GHKPM WU & Episode daily discussion thread #64 - Page 117

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Conveniently, no one said that Pakhi will not be allowed near Vinu...otherwise how will Sai & Virat have a fight?

When he was talking about not breaking the extended family...to me it seemed like he was implying his family within family - Sai, Virat & Vinu. He wanted to say he did not want our little family to break but was using his extended family as cover due to his ego. I could be wrong.

Hmm, may be. Like we discussed before, before even breaking the family talk arised, there was his trigger when she said she will leave him with Vinu.That is the starting point. If we look 2 episodes back, the first thing he tells KJ after vinu is born is that Sai leaving him. He was not prepared to listen that Sai could leave him, NOW :) So when he was made to feel dispensible, he started to make her feel the same. His sudden priority to the family seemed laughable. Because what Sonali suggested is the right thing to do at that point of time, to live separately. From then, he latched on to that cue about breaking the family and veered the conversation towards it. Internally he was broken that Sai has 'audacity' to leave him after all this! but he covered it up with breaking the family jibe.

Sai's repeated clarification that it is not about the family didnt reach him. So finally, when he made her feel that she is no one in front of his family, Sai also said he failed her as husband and father. But then towards the end, he came to his actual reason. He challenged her to leave him. He was asking her as a husband/lover. She was responding as a mother. See the disconnect?! If she is leaving, then he will not ask for the baby also. In that way, it was always Sai leaving him that caused his outburst, not Vinu living away from the family. For him, if Sai leaves then Vinu's place is with his mother. That is the only good thing he conveyed yesterday :)

Does it make sense? I saw the episode 3-4 times to come up with this analysis.

Originally posted by: Rosyme

Overall the 3 days of fight looked like, he was not happy with Pakhis arrest and Sai finding out the truth.

After bail he feels she has got punishment after being few hrs n jail. He's ok with her handling his son n any way as she gave birth.

He wants Sai to adjust with her again as usual, this time share the baby or something.

As there were no monologues. And BK would have given the child back to Pakhi if she does drama again.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Hmm, may be. Like we discussed before, before even breaking the family talk arised, there was his trigger when she said she will leave him with Vinu.That is the starting point. If we look 2 episodes back, the first thing he tells KJ after vinu is born is that Sai leaving him. He was not prepared to listen that Sai could leave him, NOW :) So when he was made to feel dispensible, he started to make her feel the same. His sudden priority to the family seemed laughable. Because what Sonali suggested is the right thing to do at that point of time, to live separately. From then, he latched on to that cue about breaking the family and veered the conversation towards it. Internally he was broken that Sai has 'audacity' to leave him after all this! but he covered it up with breaking the family jibe.

Sai's repeated clarification that it is not about the family didnt reach him. So finally, when he made her feel that she is no one in front of his family, Sai also said he failed her as husband and father. But then towards the end, he came to his actual reason. He challenged her to leave him. He was asking her as a husband/lover. She was responding as a mother. See the disconnect?! If she is leaving, then he will not ask for the baby also. In that way, it was always Sai leaving him that caused his outburst, not Vinu living away from the family. For him, if Sai leaves then Vinu's place is with his mother. That is the only good thing he conveyed yesterday :)

Does it make sense? I saw the episode 3-4 times to come up with this analysis.

itns toh writers be nshi dsocha hoga, but it doesn't show in the way he treats sai when everything is fine between them. the carelessness and the dismissive attitude. Before confession, sai was not always open about her insecurities but after marriage she has been. Instead of comforting her etc he always makes her feel like she is dumb to assume the worst and takes her for granted always, like ithna nuanced stuff they wanna show, why make him never reflect after all the multiple khands he did, why is it always sai, would you let the person you love cook separately and struggler, when he is always understanding of kaku and pp pov and problems. like there is a disconnect

When his care for a criminal who harmed his love of the life or abused her, is shown more than the wife and her insecurities, its hard to reason or think from his POV, cos kya hi bole

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Not sure how will CN wasis change after this event! BK is solely responsible for this mess. Will she accept it? Followed by Pakhi. I think her punishment is to see them separated finally. She wanted it for so long and finally it happened when she came back to her senses. How will she ride on this guilt? The man she claimed to love is completely destroyed...will not be easy for her...if she has changed really.

May be as a repentence she will bring up Vinu as a caregiver but not mother? That is the only way to show that her intentions are good. Not pursue Virat anymore. We have to see if she reaches his room again! :D

As far as SaiRat are concerned, I dont know what they might be feeling after such a long separation...there will be gaping holes and emptiness in their lives. For sure. If Virat had not accepted her death, he might be on search. Sai even if she has lost memory, might feel that someone will come for her. There was a longing in her eyes in the promo. If she had the memory intact, she might not be waiting.

If you ask me, I was not at all convinced with memory loss before but because it is a realistic scientific possibility that one might forget their identity but still continue living like before, I want her to forget her loss..Virat and Vinu and focus on her job and the kid for some time. However, not remembering the father of the kid might torture her...

Virat will not have peace, ever. I am curious to see how he will cope up. While Vinu will be the reason to keep him going, may be his belief that Sai is still alive will also fuel his days.

My view - BK should accept her faults. Acceptance of her mistakes in ruining her favorite son's life should weigh heavy on her conscience. She should realize that not only chirag, but mother of the kid is also a pillar of a successful life.

Pakhi has to undergo complete redemption. She should not even think about harboring any feelings for virat. Realization shall be he was never mine n is never meant to be. Same for vinu...just raising him.

Even if she gets virat namesake, it won't be the same virat she has craved for. That virat will die with sai's death. She wanted the virat like he was with sai.

Virat idk how will he deal with sai's absence. He will go in his shell most probably n repent for all he did today. That vacuum will haunt him like forever.

Don't know what they will show, but sai needs a break. Her emotions need a refresh. Like restart. Hope this leap brings that to her. Ayesha in the last few episodes has been phenomenal. Hats off!!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Hmm, may be. Like we discussed before, before even breaking the family talk arised, there was his trigger when she said she will leave him with Vinu.That is the starting point. If we look 2 episodes back, the first thing he tells KJ after vinu is born is that Sai leaving him. He was not prepared to listen that Sai could leave him, NOW :) So when he was made to feel dispensible, he started to make her feel the same. His sudden priority to the family seemed laughable. Because what Sonali suggested is the right thing to do at that point of time, to live separately. From then, he latched on to that cue about breaking the family and veered the conversation towards it. Internally he was broken that Sai has 'audacity' to leave him after all this! but he covered it up with breaking the family jibe.

Sai's repeated clarification that it is not about the family didnt reach him. So finally, when he made her feel that she is no one in front of his family, Sai also said he failed her as husband and father. But then towards the end, he came to his actual reason. He challenged her to leave him. He was asking her as a husband/lover. She was responding as a mother. See the disconnect?! If she is leaving, then he will not ask for the baby also. In that way, it was always Sai leaving him that caused his outburst, not Vinu living away from the family. For him, if Sai leaves then Vinu's place is with his mother. That is the only good thing he conveyed yesterday :)

Does it make sense? I saw the episode 3-4 times to come up with this analysis.

Yup...yup

He said..tumne mere parivaar ko apna parivaar kab maana hai..he actually meant when did you consider our marriage as marriage..that's why you are so quick to leave it

Actually Sai didn't read him..she thought he was really talking about his extended family & kept giving explanations for that....not that those explanations did not reach him..he was simply not interested in it..he wanted to hear mere swami, mere praanath.

This guy..after everything he did, he wants her to keep quiet and accept all his idiotic, insensitive decisions

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Yup...yup

He said..tumne mere parivaar ko apna parivaar kab maana hai..he actually meant when did you consider our marriage as marriage..that's why you are so quick to leave it

Actually Sai didn't read him..she thought he was really talking about his extended family & kept giving explanations for that....not that those explanations did not reach him..he was simply not interested in it..he wanted to hear mere swami, mere praanath.

This guy..after everything he did, he wants her to keep quiet and accept all his idiotic, insensitive decisions

He is behaving like..ok if you dont want me, then I dont want you. I have these many reasons to not want you, how many do you have? Then finally, ok forget everything...do you want me or not? 🤣

by that time, Sai is in different zone. How dare he said I dont consider his family as mine!! Or he doesnt consider me as his family...ok then, I will do what is best for my child. husband and his family jaaye bhaad mein. 😃

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Hmm, may be. Like we discussed before, before even breaking the family talk arised, there was his trigger when she said she will leave him with Vinu.That is the starting point. If we look 2 episodes back, the first thing he tells KJ after vinu is born is that Sai leaving him. He was not prepared to listen that Sai could leave him, NOW :) So when he was made to feel dispensible, he started to make her feel the same. His sudden priority to the family seemed laughable. Because what Sonali suggested is the right thing to do at that point of time, to live separately. From then, he latched on to that cue about breaking the family and veered the conversation towards it. Internally he was broken that Sai has 'audacity' to leave him after all this! but he covered it up with breaking the family jibe.

Sai's repeated clarification that it is not about the family didnt reach him. So finally, when he made her feel that she is no one in front of his family, Sai also said he failed her as husband and father. But then towards the end, he came to his actual reason. He challenged her to leave him. He was asking her as a husband/lover. She was responding as a mother. See the disconnect?! If she is leaving, then he will not ask for the baby also. In that way, it was always Sai leaving him that caused his outburst, not Vinu living away from the family. For him, if Sai leaves then Vinu's place is with his mother. That is the only good thing he conveyed yesterday :)

Does it make sense? I saw the episode 3-4 times to come up with this analysis.

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Nagesh kaka ke atrangi shauk😆

Be it P didi ko swarg se laat marna yan aapne bhanje !? (did I mess this up ? 😅) ke chaahti ke baal count karna, Nagesh kaka be on a roll 😎

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Bachon, do you realize that we are using up daily discussion thread like toilet paper? Probably two this month alone?😆

Bacha kon hai yahan par 🤣

He not even in his dreams had imagined sai will leave him after having kid...after that Samrat's dialogue by him he realised that everything gone out of hands...and his last straw was that dialogue where he said...if you want you leave...he didn't thought she will leave...from day1 it was clear he doesn't like to share sai with others even his mother...now when savi comes ...sai will be more attached to her...his insecurity will also rise