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Everything that Dhara has done has been her decision, she is not allowed to play the victim because she isn't. Nothing was ever forced on her, she did everything on her own free will, she can't play the victim now. Yes everything that Krish has done is because of her always defending him and hiding his faults from the world.

Originally posted by: mpks1

Night time at Kandya Niwas

Dhara-Rishita scene

Rishita shows Dhara, the ultrasound pictures.

Dhara tells the baby while looking at the picture that your mother (Rishita) will take good care of you. Dhara becomes emotional (when is she not 😕)

Rishita asks her if everything is ok?, aap toh baby ki dekh kar mujhse bhi zyaada emotional hogaye.

Dhara says, 'itna special moment jo hai' touches Rishita's tummy and hugs her.

Rishita leaves from there.

Ikr, when is Dhara not emotional, the dukhi aathma is always sad. She is never happy. Always crying and making others feel guilty.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

Just watched the episode and I will only focus on the positives first, Raavi didn’t bow down in front of Shiva's anger and didn’t apologize. She admitted that she made a few mistakes a few times but she isn't sorry for what she is doing because other people are benefiting because of it and also because she has found an identity through SM.

Shiva is being ridiculously stubborn for not understanding her POV but he tries to, which is good. He opens her SM and sees what she does all day and also gets mad at the negative comments made about her.

That is all for the Positives because then he takes a full u-turn and goes to his bhabhi for advice 🤬🤬

He asks her for guidance because he doesn't understand if he is wrong or not, wtf. She tells him that she will stop interfering in their lives because in her overconfidence she has only made mistakes. Getting Raavi married to Dev then forcibly getting him and Raavi married, which Shiva doesn't like. She says all that whatever Krish is doing is because of her bad upbringing and Shiva hugs her from behind 🤬🤬🤬🤬, tells her to stop crying and goes out to look for Krish.

He gets mad at Krish for making Dhara feel guilty. Tells him that he is very lucky about never having to do hard labor like the others have. Shiva tells him why he left his education and shows him his back and thr marks on it. He warns Krish that if he treats Dhara like this again then even he doesn't know what he will do.

Well Shiva was, is, and forever remain a bhabhi bhakt. I don't want to focus on that anymore because my mood would go really bad but I will say that Shiva will soon realize whatever Raavi is doing isn't bad.

I loved that Raavi didn't give into Shiva. She was calm and patient about the whole thing, but didn't take much crap from him. She admitted she previously made mistakes (the only one on the show who admits it), but she's learning from it.

Yet to see the other scenes, but to be honest, I'm not sure I want to see the Bhabhi-Devar scene.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

Everything that Dhara has done has been her decision, she is not allowed to play the victim because she isn't. Nothing was ever forced on her, she did everything on her own free will, she can't play the victim now. Yes everything that Krish has done is because of her always defending him and hiding his faults from the world.

That includes marrying Gautam. She was the first one to say yes when Hardik proposed it to both her and Gautam. She just had couple of conditions like Gautam should let her appear for exams the next day and let her complete her studies as she was only 19th at that time.

It was Gautam who was hesitant, after all that chaos Mami and ANita did and his mother was not around, had a tough time making the decision to marry Dhara, but made it anyway because of his brothers and how the 3 of them liked her so much.

So starting from her marriage, not wanting to have kids for all that many years (again she took this decision on her own without consulting Gautam, Mami broke the news to him that something is going on with Dhara as she saw Dhara coming out of OB-GYN's office, and he confronted her)

Now to play victim card after doing so many kaands, it is not even believable😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Night time at Kandya Niwas

Dhara-Rishita scene

Rishita shows Dhara, the ultrasound pictures.

Dhara tells the baby while looking at the picture that your mother (Rishita) will take good care of you. Dhara becomes emotional (when is she not 😕)

Rishita asks her if everything is ok?, aap toh baby ki dekh kar mujhse bhi zyaada emotional hogaye.

Dhara says, 'itna special moment jo hai' touches Rishita's tummy and hugs her.

Rishita leaves from there.

Every time they show Dhara is sad about not having a child, I think it is to make the audience feel for her, but after the way she treated that kidnapped baby, and her "parvarish" of the younger three Pandya namoonas, kisko bura lagega?! 😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Shiva-Raavi scene

Shiva is walking towards Kandya Niwas.

Raavi meets him on the way and says "Shiva mujhe nahi pata thaa tu ghar aa raha hai, mein tere liye tiffin leke aa rahi thi, bol deta toh nahi aati naa"

Shiva is angry, grabs Raavi and takes her to the side of the road.

Raavi asks, "Shiva tu kya kar raha hai, kya hua?"

Shiva says, "tu tiffin laa rahi thi'

Raavi says, 'haan'

Shiva says, "toh tu ye phuntroo haath mei leke (grabs her phone) LIVe chali jaati, Hi friends, mein kitni adarshvadi biwi, mein apne pati ke liye khaana lekar jaa rahi hoon, sabko pata chal hi jaata jhagde kab ho rahe hain"

Raavi says, "Shiva woh tu ne abhi waala LIVE dekh liya? dekh woh kue mei chaabi ghirna na ek accident thaa, pata nahi kaise LIVE on reh gaya"

Shiva says, "dekh jaise bhi gaya, tu LIVE gayi naa, Maa aur Bhabi ki badnaami hui naa. tu ne uss LIVE video pe comments pade? Log kya likh rahe hain? ki budiya naa. iss umar pe Ram naam ki mala jap ni chahiye, ghar grihasti ki chaabi ghoom rahi hai, aur Bhabi ke baare mei kya kya kiha hai bata bhi nahi sakta. aayi badi galti se chali gayi, sach bata, ye LIVE tu ne jaan bhujkar kiya kya?"

Raavi says," dekh Shiva mein tujhse keh rahi hoon na mein apne parivar ka tamasha kabhi bhi banana nahi chaha, tu aise soch bhi kaise sakta hai, ki chan followers ke liye hamare parivar ka tamasha banoongi? tu jaanti hai ki mere liye mere parivar kitne maayne rakta hai"

Shiva cuts her and says, "pata hai, pata hai, pata hai, sab pata hai kitne maayne rakta hai, pata hai, dekha mein ye LIVE video aur woh saare videos bhi is SM site banake rakhi hai, sab udhar ki udhar pade hain, aayi badi maayne rakhta hai"

Raavi says, "toh? galat kya uss mein, ulta meri post ki wajah se sabziwaale bhaiyya, chaat waale bhaiyya customers badd gaye hain, tujhe pata kya hai Shiva, Life mei mri wajah se pehli baar doosron ka bala ho raha hai, toh mein kyun ruk jaaoon. maana hai mujhe ek-dho baar galati hogayi lekin unn galatiyon ko chodkar, mein kisi bhi cheez ke liye sorry nahi hoon" 👏

Shiva says, 'kya boli tu? tu sorry nahi hai, kaise hogayi chipkali tu, ek toh galati"

Gets cut by a guy who comes to them and asks if she is Raavi.

Guy says, "Aap Raavi ho naa, aur yeh appka husband Shiva"

Shiva looks at him.

Guy says, 'sister mein aapko follow karta hoon SM pe, aur meri beti bhi aapke videos bhi like karti hai, sister, ek slefi miliegi"

Shiva says to himself "ek aur SM ka bakra aagaya"

Guy calls Shiva to be in the picture, 'Shiva bhai aap bhi aao naa"

Shiva says, "kyun? mujhe kabhi LIVE dekha tu ne, free fun ka photo doon"

Shiva walks away and the guy takes a selfie with Raavi.

Raavi says, 'thank you Bhaiyya" and runs after Shiva.

Shiva's monologue, "poora time phuntroo leke ghoomti rehati hai"

Raavi catches up to him and says, "Shiva ruk, mein kya karti, woh bhaiyya beech mei aagaya naa, mana karti toh rude lagta hai naa, sunn meri baat, dekh issi individuality ke baare mei baat kar rahi thi, mujhse galati hogayi hai ek dho baar lekin SM ne meri ek choti pehchaan di hai, mera bhi wajood hai, teek hai, chod woh sab, tiffin le le"

Shiva walks away

Raavi goes behind him and says, "arrye mera gussa khaane pe kyun nikaal raha hai"

Shiva says, 'mere peeche mat aa samji"

Raavi says, "kyun, kyun na aaoon, ek toh meri baat samaj nahi raha hai"

Shiva says, "arrey samaj liya jitna samajna YAAR , nahi samaj sakta hoon, dekh mein baad mei samja sakta hoon lekin abhi tu jo kar rahi hai woh mujhe galat lagta hai, samajna nahi hai mereko"

Khud yaar bole toh thik hai

Aur raavi bole toh jaise khoon kar dia hai bacchine

Shiva is outside sitting in the front porch, wanting to find more information on Raavi's SM page.

His monologue, " mein bhi toh dekhoon ye chipkali banati kya hai, smiles and says kya utt patang harkatein karti hai, chal ye phir bhi mast hai, pyaari lag rahi hai chipkali, kya likha hai ye chalan ne (reads comments) shakal toh acchi hai pann gobar ka and stops, reads another one - basement mei itna bussa nahi hai jitna aapke and stops again, gets angry, tereko bataoonga, tere ghar mei jitna bussa hai, ye bakwaas comment padti hi nahi hai kya chipkali, mujhe samaj mei nah aa raha hai issko ghar ke aangan ko Somnath ki mela banane mazaa kyun aa raha hai, kaun hai ye bakwaas log, gadhedi hai bilkul"

Just then he gets a text message from Raavi ,'ghar ke andhar bulaane ko kya collector ki arzi lagwaoon, wait karte karte waiter ban gayi hoon'

Shiva after reading the text, 'yahan mera dimaag ki add rahi hai aur usse comedy sooj rahi hai. iss chipklai ka kuch karna padegaa"

He walks inside the house and goes to wash his face and hands at the well.

Raavi comes there and says, 'dekh agar tu mujhse naraaz hai toh hum baitke baat karte hai na, aise sadke baitne ka kya matlab hai, samajne ki koshish kar baat kar solve karte hai na iss cheez ko'

Shiva says, 'abhi mera doosra kaam bhi hai baad mei baat karte hain' and walks away to Dhara's room 😡🤬

Can Raavi give Shiva silent treatment for few days? She is ready to talk but bailbuddhi doesn't want to and goes straight to BhabiMa's room to talk to her and ask her for help 😡

How long is this going on to go on?

In what way does he think Dhara has solutions for all the relationship problems? Did he forget that this woman called her husband a cheater in front of everyone during Ramleela and Suman also blamed it on her hormones? She later called Gautam, a murderer during the abortion track.

She is ziddi when it comes to getting her things done, we have seen time and again that she has threatened Gautam to get things done after she messes up and Shiva goes to her for relationship advice? Really? 😡

More they do this, more disgust for Dhara they promote.

I can’t tolerate her on screen anymore!
and post Shiva found alive- that roll, hug & all …. I can’t tolerate Dhara standing next to Shiva!

Not even in rwsp.

it plain blows the lid off my mind…

Shiva’s Bhabhi dependence is unhealthy.

Originally posted by: Prizi

hypocrisy

Khud yaar bole toh thik hai

Aur raavi bole toh jaise khoon kar dia hai bacchine

Not only him but Dhara also called Gaumbi yaar and Rishita also called Dev yaar but that is ok apparently according to Shiva. Only Raavi can't call him that.