Pandya Store | Episode Discussion #219 - Page 55

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Not just roaming around~~

Letting her kiss him

Played house with her (fu*king 2 rupee mistress)

Gave his legally not so dead wife's place to her

Did a ramp walk with her

He knew his mother was pushing him into committing adultery against his wife whom he claimed to love and was only divorcing her coz he felt she deserved better, but suddenly he made everything about him... Him roaming with the other woman.. allowing her to question his equation to "not so dead wife" .. allowing his good for nothing mother to insult his better half to boost his male/bruised ego (again the divorve was never about him, but he made it about him)..

I don't get it how is touching a stranger's (male) hand is equivalent to literally roaming around with the other woman/mistress??? How is it?? Arnav didn't kiss Raavi, but Disha did!!! How can you even compare the two equations?? As a woman, i would never ever settle for anything remotely like him!! And same goes for men as well..

How can you even justify his character?? HOW???

Justification is far..i am still not enjoying shivi together without him making any sort of redemption to be with ravi..shiva deserved to loose ravi right after ivf kaand..she should have left him then and there..and he should have had a redemption track and him making efforts to apologise and win her back..none of this happened and since then shiva has been in the gutters for me..sometimes they give glimpse of progression with him appreciating her love, not ignoring her..caring for her..but then right away he will tale a 180° and he will be like ravi kaun?. dobi..and when things get worse..ravi becomes the cunning villain for him...he is not stupid..but his idea of love is very stupid and immature..

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Bold 1) the reaction was of someone being flattered by the kiss!! Normally when an person (other than your spouse) kisses you, then your first reaction should be of disgust, and his reaction was anything, but disgust. Maybe that was the first somebody kissed him, but still it can't be used to justify his reaction coz he was married at the time and also claimed to be in love with Raavi, so it's like very close to cheating that Dishwasher lady..

Bold 2) nothing wrong in finding true love, but he wasn't coz he was finding Raavi's sacha ehsaas for him.. again the divorve was for Raavi, not him (as mentioned by him on countless occasions) I'll say this ~~ he was fooling/spoiling Dishwasher's life coz he was just getting engaged for Suman/his male ego... didn't like her... He doesn't love Raavi unconditionally coz he was hurting her throughout that whole fiasco...

Nothing wrong in filing for divorce and finding love again, but here the entire thing was made about belittling an orphan woman who trusted him and his family..... Shiva and his family's actions can't be justified because Raavi slapped/called him jangli gawar.. it doesn't give him any sorta authority to humiliate her the way his family did...

Being an adult means you take the high road and not do these kinda juvenile thing... What he did was plain juvenile jealous ex bf kinda early 20 stuff... His family was no better... Her throwing Pani ka balti doesn't and will not justify Suman's action of snatching her mangalsutra!! No one can justify that....

Bold 3) no words.

https://twitter.com/PassingCloud__/status/1575404754447974403?t=5xiesKUml2adxp23u88WDQ&s=19

Look at that suffering person post she just hates raavi coz she hates Alice. She tries to brainwash ppl into her pov too lol.

Ok she deleted the post lol but she posted raavi arnav pics and bashed raavi and being an aunty as usual lol like questioning your wife in front of ppl is better than this lol

I don’t know what to call myself as I don’t know what is a true definition of an aunty 😆 as I have seen these type of labels on all sorts!

Is it norm in some cultures that as soon as you are married and have kids, you get automated aunty stamp 😆

Originally posted by: spdp

My fuse went off minute they showed his reaction post kiss!

More how indifferent - non chalang he was facing his wife after that.

Many in this forum - some ogs- were very supportive of him finding ‘true love he desrves’.

I was ambushed for pointing this stealthy cold bloodedness, had said : this are the kind of man who go out for flings & blame on wife: I went out because of you! (FF 1 year & that’s what they okayed out in Anupamaa - Toshu’s infidelity)

There were threads of how happy he was & why what he was doing was valid.
Chalo, thik hai- povs.

but the push against any point you make was crazy. I had lost it then. Was in minority.

Anyways, tt is full of such. They r still saying R is done for them, making arnav videos. sickening . again blinkered flatline reactions.

The way they ruined shivas character for disha track was beyond repair..atleast they shouldnt have shown him having feelings for ravi and make it look as he was sacrificing for ravi..just make them hate each other like just after marrg times..little attraction but no liking phase in between..but then some huge fight due to insecurity and ravis friends..they separate..shiva tries to move on but he realise he has feelings for ravi...and ravi realise she too cant see shiva with another girl..but in all scenarios itbwas clearly very very important for shiva to stop dishu track..it should have been shiva who shpuld have made it clear that disha is not happening in his life..and ravi is the only one he can love..but naa..mahaaan shiva can only jump into kua for the witch in the wheel chair and claim it as his bepannaah pyar for ravi that he saved the ring bought for his engagement with disha..🤡

Originally posted by: manny136

Man they attacked his friend so much for stating his opinion 🤦🏻‍♀️

So basically everyone has to love shiva otherwise you are a hater lol also praising Alice and bashing shiva is not a good combo lol

I just saw the tweet and the responses. He was bang on with his points and explanations.

Originally posted by: Seja1

Fast forward Shweta drama now I am doubting that Chikoo is her son. Why does that guy keep asking Shweta to bring Chikoo I mean? Maybe they both took Chikoo away from someone else’s family.

Who is Chikoo’s mother?

So this be like...mafia of bachaa chors finding bhabhi ma to be the head of their team..

I have so many confusing thoughts on today's episode... Clearly they made this MU because bhabhi needed limlight in ShiVi track, kyunki baaki me jitni mahanta dikhae usse kisi ko ghanta farak nahi padta

1. At the first place yeh MU hoti hi nahi agar Raavi ne Shiva ko msg kardiya hota jab arnav ne poocha tha kisi ko batake aai ho ... She should have immediately msged him!!

2. Why was Shiva shown crying and getting flashbacks..., his wife is with some other guy you doubts instead of finding ways to get to the place he is sitting crying ...I get it he was hurt whatever he saw,but he quickly comes into conclusions... Hotel me he couldn't break the door or was sent out but they should have atleast shown him waiting for them or even making a phone call to Raavi.

3. Wese I always have mixed thoughts to bhabhi interference in ShiVi matters. Sometimes I feel she makes it easier for them because ShiVi lacks communication aur baaki time toh mujhe usse shatit nafrat mehsus hoti hai jab bhi naak ghusati hai.... Even in reunion episode I hated when she met him first but liked the fact that shiva knows what pain Raavi went through when he was missing kyunki Raavi use kabhi nahi batati like what we saw... Same in today's episode, agar Shiva usse room me puchta so she may have ignored his questions and he would have more mu her.

4. Shiva ki timing sach me bahut kharab hai, 2 minute pehle aaya hota toh insab ki zarurat hi nahi padti, Shiva apne aap samaj jaata sab aur uss hacker ki 2 4 haddiyan bhi tod deta. Yaa fir jab woh wapas aaya Raavi should have hugged him tightly as if her life depends on him and then she herself confess how relieved she is.

Opps ese me fir bhabhi mahaan kese banti.

I always wanted a sequence where Shiva trying to woo Raavi... Raavi version dekhliya ab Shiva version ki baari.... Dedo na pilissseeee.... Wese do baar yeh track aaya hai but Raavi badi jaldi pighal jaati hai... Idhar apne ko sakhti se pesh aana hai ;p

Originally posted by: deeps07

So this be like...mafia of bachaa chors finding bhabhi ma to be the head of their team..

Hope his real mother or parents come and save him from all these clowns lol

Originally posted by: VNuts

So, the TRP is 1.7.

Hmm... I don't know how I feel about that. Happy that it fell or sad that it fell only by 0.1.

Hoping for a bigger and better fall next week! 😃

Saare shows ki trp fell 0.1 0.2

Also its sharing sl🤪

Kya hi farak padta hai... Ab toh giregi trp kyunki this was festival week.. also ab se show will come whole week kon dekhega sat aur sun ko

Originally posted by: manny136

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Hope his real mother or parents come and save him from all these clowns lol

Now the only hope lies on chiku to grow up fast and start walking or rather running away from this evil clowns and go to some sane family..