Originally posted by: Sinmegh
When people have multiple marriages they learn to deal with it .. things are never black n white when children are involved in broken households.... no responsible parent ignores the child to pander to disgruntled spouse .. especially a child who has come to him after many many years .. if fact the audience has accepted anu aunty very well .. which is a slice of life .. where kavya n Anuj are not parents to toshu , pakhi and samar .. they let the real parents handle their issue .. rather than feeling churlish about it …that my spouse is standing with his or her ex .. . if anything the audience is feeling happy that finally P is getting some justice .. whether Sai is still in love with virat or not that’s her itch .. so long she is only interacting with him as Savi’s father i.. she’s not doing anything wrong ..
Tell me what should Sai do give up Savi for adoption .. because her marriage broke up … Savi needs a father .. so should she jump and get married to anybody who is willing to accept her abd her child .. or is it better to let her ex husband.. take his responsibilities seriously .. let the grandparents take their responsibilities seriously.. these days one cardiac arrest abd a person is gone .. if god forbid something happens to sai .. Savi would have been sold in the street as an orphan .. simply because Sai has no family behind her .. it’s her bad luck .. Chavans are a toxic lot .. but it was Savi ka Naseeb to be born in that family .. and she should be with them .. regardless of what her fathers many wives regard this situation
Completely agree to this...
Saavi was not born in an illicit relationship... so her getting what she legally entitled shouldn't be a problem.
Moreover, P is the second wife... so Saavi will always have the first right on everything.
V need not consult P for Saavi just like he need not consult Sai for Vinu. It's him who is taking unilateral decisions is the problem. But even that's for drama sake.
Moreover, in real life scenario too... most women stick around in abusive marriages due to social stigma... to them and their kids. And more often than not, The abuse is limited to the mother... not the child.
While it is wrong... if the father is loving and caring to the child... should he kept away? A mother may stay aloof like Sai is doing... but she cannot keep V away from Saavi... unless and until he is abusive to her too...
I guess the better option would be to not mix real and reel... (not the actors...) I mean the situations... Ghum is not real world.