I too used to find it very difficult to relate with Akshara before marriage but after marriage her priorities have changed. Her Arohi jaap stopped after marriage and her revealing Arohis truth in the hospital after child’s case proves that. But surely she does need to start confiding in Abhimanyu. And she lacks there big time.
But Abhimanyu has also made mistakes - publicly shaming Goenkas, rudely discrediting her sacrifice and sending divorce papers - are his mistakes. And signing papers, not confiding in Abhimanyu on time or in fact not confiding at all, taking decisions on her own - yes her intentions are in the right place but she’s suffered unilateral decision consequences earlier so she should know by now to confide in Abhimanyu - are Aksharas faults.
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