How come he didn't mind pleasing his family when he abandoned them in shruti track. He didn't care even when he got to know his kaku is in hospital.Originally posted by: Sanu2022
I agree they have always compromised Virat's character according to track and he is writer's favorite to throw under the carpet for drama pov but one I thing I would like to say is we can't compare GC Virat and today's Virat because GC one was carefree Virat without any family responsibility or facing any uncomfortable situations but today's one is the one who has lived a journey with many hurdles.
After marrying Sai he was always sandwiched, one side his extremely regressive and toxic family and another side a carefree girl who won't follow the rules of house which was set by BK & his family, neither she will mend towards anyone. He definitely started seeing things from 3rd person pov once Sai came into life but it wasn't a cake walk for him to make a balance between completely different personalities.
For Sai it was always an easy way to walk out because Chavans aren't her family but for Virat it wasn't as easy as for Sai. He was always asked for judgement at end either from family side or Sai's side and that's where he faltered many times and took wrong decisions.
We always compare between Sai and Virat but we usually don't see the difference of their circumstances, Sai didn't had to thought from different angle but Virat had too, he can't choose one thing at a time but Sai can because she had to think as a wife majority of times and had nothing to loose other than Virat.
How come pakhi is family for him but sai is not?
Didn't he ready to leave his family and not ready to forgive them in shruti track?
So he can leave his family when he feel hurt by them but he can't even warn his family to respect his wife let alone leaving house for her.
Except at initial time he never sandwiched between his wife and family.
He only expected his wife to adjust to his family not the other way around.
He never tried to balance between family and wife. He just wanted his wife to adjust to everything his family says.
Kaku calls sai orphan, infertile, instead of getting angry at her for calling his wife names. He goes behind kaku to console her. And asks sai to understand kaku's sadness.
It is sai who sandwiched between virat and his family.
She can't handle his family abuse but can't leave virat too.
So she compromised her self respect by accepting his family insults just to live with virat.