Originally posted by: freebird_dd
She did some foolish mistakes
Hided some stuffs like her shoot, there was one scene where she hug Arnav
As shivi were nt talking to eo toh job ka dhara ko bataya tha nt shiva
She called shiva bailbuddhi this all i remember
Bt kafi cheeze inki tit for tat way tha example like suitcase thing
Certain things i might hav skip bt on twitter all these things were mentioned evn much more
She hid the shoot for a surprise..and compared to what shiva hid during loan kand,this was harmless and natural..
Bailbuddhi..dobi..its high time people stop picking on just lame issues in this show..becz people are doing such high levels of crime here..and all they r worried abt is a name?...🤪
Abt hug..i dnt exactly remember the context..but i dnt remember any scene which she did that was off putting..
(where as shiva had done greater deeds like get kissed for sache ehsaas..)
And why was shivi not talking to each other?..thats the issue thr..not telling abt to dhara..shivi were not on speaking terms bevz shiva character assassinated her in front of the public right after she caught the hacker..what did he say..that she came out of lodge with arnav..even the public started talking abt Ravi becz of him..i say she should have left him right there..and what he did.. tried to justify his dimaaq ka locha.(thats the word he used)..and when that didnt work..said sorry..and in two days when she didnt forget her hurt, he was fed up and he had the audacity to tell her to make this relation work all by herself and she will have to go behind him..after that all shiva has veen doing was make disgusting faces when he sees her.. get suspicious abt anything and everything..and make snide remarks..kola..heera..pathar dil..phontru addict..arnav arnav arnav ..and the scene he created in the kitchen when arnav visited to wish krish on his wedding?...why wouldnt she be scared of him..no women will be have the courage to behave freely around her husband if he is suspicious and accusatory abt everything she does..
Her fear abt the chance of being pregnant when there was not much physical intimacy is real..she wanted to be sure before dealing with shiva and his tantrums..
Ravi said she and shiva didnt have phsyical relation since a month..but it could be possible that her last period was spotting and she was indeed pregnant since two months..and if she was indeed pregnant, how would shiva react ?..judging by the way he kept talking abt arnav after knowing abt pregnancy,i am very sure he would come around and think abt how she became pregnant and get suspicious abt arnav again..this whole drama would have happened while ravi would have been carrying his child.
The thing is..things are not tit for tat here..
Shiva has always been irritated by ravi since she started becoming independent and having a life other than the pandya world..that channeled into suspicion..and that too on a person like Ravi..who tolerated all the humiliation and abuses of his since long..only becz of her love for him..she never once punished him for his mistakes..calling him a bail buddhi doesn't make him a victim and justify him accusing her of having an affair...she has supported and loved him more than enough ( especially in the beginning of education track)to understand his value and respect in her life..and if he cant remember that before accusing her of cheating on him, then it just shows how narrow minded and selfish he is..
Anupamaa
