Trusted the makers too much i think😔 - Page 7

Originally posted by: Param-Sundari

Basically hurt karne ke liye hi use Kiya tha,

Natural human reaction to blame everything and everyone for loss. Even though he knows he blames himself more on the inside, all the flashbacks indicate that.

Originally posted by: wasra

Are haa Sundariji but reading through me blabbering my frustration aap log ko laga hoga ladki pagal ho gai hai🤣🤣

@bold:- i hadn't known this for a while but realised today the one who should not be named was in my trigger list, as soon as the name was uttered i lost it🤣

YKW is always a forbidden category for us 🤣🤣🤣

Honestly i am happy they are gonna address this without him by using the baby. We missed alot due to his sudden resignation and hopefully we will get everything we were robbed of in previous tracks🤞🤞

Imlie mentioning about forced marriage in precap is 🔥🔥

Can i wish for a remarriage track 😒this time with full consent and lots of happy memories 🥺

Originally posted by: Lethamukund

Having a MC is one of the worst experience a would be parents can have. Its heartbreaking. Having such an experience, that too of a similar kind of situation, I can easily relate to Imlie. I fell down, while saving my childhood friend from being hit by a bike (who my hubby believes that he considers me someone special) and had a MC. I went into guilt and depression mode. It was my husband who held my hands and brought me back to life. One thing he told I can never forget about what happened, "the life in front of your eyes is more important than the one you expect to come out and you are just feeling it right now, so what you did was the right thing to do in that time"

You can always have another baby after a MC. Your life or married life never ends just because you had a MC.

Don't get offended please, I am not belittling MC. Its always painful. But no parent would ever do something purposeful to end up in MC. Its an accident. grieve over it, console each other and come out of the grief. A beautiful life awaits you ahead

Yaar kaha se late ho aap log itni maturity no wonder i love IF so much yaha log itne ache hai bhare pade hai ki all negative influence disappears.

Your post is love❤

PS lol i can totally imagine aaj twitter pe konsa war ho raha hoga but mein aaj nhi jane wali udhar🤣

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold:- i hadn't known this for a while but realised today the one who should not be named was in my trigger list, as soon as the name was uttered i lost it🤣

Ykw is trigger for whole fandom just like aryan was trigger to earlier ship fd 🤣

Originally posted by: wasra

@bold:- i thinks that's how they messed up veraji, they wanted to make Aryan diff than Akt matlab there is no way he should fall for Malini's manipulation, ab agar iss raste nhi jaa sakte to doosra rasta kya bacha use AKT but that makes it even worse. If he had been insecure of Imlie choosing/ prioritizing AKT over him matlab all his acts of trust on Imlie turn fake, it looks like was all an act just to make Imlie choose him and show her how he is the better choice. That's even worse, now think abt their confession night scene when she says ab tum zindagi bhar hamari choice rahoge matlab Imlie ke confession ka koi asar nhi hua tha Aryan pe?

Bro isse aacha hota ki Aryan actually heard Malini's words and got blinded by grief. The other probability is too nasty tbh.

@b: 😣😣 gosh!! Kya banadiya yaar ?? AKT ko beech mein Lana is sooo nasty 😤

Originally posted by: novice1

I am sooo very interested in knowing now ki behen Imaliya kaise justify karegi kal her saying that Aryan is to blame for tje loss .. I mean howww.. he atleast had to say u ran when I asked u not to .. wat reason does she hv to blame him …will she insinuate ki G is AKT ki baby , thats why I didn’t trust you with her .. cuz u hate him , hence u were never concerned for his daughter..tum uska khayal rakhte toh mai bhagti nhi , hence no accident, hence no mc 🤷‍♀️ .. I swear if she gives this logic tomorrow 😄

So basically Aryan promised to keep Gudiya with him all the time but he left her unattended due to circumstances created by Malini.

Agar woh use unattended nahi chhodta toh naa stroller roll hokar stairs ki taraf jaata aur naa hi woh bhaagti 😂

Everything is absolute rubbish but we need separation toh whatever 😏

PS stairs se toh imlie aise hi gir sakti thi. It was just an accident and woh toh kabhi aur kahi bhi ho sakta hai 😔

Originally posted by: wasra

Thanks a lot dear, your post gave me a clear insight.

And usse bhi bada thanks to have actually gone through my post and help me understand🤗

You are right the I trust my wife was for physical Fidelity which AKT accused her for. Now that I think abt it after having cooled down the impact of Aryan closing the door of AKT'S room hits well. I was mixing up 2 diff concepts of TRUST in a relationship here. Glad u cleared it for me❤❤

Regarding the choice reference, I am confused what makes Aryan think he still is secondary for Imlie after having her confession🤔 Was her reassurance not enough?

I think assurance must be given through gestures for sometime I guess. Saying it once just kind of clears the doubt but complete assurance takes time to build. You have to nurture it like a sapling till it becomes a tree. Looking at the kind of obsession Imlie showed for AKT, she should have been more involved in Aryan for him to totally come out of his "maybe I am second" thought. I didn't mean physically but emotionally.

Originally posted by: Wilddreams

YKW is always a forbidden category for us 🤣🤣🤣

Honestly i am happy they are gonna address this without him by using the baby. We missed alot due to his sudden resignation and hopefully we will get everything we were robbed of in previous tracks🤞🤞

Imlie mentioning about forced marriage in precap is 🔥🔥

Can i wish for a remarriage track 😒this time with full consent and lots of happy memories 🥺

But Neelu I have a doubt. Aryan ne minimum 3 baar maafi maangi woh bhi dil se. Phir se usko use karna lash out karne ke liye, isnt that also wrong?? But no, Aryan deserves it 😈 I'm very mad, so mujhe itu sa bhi taras nahi aatha uspe😡

@b: Neelu apki muh mein dahi shakkar 😭😭 I hope this actually happens

Na hote hue bhi gareeb patrakar khel Gaya Neelu, kya yaar Aryan 🥺🥺😡😒

I have to wait to watch the episode but I am glad to read your update wasra. yes glad. because they are finally back to showing aryan as a human being and not some romeo whose sole job is to support and give his juliet hugs. that is not the type of drama I have interest in watching. that is a 1.5-3 hour movie which ends. if we want a daily drama with character progression, then the character need to act like they are human. they need to have insecurities, anger, fear and express them. they need to have negatives reactions, flaws and times where they reject their loved ones. they have to hurt and break those around them -- that is real. that makes the drama more interesting.

at the orphanage, aryan said he can't order her to back away because it will make him look selfish. he wasn't on board with her plan but he didn't feel comfortable saying don't do this. even if he did, he knew that imlie would proceed ahead anyway. this was a marriage where imlie was steaming ahead of her own choices and his only option was to follow her. he couldn't voice out his frustrations good or bad, his fears good or bad or his concerns good or bad. that is a problem.

so I strongly agree with those already who have written that aryan is human -- obviously he will hurt and say the wrong things from time to time. it is not a destruction of his core -- it means he is changing just like all of us because that is part of being a human. we are not stagnant and we change and react based on circumstances.

have said this before in another post but right from the start, there was problems with optics when it comes to her obsession with gudiya. it was not relatable because the two sisters hate each other. so then any character is bound to think if this has got to do aditya. but this drama is weird that no one is allowed to confront imlie because they will end up apologizing. so even though you can tell others are uncomfortable such as narmada, no one opens their mouth and voices their feelings. instead, it takes a crisis for them to open up. that to me is rather dysfunctional. I was waiting for the ball to drop and I am glad to read it is happening.

if we are to see a mature story where the characters learn and grow, these conflicts need to occur. blind faith and support is bizarre -- that is just toxic and just leads to stunted characterization as well as relationships. so I think it is very healthy that they are finally willing to show that aryan is a normal human being who hurts and who can say mean stuff when in pain.

going forward, what I would like to see is accountablility of characters especially imlie. let her say sorry. let her get whacked. let her get questioned. let her change and grow. I would also like to see story arcs for all the side characters and have them shine as well.

Originally posted by: wasra

Thanks a lot dear, your post gave me a clear insight.

And usse bhi bada thanks to have actually gone through my post and help me understand🤗

You are right the I trust my wife was for physical Fidelity which AKT accused her for. Now that I think abt it after having cooled down the impact of Aryan closing the door of AKT'S room hits well. I was mixing up 2 diff concepts of TRUST in a relationship here. Glad u cleared it for me❤❤

Regarding the choice reference, I am confused what makes Aryan think he still is secondary for Imlie after having her confession🤔 Was her reassurance not enough?

Awww, you are welcome! ☺️ So happy that you think my post makes some sense.

I was at first taken aback by his accusation today too and wanted to slap Aryan. It took me a minute to realise what is going on here.

Bold - I think she never really cleared up that she chose HIM over AKT - that even with AKT living in Delhi and not living it up with Kangaroos, she would choose Aryan and only Aryan. This is why they needed to have an open conversation after she came back after Purandas affair was done with. But they didn't. I don't think it's Imlie's fault since Aryan had always put up such a confident facade - she probably thought he knew since he can usually read her so well. I think Aryan had even fooled himself into thinking that Imlie's feelings for AKT didn't matter anymore. Then she confessed her feelings to him but they still didn't talk about the past. She probably should have but who brings up their embarrassing ex when hot hubby is about to sex you up? But now Gudiya has happened and Imlie went nuts trying to save her and the past reared it's ugly head.