Pandya Store | Episode Discussion #233 - Page 84

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am seeing lot of negative comments against Raavi for going against Dhara under the BTS segments.

I would say finally Raavi has woken up from the slumber and realized how manipulative Dhara is and will do the things that benefit her the most,

Whether Raavi is haply with Shiva or not currently, it doesn’t change the fact that Bhabima got them married by zabardasti. Raavi even brought it up recently,

Raavi, Mami, Mama, Anita were infact walking away from the marriage hall, Bhabima pleaded with them to give her a chance to correct her mistake bit we all know how it turned out fir Raavi for the past 2 years. She went through hell in her marital life, there is no denying it and Bhabima definitely has to be blamed to some extent. Even during one of the scenes in the haveli where they both talk in the mandir after Rishita insults Raavi, she simply asked why none of the Kandyas told her the truth about Dev is actually in love with Rishita and not her, she would have gracefully exited. Somewhere Dhara was responsible for Raavi taking the extreme step. Raavi felt betrayed by the entire Kandya family. These commenters easily forget all of that and see everything from only Bhabi’s POV, 😔

People do tend to get attached to one character and focus on only their perspective. All their mistakes are easily forgiven or excused while those of others are made out to be grave sins.

I personally believe Raavi leaving that house at any point of her marriage, with or without Shiva, would have been justifiable. She hasn't ever had an enviable experience. Not only has she been badly mistreated and disrespected but every single time her thoughts were easily dismissed. She wasn't allowed a say in matters even pertaining to herself. Why would anyone want such a life.

Even Suman seemed to care more about the house than her son's life. That continued in today's episode too. Once again she brought up the house. Is Raavi really supposed to be alright with this. Not to forget Shiva's self-destructive tendencies. She's been trying to save him from himself too. Though the way they left does seem to imply Shiva had no idea or say about it which probably doesn't bode well for her in the future.

Where is police?? while openmouth (Shiny is absolutely shuddh horrible) bhabhi is hopping around going bslustic on parivar jodi todo bakwas?

she was on khatiya with openmouth when chikoo was kidnapped by forum. With full family around her on their toes.

Here she was least concerned abt chutki more about minions escaping!

She not once worried about Shiva being thrown of stairs, hit on head with washing bat. More worried with actual smile on her face chalo sab jaate hain!

kahaan? Kyoon? Why did gombi not stay in hospital with Raavi?

And God sooni?? She is still at it, self victimization of non issue. Trying to be dukhi mahaan.

Should have given chikoo back first time around. Had second chance after shweta took him & dDp sDp surrenders to cult Dhara.

But nope. Gombi bought chikoo for Dhara & ruined ShiVi & deshita’s lives.
Couple still hasn’t got it after 7 years & still are at rubbing it on another young child: same age as how Krish was when Dhara took over.

I fear for chikoo. He is being groomed in nastier way. Full emotional conditioning.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Did you all notice, Dev didn’t even take Suman’s aashirwaad before leaving? 😔
I don’t blame him because Suman was too gaslighting them all saying Dhara will solve everything and get the store and the money back.😕 Too much leeway given to Dhara in that house which led to her sitting on top of everyone’s head and controlling their action and decision.

Dev was ahead of Rishita to leave the house. He was more eager than her. Makes all sense. Being a parent and having an idea about a mental trauma your child has just got out of and post that losing her to an evil woman, he wouldn't even look back to this house.

His anger on Krish was 200% justified. Krish Suman Gaumbi and Dhara no one deserved any greetings from him.

I cannot even begin to comprehend RIshita and Dev's state of mind. The not knowing can at times be even worse. Hope they don't show anything too extreme with regards to Shweta and the baby.

If Suman is unable to leave the house due to her memories there, how is Rishita supposed to live in it because of hers. Asking her not to leave so as to keep the family intact when she just had her baby daughter taken away from her...

Originally posted by: mpks1

More FB is coming in today’s episode ofcourse from Bhabi’s POV. Hopefully they don’t edit Raavi and Rishita giving it back to Dhara.

These were the scenes I want to see, where Bhabhi ko bohut sunaaya jaayega (not that anything will register in her head, the hopeless idiot that she is). 😕

Thanks for tagging me, Akka. ❤️

The problem with Choubays and the creative team is that they have indeed shown Bhabima not having a child or children for these devars sake as the most extreme sacrifice anyone can do even more than one devar almost losing his life and now has severe brain damage and another one lost his child to the most evil person Kandyas ever knew. All these sacrifices have been dumbed down or rather pooh poohed in front of Bhabi being childless.

This choice of not having kids was not forced down (zabardasti) by anyone on Bhabima. It was her sole decision, she did not even consult Gombi, infact just informed about her decision. Whereas there have been so many instances in Raavi and Rishita’s life where they were for ed to do things against their wish

So how is Bhabima’s self inflicted sacrifice is given so much credence whereas almost losing his life or losing a child to a monster who kidnapped her is not a big deal, not worth mentioning or not worth any extreme reaction? 😔

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Kis nibbe ki line churayi hain inn logo ne.

Kitna cringe hain yeh.

I feel bad for the child actor

Jab bada hoga aur sunega na toh yeh reaction aayega 🤢

Exactly cringe(100times)

That's what I feel jab bhi dhara or chiku ka koi bhi scene aata hai ek toh baache ke apne umar se zyada bade bade dialogues plus bhabhibaa ki pathetic acting 😮‍💨😮‍💨🙏🙏

Probably ye week pura yehi chalega or next week ek hafte me baaki 3couples ki life dikhayege last day me Krish ki entry becoz he is new villain jisse 🔔kisi ko fark padhta hai💁

Not to in any way excuse Krish's negligent behaviour of taking the baby down with him which led to her being taken away, but some of the dialogues said to him were so problematic.

How could Dhara talk about how he should have let the other child be taken away. He isn't some inanimate object or possession to be given away. Knowing how she treated him earlier, how can anyone ever wish for such a thing. It didn't come across as her prioritising RIshita's feelings over her own but rather as her thinking of people as dispensable. It was such an uncomfortable scene to watch.

Putting the entire blame on Krish, insulting him, asking him to leave and then claiming everyone left on their own while she tried her hardest to stop them was so strange. Not to forget, claiming to have not known about the problems that rose amongst them. They really do seem to not remember what took place in the previous episodes.

Originally posted by: Pritha_31

This is what Dhara has been doing since forever, does a mistake,then plead, beg and blackmail for another chance and then does a blunder

But TRP audience and some blind fans of Bhabima don’t see it that way. But when you ask them if they would put up with someone like Bhabima in real life, the same people would run thousand miles away.
You have to learn to call a spade, a spade. There is no need for ifs and buts. Until Bhabima as a character realizes how many blunders she has done which has affected people living around her every single time, there is no way the family will live in peace and harmony😕

It’s unfortunate that Choubays never want to show Bhabi wrong, even today she blamed Krish for family separating. There is partial truth to it but she is equally responsible for the family to separate too.

Originally posted by: mpks1

The problem with Choubays and the creative team is that they have indeed shown Bhabima not having a child or children for these devars sake as the most extreme sacrifice anyone can do even more than one devar almost losing his life and now has severe brain damage and another one lost his child to the most evil person Kandyas ever knew. All these sacrifices have been dumbed down or rather pooh poohed in front of Bhabi being childless.

This choice of not having kids was not forced down (zabardasti) by anyone on Bhabima. It was her sole decision, she did not even consult Gombi, infact just informed about her decision. Whereas there have been so many instances in Raavi and Rishita’s life where they were for ed to do things against their wish

So how is Bhabima’s self inflicted sacrifice is given so much credence whereas almost losing his life or losing a child to a monster who kidnapped her is not a big deal, not worth mentioning or not worth any extreme reaction? 😔

People have one track mind, makers have one track no mind.

Having a baby is such a beautiful feeling and they have made it into a psychopathic disorder. Do do do . Bas de do inko.

They had 3 couples. They could've shown various methods of being a parent.

One couple could've shown adoption

One couple could've shown surrogacy

And one couple could've have shown the pregnancy period.

Social message ka social message, track ka track. But no, stealing and buying kids is the only option.