Originally posted by: deeps07
I agree with the digging deeper..😆I didnt meant digging deeper for shiva and dhara to explore their character..nut rather to showcase their character..glorify them..nothing else..that made these characters look stupid selfish and over glorified..🤪
And abt sneha..if u ask me now..i will support sneha..100%..though it will not be abt his appearance..but abt his behaviour..stupidity..lack of reflection..rudeness..
But during that time, we didnt knw heera was developing into an insecure sache ehsaas explorer man child..so my point was ravi and shiva hated each other..shiva hated her and was very verbal abt it to everyone..i wont forget the glee he had when dev said he is in love with someone else and it was shiva who first suggested to reject ravi in the mandap..that was very low of him..but when the situation arrived..he cared..and i thought that was real him..i liked him for the shock and care he showed when ravi tried to attempt suicide..
So when sneha says bad stuff abt him, it was not abt the bad stuff that made him insecure..it was him.believing that ravi hated the way he is so much to ever like him that made him hurt..and he was nor willing to change..thats real from his part i think..not wrong..he doesnt have to change..so he started showing his frustration on this truth of his over ravi...which ended in kanwad yatra fight...cant blame both of them..he never realised ravi liked being with him..else she wouldnt have made so much effort to workout things with him..so its only until that track i liked his character..becz i was able to connect with him..then dishuu enters and he needed sache ehsaas by two timing..his character went down to drain..🤪
The insecurity track came way too early in the story. I think it had only been around a month since their wedding. They had barely spent any good moments together. More than him believing he wasn't good enough for her, he was upset thinking she believed that. Him being so affected by her opinions at that point of time was quite strange.
Also, while it made sense for him to want to be liked the way he was but not when he behaved badly with her. Not once did he even attempt to treat her better. Instead of showing Raavi gradually overcoming her past and starting to see Shiva in a new light because he treated her well, they showed him behave even worse. At that point she genuinely had no reason to hold on to their marriage.
Her love realisation later on also made no sense to me. What she went through was more than enough reason to fall out of love with someone not fall in love with them.
For me, Shiva's reaction to Raavi's suicide attempt was more about him coming face-to-face with the consequences of something he and his family did. He had never even once considered how she would react when the truth would come out. Unfortunately the guilt did not last very long and till date he only blames Dev for whatever happened. He showed absolutely no patience in dealing with Raavi after they got back home and that is something which has continued till date.
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