Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #43 - Page 35

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

In my opinion Ram's fault is for lots of things he said in anger and lot of things he didn't do because he couldn't go against his family.

Ram can be blamed for not being lenient towards Priya, his wife who was pregnant and sent her to jail. His actions of flip flopping between sending her to jail and then going back to free her hearing she was pregnant and then back to ignoring her after he knew she had an affair.

His character died a brutal death that day, when the forgiver Ram went missing for his wife Priya whom he loved very much. So obviously he should have guilt on that and for all the words he said later to her.

But there was too much going on his life that he only reacted to it and never did anything after thinking and the friends and his step family only made it worse for him. So in a way I kind of understand Ram five years back that while I do blame him for his part, I can find it me to understand him too.

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Similarly Priya reacted five years back too. She didn't think about anything except protecting her child and her sister's child. She must have hoped that Ram the forgiver would probably understand her later and she can pay for the crime and make up for it.

It was why she keeps having monologue saying Mr Kapoor would understand. She truly seem to have believed that when he learns about everything later he won't get mad at her. But understand her.

Priya was in a way made those choices to protect five years back and I see no reason to blame her back then because I understood her reasons.

My problem with Priya character started after she choose to protect Ishaan five years later. After living without Ram for five years, she keeps saying it was okay because she had Pihu with her.

It looks as if Priya didn't love or need Ram after all and hiding Pihu from Ram should have brought the guilt but it never happened, hiding Ishaan truth should have brought the guilt but it never happened. So I can't accept Priya character getting sacrifice tag and getting forgiven easily.

If she told Ram the entire truth within few days of meeting him again. Then I would have rooted for her more. Hiding it for as long as she did after Ram flip-flops of professing love is what makes me mad .

Ram character was fine until he got to know the truth. His reactions to Nandini role in separation was so Luke warm I found it hard to understand him. Where is the anger, where is the regret and where is the guilt. We didn't get it for that moment .

But he goes on a guilt trip for Ishaan truth 🤣. So Priya would probably go on a guilt trip for something later as well. Just not for what we want 🤪

I also don’t want Priya to be forgiven easily. She shouldn’t have decided to hide Pihu from Ram for ever. She never even thought of disclosing the truth to Ram after her jail term.There is no guilt from her part about this!! The truth came out accidentally; Just imagine it never coming out!! She never had any intentions to tell truth to Ram ever even after seeing him blurting out about his life after they separated. She was still taking Krish’s advices on what to do…..

Originally posted by: ajacob31

You are 100% right. We now know that Ram doesn’t behave well under pressure.. His behavior was a trigger to the disasters that followed. Ram’s lukewarm response hearing what N did that impacted 5 years of his life and Him being soft to N after this 🤢 is unbelievable. He was witness to V’s behaviors towards Pihu, still he was soft and friendly towards her. At least we expected him to bash V after he knew Pihu was his daughter…

I also don’t want Priya to be forgiven easily. She shouldn’t have decided to hide Pihu from Ram for ever. She never even thought of disclosing the truth to Ram after her jail term.There is no guilt from her part about this!! The truth came out accidentally; Just imagine it never coming out!! She never had any intentions to tell truth to Ram ever even after seeing him blurting out about his life after they separated. She was still taking Krish’s advices on what to do…..

Ram reaction after reveal makes me mad. He was angry at those who don't deserve it aka Adi, and was super calm with those who did deserve it aka Nandini , Vedu and Priya.

Priya had a monologue today saying she should have run away before Ram finding about Pihu. Did she really have such a monologue after everything that happened once Ram finds out about Pihu and how much he loves his daughter ? If so, I am speechless by Priya's character.

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

In my opinion Ram's fault is for lots of things he said in anger and lot of things he didn't do because he couldn't go against his family.

Ram can be blamed for not being lenient towards Priya, his wife who was pregnant and sent her to jail. His actions of flip flopping between sending her to jail and then going back to free her hearing she was pregnant and then back to ignoring her after he knew she had an affair.

His character died a brutal death that day, when the forgiver Ram went missing for his wife Priya whom he loved very much. So obviously he should have guilt on that and for all the words he said later to her.

But there was too much going on his life that he only reacted to it and never did anything after thinking and the friends and his step family only made it worse for him. So in a way I kind of understand Ram five years back that while I do blame him for his part, I can find it me to understand him too.

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Similarly Priya reacted five years back too. She didn't think about anything except protecting her child and her sister's child. She must have hoped that Ram the forgiver would probably understand her later and she can pay for the crime and make up for it.

It was why she keeps having monologue saying Mr Kapoor would understand. She truly seem to have believed that when he learns about everything later he won't get mad at her. But understand her.

Priya was in a way made those choices to protect five years back and I see no reason to blame her back then because I understood her reasons.

My problem with Priya character started after she choose to protect Ishaan five years later. After living without Ram for five years, she keeps saying it was okay because she had Pihu with her.

It looks as if Priya didn't love or need Ram after all and hiding Pihu from Ram should have brought the guilt but it never happened, hiding Ishaan truth should have brought the guilt but it never happened. So I can't accept Priya character getting sacrifice tag and getting forgiven easily.

If she told Ram the entire truth within few days of meeting him again. Then I would have rooted for her more. Hiding it for as long as she did after Ram flip-flops of professing love is what makes me mad .

Ram character was fine until he got to know the truth. His reactions to Nandini role in separation was so Luke warm I found it hard to understand him. Where is the anger, where is the regret and where is the guilt. We didn't get it for that moment .

But he goes on a guilt trip for Ishaan truth 🤣. So Priya would probably go on a guilt trip for something later as well. Just not for what we want 🤪

You spoke my heart out. I can still understand their actions 5 years back because everything happened suddenly that they even didn't get the time to overcome their shock and think clearly. Priya must really have felt the guilt that she and her family were responsible for everything bad that happened to Ram. Ram on the other hand, just lost his sister who was like a daughter to him so he too wasn't in the correct state of mind. But what happened afterwards baffles me. Priya 2.0 looks like she loves the idea of loving Ram but doesn't actually mean it. Never once after the leap, she felt the guilt of separating a daughter with her father or was sorry to Ram that because of her he lost all his precious moments. Theek hai she was all mahaan and everything, but that doesn't change the fact that she ruined Ram's life and kept Pihu away from her dad. She's still blaming Nandu and even Mahendra Sood! Like for once, own your mistake and ask for forgiveness. A breakdown could have solved it all, but we got nothing. If Ram hadn't figured out the truth, she was happy sacrificing the rest of their lives for saving Eshaan. Ram's begging meant nothing for her. She has Pihu, so she doesn't need Ram at all. What kind of true love is this if your love is the first scapegoat of all your actions? Ram should definitely ask for forgiveness for not trusting his wife and failing her at all times, but the same applies to Priya also! She failed him.

Originally posted by: Sanjari7

You spoke my heart out. I can still understand their actions 5 years back because everything happened suddenly that they even didn't get the time to overcome their shock and think clearly. Priya must really have felt the guilt that she and her family were responsible for everything bad that happened to Ram. Ram on the other hand, just lost his sister who was like a daughter to him so he too wasn't in the correct state of mind. But what happened afterwards baffles me. Priya 2.0 looks like she loves the idea of loving Ram but doesn't actually mean it. Never once after the leap, she felt the guilt of separating a daughter with her father or was sorry to Ram that because of her he lost all his precious moments. Theek hai she was all mahaan and everything, but that doesn't change the fact that she ruined Ram's life and kept Pihu away from her dad. She's still blaming Nandu and even Mahendra Sood! Like for once, own your mistake and ask for forgiveness. A breakdown could have solved it all, but we got nothing. If Ram hadn't figured out the truth, she was happy sacrificing the rest of their lives for saving Eshaan. Ram's begging meant nothing for her. She has Pihu, so she doesn't need Ram at all. What kind of true love is this if your love is the first scapegoat of all your actions? Ram should definitely ask for forgiveness for not trusting his wife and failing her at all times, but the same applies to Priya also! She failed him.

Agree with everything you said. It is really disappointing that we are not getting anything from Priya at all. Her breakdown is for Pihu, Ishaan and even upset with NVS but never for Ram. While we have tons of breakdown's from Ram for Priya, the writers thinks just calling everything sacrifice would work for her.

I heard we had old priya vs new priya Congo yesterday. But apparently it was only to further justify her character. Not for introspective into where she made mistakes 😆

It looks as if Priya only needs Pihu, Ram can just reunite them and walk away. Priya would go on to live happily because she believe he would be happy without her and she got Pihu 😆

Hola folks! What’s happening in BALH2 universe? Priya’s character died for me the day the leap happened. I couldn’t connect with her anymore. Never seen such a horrible butchering of a character I once loved. Ram has failed her on numerous occasions before the leap and after too but Priya’s character went downhill post leap. I was hoping there will be a tiny ounce of guilt in her for what she did to Ram and Pihu both but not once did she introspect her actions. Pre leap Priya loved Ram in the true sense even though she never thought about it let alone voice it. Post leap I have lost count of the no of times she said Mr Kapoor is my Prince Charming but her actions implies otherwise. I have just given up this show for good and it feels good. Once in a blue moon I catch a scene or two.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Hola folks! What’s happening in BALH2 universe? Priya’s character died for me the day the leap happened. I couldn’t connect with her anymore. Never seen such a horrible butchering of a character I once loved. Ram has failed her on numerous occasions before the leap and after too but Priya’s character went downhill post leap. I was hoping there will be a tiny ounce of guilt in her for what she did to Ram and Pihu both but not once did she introspect her actions. Pre leap Priya loved Ram in the true sense even though she never thought about it let alone voice it. Post leap I have lost count of the no of times she said Mr Kapoor is my Prince Charming but her actions implies otherwise. I have just given up this show for good and it feels good. Once in a blue moon I catch a scene or two.

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

Agree with everything you said. It is really disappointing that we are not getting anything from Priya at all. Her breakdown is for Pihu, Ishaan and even upset with NVS but never for Ram. While we have tons of breakdown's from Ram for Priya, the writers thinks just calling everything sacrifice would work for her.

I heard we had old priya vs new priya Congo yesterday. But apparently it was only to further justify her character. Not for introspective into where she made mistakes 😆

It looks as if Priya only needs Pihu, Ram can just reunite them and walk away. Priya would go on to live happily because she believe he would be happy without her and she got Pihu 😆

The Ram-Pihu interaction could’ve been better. The situation is so delicate where Ram made it look like Pihu hating Priya is in his favor. I think they made it this way to mislead the villians… Again the focus deviated from making Pihu understand and pacify her. Ram made it sound like he also hates Priya eventhough he said it like a joke. How will a 5 year old be able to differentiate between real and act? Is it just me?

Also why is it unethical to ask for CCTV footage from school? How does the school have any authority to put someone’s private pictures on their bulletin board? Timepass going on without any purpose….

Originally posted by: ajacob31

The Ram-Pihu interaction could’ve been better. The situation is so delicate where Ram made it look like Pihu hating Priya is in his favor. I think they made it this way to mislead the villians… Again the focus deviated from making Pihu understand and pacify her. Ram made it sound like he also hates Priya eventhough he said it like a joke. How will a 5 year old be able to differentiate between real and act? Is it just me?

Also why is it unethical to ask for CCTV footage from school? How does the school have any authority to put someone’s private pictures on their bulletin board? Timepass going on without any purpose….

@bold- Only we think Pihu is five year old. The writers and her parents treat her as if she is an adult. 🤣. Is it new for every sensitive track to be turned into chaos for drama.

So only Vedika reveal will happen that too like how MS took the entire blame including Shashi, Vedu will take all Nandini crime this time

I don't like the fact Priya is going on a secret mission again 🤪. This whole point is to show Ram believing her this time around and giving big big dialogue about her character. It is to white wash him for five years back 🤣.

I mean even five years back Ram wouldn't have batted an eye just seeing Priya and Krish in a car. Might have gotten jealous but would have still trusted her. Priya lie and Nandini manipulation is what made him doubt five years back and not a photo of Krish and Priya 🤪.

Honestly I am so upset with this track. They could have just kept it about Pihu cheating and jail reveal. Adding Ishaan truth to the mix is making everything white washed . Ram, Meera, Priya, Krish , Ishaan and Sara 🤣.

The last episode I liked watching was Shubham getting slapped. It was an apt reaction for just the moment of Shubham words.

But after that with this much big reveals. It feels silly to rush it and ruin it. Not give proper RaYa scene where they talk or adding too much drama 🤪.

Omg last episode was so good RaYa together 🥰