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Originally posted by: Sherry24

Good insights Moor ❤️

@Bold

I feel the reason she didn't ask that was because she is treating him now like a stranger. As in her mind they are no longer spouses. So she is practically asking a stranger. Kis haq se pooch rahe ho?

But they were at one point of time... the way V was asking questions was through that haq. She doesnt see it.. he still does.. wouldnt have hurt to question him like this once... but that would mean bringing out bigamy aspect. I have been saying this... the reason even Sai doesnt speak about it is they want to avoid any court drama. She says she will file complaint for him touching her when there are bigger issues brushed off...

"Since it is all about parallel" - I'm going to add this to my dictionary. Seems like it is becoming a common phrase. 🤣

Anyways. Tell me if you see this parallel as well. The kids.

P is attached to Vinu, JM is attached to Savi.

You have mentioned about how JM's closeness with Savi will be looked down upon and will also result in insinuations.

However, the same will not be seen with P. Yes, Vinu at this point is adopted. But we have our doubts on that bit. But just like Savi's father is not known, Vinu's parents are unknown.

But that may also be because P was part of the adoption process. It gave her a legality of sorts. And if this turns out to be the same Vinu, she was his surrogate as well... so her attachment is justified. Jags I dont get... because this same Jags was planning to kill the first baby when he kidnapped Sai and Sam had to die. He doesnt have anything like this with Saavi. I see you agree to my assumption in another comment that Jags found Sai and sent UM to her... then it would make some sense.

Just like how we are comparing P and JM as the ones in love with V and Sai, friends to them, with a criminal history.

Superficially its the same, but its not... I would love if Jags is given a prime role for sometime.... just to counter V and P.

This aspect where P is perfect mother to Vinu and JM is wrong influence on Savi will also have to prove a point later. A comparison and how the image falls flat.

True... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Moor278

I know it hasnt...

My belief this time is based on the fact that medical intervention of any kind will lead to Vinu ka reveal...

CN and V himself have closed off themselves... they dont see the similarity in Vinu with their own blood... not even a fond recollection. The makers have not done the cinematic trope of birthmark or something... so far...

CN have accepted him as an orphan child ... so unless the makers have decided to change it and make him a non biological SaiRat kid permanently ... his reveal has to happen through his disability...

His insistence on getting treated from Sai is not just for his legs.... it is related to his parentage that needs to come out. How else will they prove it? And it helps to keep Sai associated with CN for a longer time.

I see no other way unless an acceptance from P that this is the same Vinu... and she knew all along... which is my theory 🤣

I thought Sai will get clue at the orphanage. But Sai has rejected the job offer and its now forgotten. I also think Sai getting tangled back with Chavans through Vinu has to do with his revelation. Else, as you say, P knows about Vinu's truth and it will come out of her mouth.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Had a thought...

If Star UK promo is to be believed about V knowing truth about both kids soon...

Is this forcing Vinu to take part in race going to play a part?

Vinu is in no condition to run a race... if he does, he may not win but his condition may worsen and that may finally pressurize everyone to look for an actual medical intervention and not some lep or exercises.

This race looks to be happening after reveal... so Sai is already in Nagpur.

The DNA / Congenital business might be addressed ... and may lead to some reveal.

Anyway, even if the congenital illness doesnt come out, medical intervention might ... some kind of surgery or actual treatment.

Thoughts?

If they want to stretch the track, they can't play all cards together. It needs to be phased out. Savi's reveal is around the corner. And that itself will bring a lot of complexities.

Vinu's reveal means that Sai will gain an upper hand on P. Both her kids and no one would want to keep the kids and family separate.

But on second thoughts, V may play nasty with Vinu's revelation. A revenge on Sai for keeping Savi. Don't know. It doesn't suit him. But then at this stage he is going beyond any sense of understanding

Originally posted by: purplegirl7

I thought Sai will get clue at the orphanage. But Sai has rejected the job offer and its now forgotten. I also think Sai getting tangled back with Chavans through Vinu has to do with his revelation. Else, as you say, P knows about Vinu's truth and it will come out of her mouth.

Mujhe bhi uss orphanage job se ummeed thi... but vo to hua hi nahi ... mayeb after Saavi ka reveal, Sai may have to start working there again and phir kuch ho

How does it matter of V still "wants" Sai and wants to exercise his haq on her.. thats his problem. Sai is mot an object for him to possess or have. Even if we assume he "loves" Sai which he clearly doesn't because love is NOT shown by disrespect, mistrust, callousness and toxicity but even if we say he does- Sai IS over him. Sai does not want a man like him in her life who doesn't care to prioritize her. She does not want him in Savis life either. And as a single parent who has brought up Savi all alone she can make that decision too. So thats it. V unilaterally wanting or not wanting anything is immaterial. If he chooses to deal with his past and his issues in such a horrible way while flaunting one biwi P while still exercising haq on original biwi Sai, then he has to deal with the consequences. Sai is not obligated to entertain any of his BS. He can go to hell.

Originally posted by: Moor278

I agree.. and this has been a pattern...

Me and Sherry have had discussions on this few times...

That the reason Sais pain is never seen or noticed by V is because she always puts up this strong facade in front of him.. that she is unaffected.. all her breakdowns are in private so far... in a way it only makes her seem alone... that she has no one... and for that ... just once a breakdown in front of V would be nice...

Especially after she has suffered so much...

This is not at all giving any excuse to V... he should know... he should be able to read her after knowing her so intimately.. but his problem always has been he focuses on words and not the reactions...

Thus V only reacts or sees Sais POV only when she is physically hurt.

Contrast this to P who constantly reminds him of mere dard, Mera pyar and mujhe diya hua vaada...

Most of us in FD are waiting for a breakdown from Sai. It's only so much a person can bear... and if she cannot express it to the person who was once closest to her... what's the point? She will forever be alone.

For once it had to happen.

I am okay with the message.. just wanted it bit more personal. Sais struggle not the struggle of working women or single women in general.

And since V was the cause of all this, why couldn't it happen in front of him...

This is all to drag... so that this anger keeps simmering. 😔

I agree. Like I said in my other post today, if they don't understand each other's language, they will have to translate it for the other. That is the only way to make each other learn it.

See some are self learners, some need guidance. They need guidance.

I would not have preferred Sai to break down in front of the V he was yesterday/today. But then Sai may hate him for what he did today, and it will hurt her forever. And he is the only one who can ease that pain too. And how will he do that? She has to break down in front of him. That is the only way he will see her real pain. And we know how he reacts to her pain. That should seal the deal

Also if JM is similar to P, then V has married a criminal, lives with her in his bedroom that he shared with Sai while Sai has maintained a distance always. She barely ever gave JM 2 minutes time. Always has been curt with him. So Sai has not forgiven him. She just hasnt got a restraining order against him and because Savi grew attached and he wasn't harming her she didn't ban him but she watches him like a hawk and put strict restrictions on his interactions with Savi too. Didn't allow her to accept his gifts (the ones she knew about) or enter the house. JM is barely in her life. He lingers around her life at a distance but thats it.

Originally posted by: Swaydheenta

Also,

Today's episode made one thing very clear.

SaiRat are going to serve, kaafi zyada hatred in the future (i don't mind).

We might be happy about sai's speech today,

But, trust me, they've gonna deprive us of sairat's closeness.

One more thing,

This speech wasn't for sai, it was for virat's favour.

All these things and words will BACKFIRE on sai after savi's revelation.

Like i said yesterday, virat is gonna be 1000x angrier after savi's revelation and after sai's speech.

And, he instead of calming down, will be much more angry and will think of a REVENGE.

That's why, this speech.

No hopes from sai, on making moves.

It was VIRAT, who used to make moves or SHOW RIGHTS ON SAI.

AFTER THIS SPEECH, EVEN HE WILL STOP AND MAINTAIN ANGER AND DISTANCE.

AFTER SAI'S 'YOU'RE NOBODY'.

THIS MIGHT RESULT IN, HIM MAKING MOVES TOWARDS PAKHI.

WELL, I SEE IT COMING...

BAHOT BAHOT LAMBI ROAD HAI.

Moves towards pakhi 😨☹️ MATLAB

Originally posted by: Shaome

okie lemme eat your brains again😈

Maybe in my parallel world about the present Sairat what vanker wants to show is that they need to learn to live with each other despite all the toxicity..Both are missing out on the larger picture about their lives..Both are functioning different ways..Virat doesnt want to break the shackle this time at all because apparantly he has a perfect family but no glow..while sai is thinking that she is better off without him because she cant deal with a guy who lacks basic clarity about their relationship status ..Virat will have to act as her healer if he wants that perfect family with sai and on the other hand sai will have to understand that how she is able to bring the extreme emotions from him..

Right now Sai is completely over with him and even his existence would not bother her..With Savi's revelation virat will be rejoiced the fact that he has someone that ties with sai...hence that revenge will come ..

First despite sai bearing their child did not bothered to inform him

Next the father who has seen her daughter yearning for her baba to come and was writing in trees and even asked him if she could adopt him..

and last but not the least her words "YOU ARE NOBODY TO ME" will be ringing in his ears..Why he is nobody?despite he is the father of her child yet she chose to discard him ...

Right now as i said manytimes execution sucks..Its like one way story..Too much complexities with Virat's character..But Sai is too white in his version unlike leena..

Mostimportantly Virat represents a section of toxic and abusive men in our society..he is the total depiction of that..BUT unfortunately unlike ghum in real they do pay the price of their misdeed ..

In real world.. people do stay back for the sake of kids...

In most arranged marriage setup, their is companionship and there's an attachment dictated by societal norms... there may or may not be love...

But this is ITV... a medium which is built on romanticizing everything... show things beyond logic and simple stuff...

So if these two leads who were madly in love with each other once and still hold some sparks, cannot work out their issues and rekindle their relationship ... who will? This is not documentary na...

Which is why Sai is single man woman... there is no new ML... there is no solo journey for her...

People tune in for entertainment... Its just that our idea of entertainment is different from Vanku...

He is like those film makers who want to make an art film but the producers ask for a masala film... a pot boiler has become a burnt vessel 🤣

Originally posted by: Swaydheenta

What's wrong?

She sprained her elbow.