The relationship between Sai n virat is dead - Page 34

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Virat is and has always been a pretension. His entire family had too many aspirations from him and he tried to keep all happy; balance between already toxic relationships. So that's what he learnt; whatever happens the image has to be sustained. It was Sai who dredged out the weirdness in the relationships between BK, Ninad and Ashwini. Before Sai, he was ok with just balancing and keeping all happy. He wants go play band-aid not antiseptic.

Band aid hides the wound but keeps it from healing too, at times. But anti septic goes inside, burns and disinfects to heal it. That's Virat and Sai.

Virat has the complex of playing the good guy; the only one who can keep his family happy, who can balance between them and gets praised by all. Praise kink people! Sai came and she took his place. Because his actions were flimsy as he hated getting off the high ground. Never wanted to lose his holier than thou attitude. Sai didn't care, raked up dirt, got hit by it too but managed to actually heal wounds. This jolted him and as it happens opposites attract.

The way I see it, it has never been Sai vs Patralekha. It has always been Sai vs Virat. Patralekha is the bridge that separates them from burning each other off. Sai Virat need Patralekha to remain a tension in their relationship, so that blames can be targeted at her. Patralekha's obsession with Virat helps the cause. Otherwise frankly speaking Sai and Virat are the most incompatible pairing I have had the misfortune to see and ship awhile.

Virat's attraction to Sai and his love for her is again his love for image. Sai was made his responsibility and being who he was, Virat Chavan had to follow his responsibility till the last breaths of his life. Whatever be it, he had to keep it. That's the way it should have been. His perfect high moral ground.

Of course Sai didn't turn out to be someone who follows. She pushed at him, dragged him out of his comfortably zone and challenged him to be his real actual self that is not perfect at all. It is flawed, selfish and deeply human. That's the self that loved Sai; the self that didn't care about the stupid promise his Perfect self cared for. However he couldn't leave behind his Perfect Image obsession either and these two selves clashed further escalating the triangle.

Virat is Virat. He is huge; all encapsulating. His own emotions ans turmoils are of Titanic stature and he has no space for anyone else. His love for Sai is the one thing his genuine flawed self wanted. That self and his Perfect self always clashed and finally reached a compromise. Get Sai Pregnant. Have a baby with her. A perfect family for the Perfect Image and Sai forever bound to Virat's real self.

That's why Virat always wanted a child with Sai. He can never love any child more than the one he wanted with Sai. Unfortunately he got nothing. His real self was willingly suppressed during surrogacy because the baby was the compromise needed for both his selves to co-exist. He can be prefect family man and have Sai too. What does it matter who the surrogate is? He just needs the baby. And how does it matter who takes care of the baby? Even if Patralekha does, it doesn't matter because the child is biologically his and Sai's. His selves reach the compromise and any hurt to Sai or Patralekha doesn't matter. Because image wise, he had a full family now.

Losing Sai and his compromise baby again pit both his selves against each other. His heartbreak and dead like state was his inability to reconcile with his failures. To survive there was only one option. Suppress his flawed self and get back his perfect image self with a moral ground the size of the highest peak of the world. He did it through Vinu. Adopting the boy gave him another mask he could use to play at being Perfect. Patralekha, again an useful piece to sustain his image. If Sai had not been alive, he would have forever played the heartbroken husband. Even if Patralekha would have gotten pregnant, he would have maintained an emotional high ground to make all sympathise with him. He is addicted to playing holier than thou.

Sai is his true competition, his only love (if we can call it that) and his equal and opposite. He stands opposite of Sai's ideals and his perfect image feels threatened by Sai being alive. Because that nullifies his entire basis of how he reacted.

But when Savi's truth will be out, his image will fixate on that little girl. Savi is his biggest win and the compromise baby he wanted. She is his victory.

Ok, this was a long one. See; I love Virat 🤷‍♀️

that’s virat in a nutshell…..

sai is the true competition (in a good way) she brings out the best and worst in the man, she brings out his true self forces him to bring it out otherwise he is just holding up a mask and being the perfect son perfect cop people pleaser he is.

So everyone is saying that virat lost sai but the biggest question is whether he truly wants sai or would want to keep the perfect family picture with p**..

He will certainly choose Pakhi..

But the question is when will savi's truth are coming out??

Sai definitely doesn't want Virat.. She doesn't deserve this one.. She deserves someone like aaba which was modak..

I don't see SaiRat is end game.. Makers are confusing audience too much.. Anniversary episodes played exactly like the promo.. Papa ko toh had kya mummy ko hai..

Will Sai get her true love and the father she dreamt of for her Savi??

Originally posted by: Shaome

So everyone is saying that virat lost sai but the biggest question is whether he truly wants sai or would want to keep the perfect family picture with p**..

He will certainly choose Pakhi..

But the question is when will savi's truth are coming out??

Sai definitely doesn't want Virat.. She doesn't deserve this one.. She deserves someone like aaba which was modak..

I don't see SaiRat is end game.. Makers are confusing audience too much.. Anniversary episodes played exactly like the promo.. Papa ko toh had kya mummy ko hai..

Will Sai get her true love and the father she dreamt of for her Savi??

It depends on who the makers have decided as Sai's "true love". Yeh time pe kuch bhi nahi bol sakte re

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

His Perfect Image Self - Virat Chavan who is the perfect heir of the family; someone perfect, respectful towards elders, calm, serene, beatific . He has learnt not to fight against injustice when it is his own family committee it and be a hypocrite in general. He is authoritative and has domineering tendencies. Interestingly He also shows sacrificial tendencies and altruism. It is this self that plays the victim card. He is obsessed about being the most perfect one in the family since he has always been treated so. As such he reacts in a manner to retain that self of his. All his actions are to preserve the family image and his own too. He has to remain perfect to be important for the family. This self mainly functions by justifying actions with a moral high ground and playing then victim.

His real flawed self - His Suppressed self who doesn't want to toe the line of being the Raja Beta. The self that is suffocated by the Family and is twisted deeply in the BK-Ninad-Ashwini triangle. This self is deeply selfish, narcissistic, territorial and also deeply immature for it never got the chance to grow well. In a vile tendency, it understands ownership and concept of -either his or not his. This is the self that fixates on what it wants rather than the family. This is why whenever he is happy with Sai, all else disappears. He takes a back seat when Sai bulldozes over his family; for till then Sai is stamped in his ownership. However when she threatens his other self, this self gets suppressed by his Perfect Image Self and he takes the side of the family. But after the altercation, his real self surfaces and he goes after her to manao her. 🤷‍♀️

There are talks about him falling in love with Sai phase 2 again but anyway I don't see it happening 😬

If he has love for Sai then it'll be revived again anyway through some trigger which is buried. Atleast in post Shruti track they started unraveling his side that he still loves Sai even post anniversary track his love could be understood with his hurt. Rn it's too ambiguous with the Pakhi angle given & move on drama. Upar se bakwas scenes dialogues.

Aajka episode jo maine dekhaa...

Started with DEVI PAKHI giving gyaan on jhuth..dhokha with her superr se uparr diction. Auntie itana zor lagaya but ek single time bhi maa wali feel nhi ayi Then she breaks down n Sai handles her...thank you sbs segment warna mera heart attack to pakka thha...matlab girgit bhi committed suicide.

The look virat gave to P about letting Sai in though seemed domestic but it was more of his disappointment in himself. He has to again face his emotions for sai. Sorry for this conclusion of his look but MAI KIA KARU...THE ACTOR FAILED BIG TIME in emoting hurt-anger of a distraught father. Bhut thandaa aur robotic reaction thhaa....Too much off/on feelings of a parent...bhaii saab itani quick to voltage bhi fluctuate nhi hoti. Later he went overboard...chahe organic patni ko console karna ho ya bete ko...Kia kar raha thha. Blank expression wali gopi vahu.

Sai-vinu convo was the saving grace. Though it was not deep n upto the mark....lekin lekin Tanmay's best comes with Ayesha only.

Loved three shots

- Sai THE AAI WALKS IN n it's not only today....she will make a comeback later as a mother in CN for her kids.

- Sai's sitting position n the mirror image...together...two forces THE MOTHER N THE DOCTOR

- When she sees the shallow organically driven couple in their alleged happy space...the swagger with which she leaves 👏

Virat isn't aware but as Sherry pointed auntie runs behind to loot the limelight. Bevkuf aurat Sai ko udhaar ki zindagi nhi chahiye...you aren't a chor now...it's Sai's charity to you. Shaileshji n Ayesha are always a treat to watch as they bring grace.

Didi aaj heroine ban gyi...Kal shukariya karegi aur usse prize mei PATRU DEVI K BHAJAN sunayenge sab. Mela bhi attend hoga aur ghum jayenge bache.

VINU'S REACTION wasn't taken care of by his parents. They were happy with themselves that we love him...ek baar uska chehra bhi nhi dekhaa...that connect of him is with only Sai...though strongest should be with virat but nhi ho raha mera connect.

For Virat- a couplet from ghalib that dust was my face but I wasted my whole life cleaning the mirror

Yeh bhi kaha sahi hai iske liye...iski aankhei to band hain...aur jo dimag hai usse Patralekha ki aarti mei laga detaa hai

P.S.tags k liye editing Karo...Kia IF walo

My review on page 43

Beautiful review. Esp the Ghalib quote. So apt for him.

Horrible lady na. She was scared CN will praise Sai down. They would have actually but she interrupted it.

Don't think we will ever get good scenes now.

When actual Sai V scenes will be there, they will hurry it or spoil with BDs. In Kankavli so many times they used BD s.

That's what I hate about this show.

Originally posted by: Swaydheenta

Wow, lovely plot, yaar❤️

Just love this.

It's so nice that virat (tamil) didn't let his wife go and became undercover cop.

Such tracks are so niceee.

Tamil version is the best of ghum.

We are all cribbing about the episodes so much...

But there was one good thing in the last 3 episodes...

And that was....Virat's blazer

Beautiful colour, design & fit

I want that blazer😭

Originally posted by: Shaome

So everyone is saying that virat lost sai but the biggest question is whether he truly wants sai or would want to keep the perfect family picture with p**..

He will certainly choose Pakhi..

But the question is when will savi's truth are coming out??

Sai definitely doesn't want Virat.. She doesn't deserve this one.. She deserves someone like aaba which was modak..

I don't see SaiRat is end game.. Makers are confusing audience too much.. Anniversary episodes played exactly like the promo.. Papa ko toh had kya mummy ko hai..

Will Sai get her true love and the father she dreamt of for her Savi??

confusion at its best!!

You know at the end it will be only parents left …. There will be no love or anything between anyone.

They will all have to be only parents but how will they explain the kids this situation…. With adoption revelation it sort of helps explaining Savi that V is her father but he chose P.
Reading on all of Ps manipulative tactics … feel After Sai, Savi will be her next target. She will manipulate Savi be nice and show V how much she loves kids irrespective and get in Vs mahanta book.

I just don’t see Sai’s pain ending at all… don’t know why there are no reasons for V to go after Sai. P will ensure Savi stays close… she will even use Vinu for that manipulation.

this is like the banner P is the center point now making everyone and everything revolve around her …. We keep thinking Sai has upper hand with Savi and Vinu as her kids but it’s actually P and her manipulative tactics at the front and center!!! P is looking at Sai to ensure she can play mind games with her with all her natak…. Sai isn’t seeing it all yet.. like old days when Sai caught P she isn’t catching up with P yet.