Originally posted by: Sherry24
I agree with you Moor.
Each of them is behaving as per their respective character. But it is their actions that is frustrating, the situations created that is frustrating. I haven’t watched, but only read about the abuse and humiliation Sai is subjected to.
Chavans are what they are. They need a reason to bash Sai and this is definitely something crucial.
V and P blaming Sai is also to an extent understood because they are parents at the end of the day who are upset that their child is suffering. And Sai is the reason
Sai we know is a selfless and sensitive woman. Mature enough to keep aside her personal grudges. She is pure that ways and will take onus of any mistakes if done intentionally or unintentionally. And here she understands what something she did unintentionally led to Vinu’s heartbreak. She is there for a child. Like you said, Sai has matured. She has always grown faster than her age, die to her circumstances. She is a mother now, and it adds to her character and behaviour now.
Unlike V who hasn’t changed at all.
But it is not about the character, it is what is happening that is problematic. We know Sai is not wrong, but she being wronged repeatedly. And that is concerning. All those who have been accomplice in mistakes and crimes against her are ganging up against her and she is pleading. She is pleading as a mother, a doc, a woman and a genuine human being. But she is pleading to people who are nothing of these and yet standing tall over her. They are just gnawing at this opportunity where Sai is practically at their foot steps. Boosting their shallow egos. They think it is about beating Sai for her attitude and her mistakes. We know the reality it is only for Vinu, but it is about that situation.
Evil winning over good is problematic. And it is triggering.
V,P have physically abused Sai. But they never get their dues. It is Sai suffering throughout and it is frustrating. It is the vicious loop that is irritating.
One of the most triggering and melancholic part of Mahabharata for me is Abhimanyu’s death. This is mythology, but this sequence if you look at is so relatable and so common in real life. And in ghum it is a constant phenomenon. One person surrounded by so many enemies (some even who love her), yet are hell bent on destroying her. That situation is triggering.
I hope I was able to explain myself. I find it difficult at times🙈
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