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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: sadiltl

If pakhi had any brains, after today she should not have any hope that virat would touch her ever 😳. So she better concentrate fully on vinu , selflessly. If she has any self respect, she should leave him and share vinu’s custody instead of remaining a nanny!!


She doesn’t have both and hence leading a pathetic life still 😕

Patralekha is an idiot. She should stop being emotional and make Vinu the weapon to always be between Virat and Savi and Sai. But this is what she will eventually do 😆

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Posted: 2 years ago

So finally the black saree is on

Sai looks sooooooooo hot 🔥

Jaggu ke hisaab se poori Machine gun

So beautiful Ayesha is

Elegant and beautiful

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveSaiAyesha

So for all these reasons, (few are done in rage, misunderstanding nd few being emotional )we should discard what sairat had nd probably hv still??

P. S.we can get emotionally close to anyone who stays with us regularly that doesn't equalise the person whom we love nd whom we are emotionally close or watever, those emotional scenes showed bcz he misunderstood Sai moved on so he thought he can too otherwise till Virat never gave that vamp any hope that he has feelings for her, nd abt flaunting being his wife is legit a lip service of his that's it nd we never know any hidden secret or reason which compels him to do so

I spoke abt myself not what others should do.

What they shared for me has been destroyed by what they share now.

Abuse cannot be justified bcz it was done in anger or in effect of extreme emotions.

Not for me .

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

When people have multiple marriages they learn to deal with it .. things are never black n white when children are involved in broken households.... no responsible parent ignores the child to pander to disgruntled spouse .. especially a child who has come to him after many many years .. if fact the audience has accepted anu aunty very well .. which is a slice of life .. where kavya n Anuj are not parents to toshu , pakhi and samar .. they let the real parents handle their issue .. rather than feeling churlish about it …that my spouse is standing with his or her ex .. . if anything the audience is feeling happy that finally P is getting some justice .. whether Sai is still in love with virat or not that’s her itch .. so long she is only interacting with him as Savi’s father i.. she’s not doing anything wrong ..


Tell me what should Sai do give up Savi for adoption .. because her marriage broke up … Savi needs a father .. so should she jump and get married to anybody who is willing to accept her abd her child .. or is it better to let her ex husband.. take his responsibilities seriously .. let the grandparents take their responsibilities seriously.. these days one cardiac arrest abd a person is gone .. if god forbid something happens to sai .. Savi would have been sold in the street as an orphan .. simply because Sai has no family behind her .. it’s her bad luck .. Chavans are a toxic lot .. but it was Savi ka Naseeb to be born in that family .. and she should be with them .. regardless of what her fathers many wives regard this situation


Completely agree to this...


Saavi was not born in an illicit relationship... so her getting what she legally entitled shouldn't be a problem.

Moreover, P is the second wife... so Saavi will always have the first right on everything.

V need not consult P for Saavi just like he need not consult Sai for Vinu. It's him who is taking unilateral decisions is the problem. But even that's for drama sake.


Moreover, in real life scenario too... most women stick around in abusive marriages due to social stigma... to them and their kids. And more often than not, The abuse is limited to the mother... not the child.

While it is wrong... if the father is loving and caring to the child... should he kept away? A mother may stay aloof like Sai is doing... but she cannot keep V away from Saavi... unless and until he is abusive to her too...


I guess the better option would be to not mix real and reel... (not the actors...) I mean the situations... Ghum is not real world.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

When people have multiple marriages they learn to deal with it .. things are never black n white when children are involved in broken households.... no responsible parent ignores the child to pander to disgruntled spouse .. especially a child who has come to him after many many years .. if fact the audience has accepted anu aunty very well .. which is a slice of life .. where kavya n Anuj are not parents to toshu , pakhi and samar .. they let the real parents handle their issue .. rather than feeling churlish about it …that my spouse is standing with his or her ex .. . if anything the audience is feeling happy that finally P is getting some justice .. whether Sai is still in love with virat or not that’s her itch .. so long she is only interacting with him as Savi’s father i.. she’s not doing anything wrong ..


Tell me what should Sai do give up Savi for adoption .. because her marriage broke up … Savi needs a father .. so should she jump and get married to anybody who is willing to accept her abd her child .. or is it better to let her ex husband.. take his responsibilities seriously .. let the grandparents take their responsibilities seriously.. these days one cardiac arrest abd a person is gone .. if god forbid something happens to sai .. Savi would have been sold in the street as an orphan .. simply because Sai has no family behind her .. it’s her bad luck .. Chavans are a toxic lot .. but it was Savi ka Naseeb to be born in that family .. and she should be with them .. regardless of what her fathers many wives regard this situation


Where have I said that Savi should not?

Why is my statement being twisted and made into something else?

Where have I said Savi does not deserve both her parents, in whatever way it works and is feasible?

Bad decision commenting anything on this forum.

Staying out of it was better.

My bad!! You guys carry on

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Leave pakhi it wouldn't have been acceptable by people had sai was in place of virat.

Haan but khair..

Anyway I don't know what bit me in the morning today, to come and comment here on this forum..

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Posted: 2 years ago

Sab ko sab nahi milta. Ab merko Patralekha, Omi and bald kidnapper ka threesome chahiye tha. Nahi mila and naa hi kabhi milega. I am very upset. 😭

Edited by nutmeg7 - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Now if Virat hears P s suggestion to Sai and also comes to know that the owner s JM, he's going to get scared and shift Sai to CN permanently so that Savi s n front of his eyes and Sai does not go away hearing P s suggestion.

He may ask Sai to work n orphanage and pay rent to him in return for staying if she feels guilty not to stay n CN.

So now P and JM will be reason Sai may shift to CN.

Edited by Rosyme - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Sab ko sab nahi milta. Ab merko Patralekha, Omi and bald kidnapper ka threesome chahiye tha. Nahi mila and naa hi kabhi milega. I am very upset. 😭

Sakhi angst convo loading....on Friday 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Sinmegh

When people have multiple marriages they learn to deal with it .. things are never black n white when children are involved in broken households.... no responsible parent ignores the child to pander to disgruntled spouse .. especially a child who has come to him after many many years .. if fact the audience has accepted anu aunty very well .. which is a slice of life .. where kavya n Anuj are not parents to toshu , pakhi and samar .. they let the real parents handle their issue .. rather than feeling churlish about it …that my spouse is standing with his or her ex .. . if anything the audience is feeling happy that finally P is getting some justice .. whether Sai is still in love with virat or not that’s her itch .. so long she is only interacting with him as Savi’s father i.. she’s not doing anything wrong ..


Tell me what should Sai do give up Savi for adoption .. because her marriage broke up … Savi needs a father .. so should she jump and get married to anybody who is willing to accept her abd her child .. or is it better to let her ex husband.. take his responsibilities seriously .. let the grandparents take their responsibilities seriously.. these days one cardiac arrest abd a person is gone .. if god forbid something happens to sai .. Savi would have been sold in the street as an orphan .. simply because Sai has no family behind her .. it’s her bad luck .. Chavans are a toxic lot .. but it was Savi ka Naseeb to be born in that family .. and she should be with them .. regardless of what her fathers many wives regard this situation


Co parenting is never a problem. Giving hearty looks to each other infront of legal wife (according to ghum history) is wrong. Now don't say they couldn't control their emotions. The same logic applies to pakhi but didn't she get called names for it when she dreamt of virat being samrat wife. And it's not like sai virat are eternal lovers. That man legit sent her to jail 3-4 days back , now recalling romantic moment with her especially after having moments like romantic dance, feeding, emotional hug, open declaration of wife status with pakhi. Whether pakhi is negative or positive virat indeed led pakhi on by rising her hopes that he would take next step in their relationship. Isn't it wrong?

When savi makes demands like feed me together. They should deny. If they don't, savi will continue making such demands like sleep with me together etc etc. They should make savi understand she will get mother, father love seperately not together since virat is married. Co parenting is different from acting as couple.

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