Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #232 - Page 101

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

The platform should stop throwing words like mentally challenged that casually: it's bad taste!.

The makers have been incredibly insensitive to so many real life issues, that it doesn't phase me of them being even more insensitive but mental health is not something I take lightly and I have a huge issue with this, huge issue 🤬

There are so many people in the world that are going through mental health issues and the fact the makers think it is ok to use mental health as a plot device only to prop up their pathetic character once again is insulting. It is very very very very very insulting and the makers are asses to think it is ok to do this

They are using mental health as a plot device only to show bhabhi has mahan again when she once again grooms and fixes Shiva to be her bhakt.

I have refrained from using the word "groom" for a very long time but it needs to be said.

Bhabhi's "parvarish" is not something that can show her as mahan because she chose to not have any babies. Her "parvarish" of the 3 devars is not motherly and it doesn't come across as motherly, it comes across as nefarious, wrong, and inappropriate. She has brainwashed her devars and that is not "parvarish", it is grooming. If the makers think that is not what they are trying to write or show then they need to take a really hard look at the show and see how their writing and directing is coming across. The show needs new creatives, writers, directors, editors, and makers. Take the leap then have an entirely new crew come in a write the story. Because the current writers are insensitive to real life issues.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

I am even more confused now 🤪

Just say what is wrong with him instead of having everyone guess what is wrong with him 🤪

The makers are afraid of coming across as insensitive, hasn't bothered them before 🤪

Maybe KD and the makers thought mentally challenged is offensive so they had IF change it?

I don’t see this going well for any of the parties involved.

They will have to wrap up Shiva mental stability track very quickly because they are going to get a lot of backlash.

I'm not sure I understand what they are trying to say either.

While I'm glad they realised the phrasing wasn't appropriate and changed it, not sure what exactly losing his mental stability entails. A clear explanation would be much appreciated.

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Yes! It's this weird itch to Google about medical issues! ---

All i get is: arrange your affairs in order lol. 😭🤪

I get that itch from time to time lol 🤣

I have been really good about not doing it since my aneurysm scare lol 🤣

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

Can someone explain the difference?

Losing mental stability or lack of mental stability

Some would even consider mental stability synonymous with being without – or having an absence of – a mental illness. Adversely, when someone is deemed “mentally unstable” by society it, in general, means that their moods, feelings, and/or actions are consistently unpredictable

Mentally Challenged

Someone who is mentally handicapped is not able to learn or develop skills at the same rate as most other people because they have a problem with their brain. It is now considered more polite to say that someone is learning disabled or that they have special needs or learning difficulties. This could be due to genetics, happens at birth or severe trauma later in life due to an accident or any other physical injury.

Originally posted by: anoniya

I'm not sure I understand what they are trying to say either.

While I'm glad they realised the phrasing wasn't appropriate and changed it, not sure what exactly losing his mental stability entails. A clear explanation would be much appreciated.

It was ignorant and full of misinformation. 🤓😃

Misleading.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I don’t see this going well for Shiva- Raavi. Their life is going to be shown to be miserable so Bhabima can renter their lives, teach them how to live, teach them how to raise a kid because only she can raise good kids 😕

On par with Shiva- Raavi, one other couple that will be equally affected are Dev- Rishita because their child has been kidnapped and lost.

Bhabima and her PC, Nimboopani are still happy because they got the house, store, Chiku, money and she has already started planning and plotting her next move, using Suman’s health to emotionally blackmail all of them.
Another one who is a roaring success is Piddhi. Only Choubays know what he did to get rich

So in short the moral is, be a criminal, do injustice, ruin peoples lives, you will be tewarded with success, money and power- Examples Shweta, Bhabima and Piddhi

Be selfless, giving, think about others you will end being paupers like Shiva- Raavi.

Dev- Rishita are neither criminals nor selfless yet they are affected in a different way, though they have money but no mental peace or sanity.

In all this only Bhabima looks the happiest in the leap promo😕

It is incredibly sad that the makers think that any of this is appropriate and in the end bhabhi will end up being mahan 🤪

Bhabhi has ruined everything because of her zid and she still thinks she is correct 🤪

People understand and root for characters who understand their own mistakes 🤪

Then the makers and 4x4 fans think we don't understand bhabhi, no idiots bhabhi doesn't understand how she has hurt other people 🤪

Shiva's mental stability track is going to be a very poorly handled, no doubt about it.

Originally posted by: anoniya

I'm not sure I understand what they are trying to say either.

While I'm glad they realised the phrasing wasn't appropriate and changed it, not sure what exactly losing his mental stability entails. A clear explanation would be much appreciated.

The phrasing could have been better handled but the track for sure will not be handled with the respect and sensitivity it deserves 🤪

They are going to make a mockery of mental health issues and it is not going to be pretty, that is for sure.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

The makers have been incredibly insensitive to so many real life issues, that it doesn't phase me of them being even more insensitive but mental health is not something I take lightly and I have a huge issue with this, huge issue 🤬

There are so many people in the world that are going through mental health issues and the fact the makers think it is ok to use mental health as a plot device only to prop up their pathetic character once again is insulting. It is very very very very very insulting and the makers are asses to think it is ok to do this

They are using mental health as a plot device only to show bhabhi has mahan again when she once again grooms and fixes Shiva to be her bhakt.

I have refrained from using the word "groom" for a very long time but it needs to be said.

Bhabhi's "parvarish" is not something that can show her as mahan because she chose to not have any babies. Her "parvarish" of the 3 devars is not motherly and it doesn't come across as motherly, it comes across as nefarious, wrong, and inappropriate. She has brainwashed her devars and that is not "parvarish", it is grooming. If the makers think that is not what they are trying to write or show then they need to take a really hard look at the show and see how their writing and directing is coming across. The show needs new creatives, writers, directors, editors, and makers. Take the leap then have an entirely new crew come in a write the story. Because the current writers are insensitive to real life issues.

That was very well put, Preeti! ❤️ makers and articles both seem ignorant.

There's this weird fight of ignorance with more ignorance. 🤓

Originally posted by: mkc12345

I get that itch from time to time lol 🤣

I have been really good about not doing it since my aneurysm scare lol 🤣

Btw how's your head now? What did cause the headache? 😳😳😳 don't tell me it's pretend-something 😛