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You are welcome dear... no issues...

I have been recently doing this job since many of my friends are on the verge of getting married... I am their resident marriage counselor 🤣

Originally posted by: Moor278

You are welcome dear... no issues...

I have been recently doing this job since many of my friends are on the verge of getting married... I am their resident marriage counselor 🤣

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

Your answer is quite similar to mine one. But yeah your answer somewhat has been in my mind for a long time . About meeting the guy 😆🤭🤫🤫.

Couldn't agree more 💯.

Ikr. How did you find out the real reason behind my question😲.

Your advice will surely gonna help 😆 . Thank you so much kusum 🤗.

@bold I am born intelligent🤣🤣

One of my cousin s parents found a guy for her.

But they both decided to meet for a few months and then decide. So later they decided to get married. But they both did most of the wedding arrangements themselves and did not involve their parents much. They opted for an Arya samaj wedding as they didnt want to spend much time and money on a lavish wedding.

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

Wait let me pm you i can't reveal all things here🤣.

merko bhi details chahiye🥺

Originally posted by: SunqianFan

Why ? Any specific reason .

No nothing like that..

Usually most people become settled career wise in their 30's

They would have some life experience ...

So in view of these two reasons, I stated that age

But at the end of the day, it's highly personal

Depends on when a person is ready

Some women may be ready to marry at 21, others may not want to marry until 40...so

Originally posted by: Moor278

I totally agree to this... do get married only when you are ready... not because of some pressure.

Also practically speaking.. I will share something that I did...

I had a criteria about what I want in my partner...

Word of advice.. don't only consider physical aspects... looks change as we age.. so that's very temporary.

But set criteria which is your compromise and no compromise list...

Like I said... one of my criteria was that I will never stop working and no one should question me about my career choices, time I spend away from home and so and so forth. This was my no compromise part.

But then there are somethings like shifting cities, preferences about smoking or drinking, vegetarian etc depending on how you feel about it.

Weigh the prospective guy on these criteria... whether his positives are good enough for you to adjust your list a bit. And go by gut feeling.

Marriages and especially arranged ones are all about finding the balance. It's illogical to expect a person to change everything about themselves just for you. Will you change yourself? If not, then don't expect from others too.

Best luck 😊

About criterion , just check your pm .

About the last paragraph, go just check your pm 😆

. Your advice is in question form ( Q) and i have tried to answer it .

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

merko bhi details chahiye🥺

Originally posted by: Rani_Sahiba

@bold I am born intelligent🤣🤣

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

No nothing like that..

Usually most people become settled career wise in their 30's

They would have some life experience ...

So in view of these two reasons, I stated that age

But at the end of the day, it's highly personal

Depends on when a person is ready

Some women may be ready to marry at 21, others may not want to marry until 40...so

Yes ,this happens a lot. Many of my relatives taunt me for this. That how can you get such a good job. Unko lagta hai meine virat chavan ki tarah cheating kari hai🤣🤣🤣.

Experience matters a lot. That's why asking you such a lovely question😆.

Couldn't agree more 💯 with your last line .