Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #227 - Page 13

Originally posted by: Anushka_31

Only thing people expecting is tht raavi shud realise ki gltii uski bhi for whatever happened...

Obviously Shiva is at bigger fault because he accused her for adultery but raavi is too at fault....jhooth bolna, Arnav ko personal life me involve krna

Agr usko lgta tha ki wo glt nhi hai toh diwali pr kbhi jhooth na bolti or pregnancy se kbhi darti nhi... because pregnancy ka sunkr obviously Shiva was happy and even at first place Shiva had no problem with shirt too....

So jaise in raavi's words Shiva ko nhi pta ki uski biwi kya kr skti hai same way raavi ko bhi nhi pta hai ki Shiva kya kr skta hai .... always misunderstood him

Pregnancy was yet to be diagnosed..not telling him until confirmed is the most sane thing any women in Raavi's position would do..becz shiva is a volcano..he can burst out filth in whetevr or wherever regardless of what condition she is in..she was literally dying in pain due to fibroid..she wanted to know the cause before dealing with shiva..its normal..reasonable..and no crime..if she wanted to hide abt it post knowing abt fibroid, then it would have been reasonable..but she was waiting for him to come and see her..waiting for some love and care from him..sadly he never bothered to give..

For diwali she only didnt invite arnav into house..she did tell the family members abt arnav coming..if she was indeed lying why would she even give those gifts ti the people..

Knowing about the fact that our spouse can never be too cheap to sleep with their collegue and make baby with them.. is different from assuming that shiva would have been happy to see Arnav during deewali..infact Ravi or even shwetha was right about shiva..he was not happy seeing arnav in deewali..ravi procrastinated it and thought better not to get Arnav inside and shiva sulks more..🤪

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Humko na Alice party mein bulati hai na kanwar humko kya lena dena

Koi bulata party mein tu baat aur thi 😆

Ek second

Konse party ki baat ho rahi hain ?

Mereko toh yeh bhi nahi pata 😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

Yes..he took her to that lodge..that makes him stupid..his mistake..not a criminal to be never trusted..and maybe ravi too shouldnt have gone with him..but she didnt know what kind of place she will be taken to..that she will need more men to support..

I wrote abt her reason to go to Arnav after the shop molestation attack..why wouldnt she..isnt he the official that can help him..and lets be honest..shiva was not saying lets find him to settle matter..he wanted to fight and she didnt want him to fight and get jailed..she is already too much harassed to go thru that too..its obvious..people heard her stop shiva..call bail buddhi..but never wanted to hear her say the reason..but she did say that too..that he will increase the problem with his hot-headed behaviour..and its a fact..krish had already given that creep..she wanted the root cause of all her troubles to be cleared. And its Arnav who can help her in that..just to make shiva feel.good, she cant keep pampering him by giving in to everything he does in his impulsiveness..seeking help from an official over ur spouse for a crime happened on the wife doesnt make the wife wrong..if anything shiva should have done was support her..be with her..rather than sulk seeing her with that guy..

@Bold, but Shiva didn't know that either. Raavi went in a shady room without knowing how bad it could get. For all we know, Arnav could have been the hacker and used their situation to lurr her there and took advantage of her. Ngl, when his entry was made, I thought he was the checker cause he was sketchy. And I am saying that it wasn't Shiva's fault either that he misunderstood the situation. What his fault was to accuse her in public without giving her an opportunity to explain herself in private.

Erm, not really. Arnav isn't a police either. He is helping her find the hacker. How is going to him instead of a police a better option to deal with a molester. Had she said I want to go the police, it would have made sense. And wasn't she the same Raavi who thought Shiva was a hero when he helped recover Dora's jewelry last year with maar pit? So it didn't make sense why she said "mujhe Arnav ke pass jaana hai" in that situation.

But then again, this Raavi and Shiva are both out of character since the leap so, who knows.

Atleast now they are making Raavi take her own decisions for their relationship but the writers are still not letting Shiva take any decisions, big step for their relationship. They brought BhabiMa in between.

Abb kaise hoga, growth and positive changes? 😔

It’s part of Kandya Store history that Bhabima makes a bigger mess between Shiva-Raavi, then Raavi is the one clears the mess like how she stopped the engagement and how she told the truth about Jabariya shaadi 😕

Nothing is going to happen in the characters because this show is all about,

“Jeevan ka ye pahiya, ghoome sadaa”’ and BhabiMa has to be in the center of the wheel.

“Woh bhi nahi jeeyegi na kisiko jeene nahi dhegi”

But Shiva saw them

So where his protection went ?

I simply find that one stupid

But if Shiva really cared

Why didn't he barged in ?

Rather CA her in public

Originally posted by: deeps07

Pregnancy was yet to be diagnosed..not telling him until confirmed is the most sane thing any women in Raavi's position would do..becz shiva is a volcano..he can burst out filth in whetevr or wherever regardless of what condition she is in..she was literally dying in pain due to fibroid..she wanted to know the cause before dealing with shiva..its normal..reasonable..and no crime..if she wanted to hide abt it post knowing abt fibroid, then it would have been reasonable..but she was waiting for him to come and see her..waiting for some love and care from him..sadly he never bothered to give..

For diwali she only didnt invite arnav into house..she did tell the family members abt arnav coming..if she was indeed lying why would she even give those gifts ti the people..

Knowing about the fact that our spouse can never be too cheap to sleep with their collegue and make baby with them.. is different from assuming that shiva would have been happy to see Arnav during deewali..infact Ravi or even shwetha was right about shiva..he was not happy seeing arnav in deewali..ravi procrastinated it and thought better not to get Arnav inside and shiva sulks more..🤪

Konse epi dekhe hai...raavi herself was in doubt with her pregnancy.....at first bina confirm kre Shiva ko nhi btaya it's ok....but then auto me pallu ke neeche chupna was extreme...kuch glt nhi krri thi still she wants to hide....and then doc announced tht she is pregnant she started crying n when she got to know it's fibroid she was happy

Vaise bhi bhabhi se pehle shiva deserves to know abt her health but usi se chupaya tha

Her reaction here was the most stupid because acc to her Shiva would not be happy with pregnancy bt maybe she also has doubts

She lied to family tht Arnav ko khi jaaana tha or Arnav se jhooth bola ki family ko khi jaana....Shiva se gift chupaya or exchange chupke se kiye

Sending Arnav like tht she just seed the doubt in shiva's mind

Shiva was not happy with Arnav on diwali kyunki uske liye wo sirf bahar se raavi se milkr or chla gya...Arnav aaya tha sbse milne pr raavi ne milne nhi diya na so raavi n shweta both were wrong 🤪

Raavi jhooth bolti gyi or sb chupati gyi

Kisliye? Kyunki shweta ne kha tha

~Chotti bchii hai kya jo shweta ki baat me aagyi~

At least raavi is telling him how she feels in the precap about her job and what she thinks he and dhara did. Shiva would have sulked insulted her and she would have no clue what was happening lol Also indirectly he is responsible when he was complaining about arnav he put that idea in bhabhiji head that its all that guys fault not shivas own thinking. Dhara is as much responsible for his thinking coz she never corrected his mindset always coddles him and tries to make raavi yield again and again.

His fb were easily explainable the foot injury wow she got hurt at work he knew what a shock it wasnt even a big bruise but he made drama out of it and got mad at her instead of being more concerned.

the second side hug fine he didnt like that he could have told her but he was already fighting with her after his non apology take back and then he still was suspecting her after he fake apologized for the motel drama.

then the diwali incident she did tell the family but how its it her fault arnav came to the house to wish the family its not like its the first time he came to her house he even came to wish krish this was diwali but its all raavis sinister plan lol

the hospital thing again raavi didnt tell him or call him it was rishita and yeah she got scared of getting an injection he held her hand if he wasnt there would the nurse hold her hand or the doctor would shiva question them too if their were male?

Even after knowing raavi was trapped in a conspiracy shiva is still stuck on arnav and not learning anything except going and crying to bhabhiji so she can fix the issue he needs to grow up and man up an fix his own problems.

Originally posted by: manny136

there have been a lot of passive aggressive insinuations on this line here and online in other platforms its been disturbing to say the least. If we look at the whole trust and CA that is on Shiva coz until he fixes what is wrong with him how can she believe he will never do this again. If we are looking at the overall issues raavi needs to figure out when she stopped trusting shiva and that again comes to the part where he kept on pushing her away. As his anger and insults increased she retreated further away from him. But comparing Raavis mistakes to shivas and trying to make them equal isnt fair coz shiva crossed the line and this was not a one off incident he has done this more than once. Raavi might make bad calls but never are they done in malice or purpose to hurt anyone but shiva never thinks before he does or says things that cannot be taken back. Real life they as a couple should take time apart if not permanently but as a fictional couple they need to work on things and shiva does need to work extra hard on redeeming himself coz a major line was crossed when he said those things to her. Wish they could live apart from that zoo of a family.

In TT, there definitely are extremist in both ends. All I am saying is one of them isn't 100% liable. For me it was 30:70.

Instead of this boxing crap, what I would have wanted to see would be Shiva sleeping outside of her place. Raavi feeling bad and calls him in, but he sleeps on the couch. Shiva stays there as he refuses to go back without Raavi. Shiva trying his best to be a better husband and bei g supportive. Doing small things which makes her work life easy. At the same time, he's away from his family and is friendly with new neighbors. Similar situation crops up with him being over friendly/helpful with neighbors in carrying things and Raavi feels jealous seeing things out of context and leading to her realization. But this time, both Talbot out, all while being away from the Kandya Zoo on their at Raavi's place.

That's what my Shivi shipper hear wants from fictional ITV, but we will never get that

Originally posted by: Palak2812

But Shiva saw them

So where his protection went ?

I simply find that one stupid

But if Shiva really cared

Why didn't he barged in ?

Rather CA her in public

Are you talking about him seeing them entering the room? Yeah and he went and banged on the door too and called out.

Yeah, he should have called the management to go inside, but she went inside willingly and he didn't hear any cry for help.

Again idk why you keep saying the same thing of CA in public. I have already said that was wrong and we're already on the same page on that. My point isn't that Shiva isn't wrong. My point is that Shiva isn't the only one who's wrong.

But I guess you'll never see what I am trying to say. So will end this convo here.

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Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

In TT, there definitely are extremist in both ends. All I am saying is one of them isn't 100% liable. For me it was 30:70.

Instead of this boxing crap, what I would have wanted to see would be Shiva sleeping outside of her place. Raavi feeling bad and calls him in, but he sleeps on the couch. Shiva stays there as he refuses to go back without Raavi. Shiva trying his best to be a better husband and bei g supportive. Doing small things which makes her work life easy. At the same time, he's away from his family and is friendly with new neighbors. Similar situation crops up with him being over friendly/helpful with neighbors in carrying things and Raavi feels jealous seeing things out of context and leading to her realization. But this time, both Talbot out, all while being away from the Kandya Zoo on their at Raavi's place.

That's what my Shivi shipper hear wants from fictional ITV, but we will never get that

But some act like its 50-50 or more delusional 90-10 lol

Yeah I would have liked him to be near where she is living instead of the boxing but this new people or stupid jealousy is not right. They made a joke out of raavis feelings regarding jealousy and for shivas they made him cross a line that is hard to take back. I rather they interact with eo away from the freak show family and shiva to finally chose raavi instead of his stupid family lol