Navya can have children out of wedlock-Jaya - Page 2

Does the same apply to Aaradhya Bachchan? Or does she follow a different code of conduct?

I think it is not right to drag a minor in such talks on sex or relationships. Aaradhya is underage and too young to have her name used so casually in such discussions.

Originally posted by: atominis

Probably spoke this to sound cool and offset the hate she gets for her behaviour and patriarchal views.

The Bachchans have been giving flops of late except Ash in PS1. Hence trying tactics to get attention through sensationalist podcasts, SM posts, interviews.

Nandas and Bachchans will hide truth and lock girls up and force abortion if anyone got pregnant out of wedlock.

I personally do not recommend kids out of wedlock as it is difficult for child due to all social or legal hassles or if either parent is not willing to take child's responsibility.

Not judging the woman or man in such cases but thinking purely from POV of child.

Masaba also had to go through lot of bullying all life for being born out of wedlock. I am glad she and Neena wear their identity on their sleeve and are unapologetic.

If women have resources to take responsibility of child then so be it. Otherwise a foolhardy decision to get pregnant out of wedlock especially if you are yet to complete education or are not financially independent or not mature or are yet to know ways of the world or what it takes to raise a child and what is parenting..

It is not ideal in my view. Same time the women who do end up becoming moms out of wedlock shouldn’t be judged so harshly.

If they are doing this for sensationalism well it def caught my eye.

Would they accept a single mother as a wife for their grandson Agastya?

I am definitely judging minors or girls who are yet to complete education or become financially independent, have kids out of wedlock unless they were drugged or raped or forcibly married off or abducted or made to do it against their will.

With minors it is statutory rape anyway as per Indian law.

I am also judging males who impregnate women like this.

Because of realities of how much more difficult it makes for child in such relations and how much toll it also takes on body of woman and her life in case she is still a student or in teens.

I am not judging an adult like Neena who was financially independent and an established actor in theatre, cinema and TV, yet chose to go ahead with pregnancy.

Or even someone like Jessica Hines who was an adult and a known journalist and author when she had love child with Aamir.

But I have right to call out or criticise ones who know nothing of what it takes to give birth or raise kids and know nothing of world themselves yet but get pregnant or are careless about sex.

Plenty of such younger women go through trauma and shock then or cannot handle pregnancy or labour and regret how to balance kid and still complete education for eg. Or some dump kids at orphanages or throw them in bins or they and their families slap fake rape cases on ones they had consensual sex with or plead to that guy to marry her etc and situation gets worse if guy declines or becomes cut off from girl and own baby.

This is always messy for all parties involved. So I know what I am talking. I would warn girls against this especially if they have NO idea what having kids means or are yet to be independent themselves. Kids are a huge responsibility and full time job. Not just something that happens. From a kid's welfare POV, I would not recommend taking them or their future lightly or casually at hands of careless parent who is not even ready to be a parent mentally or financially.

Originally posted by: atominis

Probably spoke this to sound cool and offset the hate she gets for her behaviour and patriarchal views.

The Bachchans have been giving flops of late except Ash in PS1. Hence trying tactics to get attention through sensationalist podcasts, SM posts, interviews.

Nandas and Bachchans will hide truth and lock girls up and force abortion if anyone got pregnant out of wedlock.

I personally do not recommend kids out of wedlock as it is difficult for child due to all social or legal hassles or if either parent is not willing to take child's responsibility.

Not judging the woman or man in such cases but thinking purely from POV of child.

Masaba also had to go through lot of bullying all life for being born out of wedlock. I am glad she and Neena wear their identity on their sleeve and are unapologetic.

If women have resources to take responsibility of child then so be it. Otherwise a foolhardy decision to get pregnant out of wedlock especially if you are yet to complete education or are not financially independent or not mature or are yet to know ways of the world or what it takes to raise a child and what is parenting..

https://newsable.asianetnews.com/amp/gallery/entertainment/when-neena-gupta-regretted-having-masaba-gupta-out-of-wedlock-syt-qiucu5

Nvr..mind 😳

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