Anupama Live Updates and Daily Discussions Thread 29 Dec2022 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Koms9

what is wrong with you? stop smoking those leaves and bring back Kiya.

Not bcoz of smoking but not smoking for 2 days😃

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Originally posted by: Tvfanatic85

Jaise uske actions chal rahin hain thode Dino main Shah parivaar main maid banke rehne ki aan Baan Shaan wapis aanewali hain

Usi layak hai maataji. Jab tak usko koi latarega nahi usko samajh nahi aata

Originally posted by: amulbaby06

Man, look at her audacity saying I am not at fault. Like seriously. What ever Anuj questioned is spot on and this lady didn't even able to understand that and in her own world justifying her act... WoW....

Can someone please help me when Anuj is giving full class, unable to understand her expressions. If someone understands please help me. Is she panic or scared or hurt. What is that? Completely blank. For a sec I thought it was like why my pet is barking today which he never did...

Exactly.. even her yesterday's expressions were like Anuj isko kitna satata hai...

Originally posted by: strancho

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I agree that they must have waited for the adoption process... Not because of grandmotherhood or other stated reasons but because the couple didn't know how compatible they were at all... They went on their honeymoon and came back with a child... There is a reason why the government and the legal system have established rules that the couple should be in a stable marriage of atleast two years... Also some people do get pregnant on their honeymoon even in arranged marriage with strangers but atleast in that case, they have 9 months to adjust to the change and also being a biological child, the motherly instinct somehow does set in for a lot of people(of course there are some people who struggle to accept even there).... plus there's an added benefit of the entire family supporting and pampering the mother enough to make the change more easier.

I am not against adoption neither do I feel adopted kids and biological kids should be treated differently. On the contrary, I feel if the parents have better understanding between them it would be much better to accept and love a child not related to them and treat them better. If one person has even the slightest doubt in adopting, then the adoption process must be put on hold until they can clear all their doubts. No one should adopt on a whim or a fancy because in the end, a child's life hangs in the balance. Also if there are other kids, the kids must be given time to accept the new sibling. The new kid must not be thrust into the family which will make them treat the new kid with distaste and again make the life of the kid miserable.

Sorry, I get emotional when it comes to kids... And having personally watched closely some kids from broken homes and seen kids with negligent parents, I can't stop myself from saying these things. Purely my pov. No offense to anyone.

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

I agree that they must have waited for the adoption process... Not because of grandmotherhood or other stated reasons but because the couple didn't know how compatible they were at all... They went on their honeymoon and came back with a child... There is a reason why the government and the legal system have established rules that the couple should be in a stable marriage of atleast two years... Also some people do get pregnant on their honeymoon even in arranged marriage with strangers but atleast in that case, they have 9 months to adjust to the change and also being a biological child, the motherly instinct somehow does set in for a lot of people(of course there are some people who struggle to accept even there).... plus there's an added benefit of the entire family supporting and pampering the mother enough to make the change more easier.

I am not against adoption neither do I feel adopted kids and biological kids should be treated differently. On the contrary, I feel if the parents have better understanding between them it would be much better to accept and love a child not related to them and treat them better. If one person has even the slightest doubt in adopting, then the adoption process must be put on hold until they can clear all their doubts. No one should adopt on a whim or a fancy because in the end, a child's life hangs in the balance. Also if there are other kids, the kids must be given time to accept the new sibling. The new kid must not be thrust into the family which will make them treat the new kid with distaste and again make the life of the kid miserable.

Sorry, I get emotional when it comes to kids... And having personally watched closely some kids from broken homes and seen kids with negligent parents, I can't stop myself from saying these things. Purely my pov. No offense to anyone.

Absolutely Agree T. If you remember we all bashed Anuj when he brought up adoption. But then Anupama relented and again when he asked her later she said yes. So, once you have said yes you can't backtrack now

Originally posted by: strancho

Absolutely Agree T. If you remember we all bashed Anuj when he brought up adoption. But then Anupama relented and again when he asked her later she said yes. So, once you have said yes you can't backtrack now

Must not backtrack.... it's not can't....

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

Must not backtrack.... it's not can't....

Surri surri

Originally posted by: strancho

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Should have waited for what yaar?? Not clear

Dadi of samar baccha Or nani of pakhi baccha

She is right yaar, her grandmotherhood is ruined.

Dadi banna kya hota hai, tum nahi samjhoge pompy babu

Haven't you heard mool se byaaz jaada pyara hota hai..

Maybe Anupamaa just can't bring herself to admit that she doesn't or can't love CA the way she loves her other kids. It would be a question mark on her status as a mother as well as an acknowledgement that she is not perfect. Considering how proud she is of being a mother, it's ridiculous that her husband has to explain to her repeatedly what their kid CA needs from her.

She wouldn't have thought twice before paying attention to her grown up kids, even when they don't ask for it. The parallel with Paakhi's dance competition was deliberately added in this track. Anuj wasn't around then but someone else in the family can point it out to her.