Bappa iske baba se mila do - Page 31

Had he not married popi & wasn't responsible for Sai leaving house, then Virat would have been sympathised with ig. Presently in his blinded anger & rage, the man isn't able to think anything straight. The decision he took is also effecting 4 lives including himself. (popi is invisible for me, so doesn't matter 😂)

The only person who can help him is his own conscience just like the scene in kankauli after the face off. Would be better if they had bought in KJ for him for a change. I have always wanted a convo of KJ with him, where kamal sir tells him where he had gone wrong, how his decisions have affected Sai gravely along with himself. Who better than his guru to show him mirror at sucha crucial point??

Originally posted by: Swaydheenta

Virat can win an award for stupidity when it comes to sai. He goes blind🤣

He has always been like this n will bag all awards for stupidity. But they should show some progress naa

Kuch to baat aage badhe...yeh bas pakhi k sath baatei karke khud pakta hai aur humei bhi pakaata hai

Originally posted by: BhatSisters

Had he not married popi & wasn't responsible for Sai leaving house, then Virat would have been sympathised with ig. Presently in his blinded anger & rage, the man isn't able to think anything straight. The decision he took is also effecting 4 lives including himself. (popi is invisible for me, so doesn't matter 😂)

The only person who can help him is his own conscience just like the scene in kankauli after the face off. Would be better if they had bought in KJ for him for a change. I have always wanted a convo of KJ with him, where kamal sir tells him where he had gone wrong, how his decisions have affected Sai gravely along with himself. Who better than his guru to show him mirror at sucha crucial point??

That's the problem...Virat's advisors are idiots of the same category. Even Sunny isn't there. Kaun bachaa...HIS EVER CRYING AAI N ACHHI DOST OOPS ORGANIC BIWI...n we can see the result.

N yeah..in this track onus is on him

Sai's pain point: That she cannot fulfill her husband's emotional needs. She thinks Virat gets it from Sruthi/pakhi kind of women. She is made to feel immature. That his love for her is only affection and physical. It is scary for a woman.

Virat's pain point: That he is not worthy enough for Sai that she could leave him at any point of time, and be happy still. Even after sharing so much physically. It is a man thing which hurts his self worth.

Leena captured these dynamics beautifully which Vankar comprimises in showing it. They dont have one proper discussion around their intimacy and what they shared. Msin keeps mentioning umpteen times they allude to this in their conversations in KD, especially Rono. And umpteen times Emon tells him he shares everything 'emotional' with other women. That she is not good enough for him to share his thoughts. Here, there is NO conversation. Very shallow potrayal of husband/wife dynamics.

Originally posted by: BhatSisters

Had he not married popi & wasn't responsible for Sai leaving house, then Virat would have been sympathised with ig. Presently in his blinded anger & rage, the man isn't able to think anything straight. The decision he took is also effecting 4 lives including himself. (popi is invisible for me, so doesn't matter 😂)

The only person who can help him is his own conscience just like the scene in kankauli after the face off. Would be better if they had bought in KJ for him for a change. I have always wanted a convo of KJ with him, where kamal sir tells him where he had gone wrong, how his decisions have affected Sai gravely along with himself. Who better than his guru to show him mirror at sucha crucial point??

His problem is miscommunication and that too with Sai.

Ye problem easily resolve ho sakti hai if he listens to Sai quietly and without prejudice and for once understand her fears.

Sab sahi ho jayega... lekin ho gaya to show khatam ho jayega 🤪

I am putting it out in many comments for manifesting it to the universe. 😳

Even after everything resolves in current track... I want a MiMo 2.0 wala V... with kids as cutest cupids

Apne bacchho ki Maa ko properly patao 😉

Just posted a version of this ❤️

You and me were both typing the same thing 🤗

Originally posted by: sadiltl

where?

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Originally posted by: gaurimisha

The only thing in the episode worth remembering was Virakhi unknowingly praying for Savi's papa to Bappa and Savi's scenes.

Filler epi..Virat has clearly lost it..again goes on to hide abt Sai...yaar police officer hi hamesha sach chipate hai...whyyyy?

Learnt nothing from KJ..

Sai was quite formal..Pakhi is now friendzoned.

She's a better friend than wife. Both idiots understand each other really well..

Precap is not understandable since Vinu left already, how come Savi gave him the rose in the same dress...kuch bhi...she couldn't reach on time to say him goodbye. *Don't think*

What is the definition of good friend?

I would say sunny is a good friend. He makes Virat face things that he never thinks about , he gives perspective. He would have told Sai will never let jagtap that close he can’t be the father, he would have Said , you also moved on with Pakhi , how must it feel for Sai to see you with the person cos of which she left. Also, he would have said, from Sai’s PoV she doesn’t know you assumed her to be deaf, she can think that you didn’t care and didn’t reach out .

this is what a friend does. Depends on what kind of friends one prefer. I would like to be called out along with understanding, that is wanting the best for one.

The ball is in Virat’s court. Cos I don’t think Sai will want to get back with him. If sairats endgame.

Originally posted by: Moor278

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Sai's pain point: That she cannot fulfill her husband's emotional needs. She thinks Virat gets it from Sruthi/pakhi kind of women. She is made to feel immature. That his love for her is only affection and physical. It is scary for a woman.

Virat's pain point: That he is not worthy enough for Sai that she could leave him at any point of time, and be happy still. Even after sharing so much physically. It is a man thing which hurts his self worth.

From my pain points comment above and your comments on 'proper' communication...

Sai has to prove to him that she is physically loyal to him and that he is special and ONLY man for her. He will be happy. But will he be able to prove to Sai that he is emotionally loyal to her? Thats where the catch is! He might not sleep with pakhi, but how much emotionally he is involved with Pakhi? How does he prove her that? I dont know. The only way out for him is to show that he is in DUTY mode where his EMOTIONS are not involved.

I dont know how though.

PS: Learnt to capitalize from sway. It helps to make a point :P

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Sai's pain point: That she cannot fulfill her husband's emotional needs. She thinks Virat gets it from Sruthi/pakhi kind of women. She is made to feel immature. That his love for her is only affection and physical. It is scary for a woman.

Virat's pain point: That he is not worthy enough for Sai that she could leave him at any point of time, and be happy still. Even after sharing so much physically. It is a man thing which hurts his self worth.

Leena captured these dynamics beautifully which Vankar comprimises in showing it. They dont have one proper discussion around their intimacy and what they shared. Msin keeps mentioning umpteen times they allude to this in their conversations in KD, especially Rono. And umpteen times Emon tells him he shares everything 'emotional' with other women. That she is not good enough for him to share his thoughts. Here, there is NO conversation. Very shallow potrayal of husband/wife dynamics.

Thanks for tagging me sadhika..

Yes I totally agree with you..

Still I love the old sairat because the chad this rawness ..later vanker failed to capture that in his version.. Now the story is revolving around some tension.. This track might have brought interest but somehow looses that essence..

I believed that SaiRat live the life unlike others for whom it's just a ritual.. Take for example samrat and pakhi, omi and sonali then we have karishma and mohit... They have s** out of ritual but sairat would probably do this because they need each other.. Vanker has failed to capture that after shruti track..

Emon knew that rono was physically attracted to her but she wanted respect... Rono's god complex used to confuse her always.. It's very painful for any woman having to bear such life partner.. Both Emon and sai don't want to listen and don't give time.. That's what drives both rono and virat crazy..

Over here I'm really unable to gauge virat.. 🤢