here🥳

I will suggest you to go to birdie with same username and ask this question

First hand experience mil jayega 😊

Btw are you celebrating republic day 🤔🤔🤔

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I read this thing on youtube comments

Vian and PapaG both did mistakes but Vian's fault is bigger because PapaG was hurt

What's your opinion on this

I will give my opinion on this😈

IMO people should consider the fact ki in real world only relative help in dire situations..And people raise funds by donating certain amount..

Even if someone is most efficient person , happy lively and all then also no one will be this generous to pay this amount unless it is blood relation .

PapaG had the duty to protect aarav and not viaan

He is at fault than viaan

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I will suggest you to go to birdie with same username and ask this question

First hand experience mil jayega 😊

Btw are you celebrating republic day 🤔🤔🤔

Yes by eating jalebis😎

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

yea; but her conditions were stated in such a normal way -- you would have thought she was negotiating for higher salary. basically there wasn't that kind of emotional bite to it.

I didn't have the energy to get into debates about what to call it and so just stayed away from that for a while; people have different interpretations of what happened. based on how katha reacts, it was not harassment because if she saw it that way, she would be highkicking him and causing a huge tamasha. she is that type of woman. she is not majboori to cry and swallow her tongue. so for her, it was clearly a deal. she hasn't come to terms with it fully and so is taking out her frustration on him but it was indeed a deal and she walked into it as an adult fully aware and owning her choice.

Originally posted by: Viaanrocks

Yes by eating jalebis😎

Nice

🥳🥳🥳🥳

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I read this thing on youtube comments

Vian and PapaG both did mistakes but Vian's fault is bigger because PapaG was hurt

What's your opinion on this

Sorry unable to update the tag list 😏

But wanted everyone's opinion

Where as viaan was being an idiot! He just wanted to test if the dish is good or bad 😝 i still don’t understand why he ate it all 😏

Sorry for being funny but on a serious note Viaan is wrong for that night proposal and because he has no bloody right to test her! Give loan or reject loan - he has only 2 options, testing option is out of syllabus and thats why he is wrong!

In my mind viaan is so good that, even if the woman who stole his dad from him and his mother or the other girl whom Viaan misunderstood for cheating his business (literally the 2 women he hates the mosy) even if they ask him help for saving their children, he will do it! He is not a bad guy! He couldnt see a puppy hurt😭

Originally posted by: TeluguAmmayi

i am discussing this so much here because i am active in twitter i feel the hashtag is being one sided towards katha! Its like Viaan said “sleep with me or lose your son”😅

also why is it called a sin yaar 🤣i mean both are adults and single. There was no force, there was no cheating… i agree there was majboori and test 😂

But calling it paap is too backward for my liking 😟 i would have called it a sin if they cheated on their partners😌

On Twitter I have seen those who bash viaan are fan of 2 serials of same production house. They compare viaan with the 2 leads.. I feel they are insecure of katha serial popularity and always mock viaan..

Neutral people are slowly turning soft towards viaan

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I read this thing on youtube comments

Vian and PapaG both did mistakes but Vian's fault is bigger because PapaG was hurt

What's your opinion on this

I know you didn’t tag me …but my two bit is

It’s like comparing apples and oranges, I am absolutely clear that Viaan is an arsehole and PapaG is an old fashioned egoistic man.

PapaG’s behavior is still a reactionary one. That is he feels he has been wronged, his ego is hurt and he behaves accordingly. Therefore to forgive him means to take into account other aspects of his behavior, which is what happens in real life. A mother is often found telling her kids “yes, daddy was wrong in yelling, but beta he loves you”

Viaan is NOT reactionary, it stems from his own insecurity and frankly bratty egoistic self.

I am absolutely clear that what Viaan did was unforgivable and frankly all his actions in real life scenario can be construed as a harasser. In fact to me it’s not the ONS where he is the harasser, it’s the behavior afterwards - the slight taunts, the dragging her to Dubai, asking her again in the elevator. This makes him a terrible man. NONE of this is excusable.

BUT

The story of his redemption is the one I am totally getting manipulated into. For me it’s that arc that makes for interesting viewing. For the father to redeem himself is very easy, that’s why you find those scenes, boring and dragging, because all he needs to do is have a sincere apology- but in Viaan’s case, that will NEVER do.

Originally posted by: RatiPandey615

Just a q- in the OG, does everyone get to know about the 'deal' or does it stay between the leads?

Also, what id Ehsan is being all that extra to make Viaan confess? (A part in me really doesn't want him to turn grey!)

Originally posted by: Ssp123

I read this thing on youtube comments

Vian and PapaG both did mistakes but Vian's fault is bigger because PapaG was hurt

What's your opinion on this

hahahha... you didn't read my long long long essay on papaG?? 🤣

so yes, he was hurt. I don't see him as a bad person but parent-adult child conflicts are complicated. I don't see it as even whitewashing. if you are a family, you have to make a choice. are you going to be pragmatic and decide to let go of your grudge or do you hold on to it? it is a choice and people make different choices all the time.

I am watching this dizi where this lady surprised me with her choice when she found out her husband had been cheating on her with her cousin brother's wife. rather than divorce, she decides that she has had too much pain and loss. basically she went into a depression after she lost her 2nd child and after a few years, the husband couldn't take it and sought solace elsewhere. so on one level, she understands him and is instead more mad at the other lady -- because she is a relative and just sees her as a user. as of now, their eldest daughter can't understand why her mother has forgiven her father so easily. but the mom simply does not have the energy to lose another person in her life or go through another conflict.

so when it comes to people, conflicts and losses, we make such decisions. it is quite possible that given aarav coming so close to death, you can ask if it is worth it to deny him his relatives when they want to get to know him. doesn't he deserve to know who his father's side of the family especially when there are no folks on the mother's side? doesn't he deserve to have a sense of apne? if that has to truly happen, then obviously she has to let go of her hurt feelings or try to accomodate papaG in some ways. not easy but folks do it all the time in family conflicts. especially in an indian setting, we don't walk away from our relatives -- it has to take a lot of really toxic conflicts for someone to say "thats it, I am done!"

also, we have to note that papaG came with the money -- if katha had picked up the call. so you can't say he didn't deliver but rather he didn't when asked immediately. if she had trusted and sought mamaG's help, the problem would have been solved differently...

as for viaan, I don't see him more at fault. like I have mentioned in other posts, things would have gone very differently if katha had simply stated what she needed the money for. instead, she let herself be misunderstood. either it was pride or she judged him or a combination of both.

basically I see them both as human and frail -- different generations but struggling with similar issues.