Aik Sitam Aur(Thread 6) Usama Khan, Anmol Baloch ( ARY Digital ) - Page 111

Huzaifa is asking for an appreciation because he has agreed to waste his life with Sadaf. 😆

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

I completely agree on this. it depends on how some people take it. It is not only Shehroz and Ushna, even i say a lot of hurtful things to my own people in anger. And i have listened the same. The point is in dramas , ws expect the characters to be too ideal but when we notice, we do realise ,they are nothing but our own reflections. I say a lot of things in anger but i never meant them from heart. They are all temporary. That is why I asked Priya about whether she thinks shehroz and Ushna only cross limits when angry , normally they are fine.

I have seen men around me all kinds of and they do cross lines when it comes to with their words at times but in actions they are all cool. Sometimes, people dont even know whar they are saying ,they just say it when things start to go out of their control to hurt the other person without realising that words cant be taken back and can even destroy relationships. So choosing words wisely is very much needed.

Wow that’s sad hun - sorry you are around that.

I guess my life is very different to you all as I have seen men in my life angry but they are very much in control and have never ever been disrespectful or rude or say mean things. It’s more focus on the topic rather than personal things.

When I am angry I get extremely quiet as I don’t want to engage when I am angry. That is how my dad is where my mum just bangs pots and pans and my husband does gardening and I know he is very very angry. Then he will come and say can we talk and his voice will go high but then I would laugh or he will smile and all good.

Maybe that could be one reason I don’t understand these mean words a man uses. Even Romeo when annoyed isn’t angry as such he is stupid and both Rs aren’t that bad either. But both Ushna and Shehroz do say rude things but recently it’s Shehroz who is acing as Mr meanie 😂😂

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

Huzaifa is asking for an appreciation because he has agreed to waste his life with Sadaf. 😆

I love huzaifa he is the funniest and best 😂😂😂

Give the man a pat on the shoulder 😂😂

Originally posted by: Renee.Clare

But dont you think that Ushna at least listens to others like Naima but Shehroz does not understand others except his mom. So that is where , Ushna learns and grows and Shehroz does not. Usko agar Zainab samjhaye , he takes it otherwise, Wahab samjhaye , same.

Ushna listened to Naima because at that time Naima and ushna had that kind of equation and she came to Naima only when zainab ended up in the hospital if i am not wrong. She wasnt getting out of the room till zainab ended up in the hospital and had full plan of leaving zainab.

Here shehroze don't have anyone that can give him their pov. He isn't close enough to zainab and wahab is more manipulated by Naima than shehroze 😆

I wish we get a scene where there's no jelousy between Ushna and Sadaf. A deep conversation between cousins. Ushna should tell her that she was getting attracted towards outer personality while she has faced the wrath of his inner demon. She's lucky to get a comedy man Huzaifa, while Shehroz was not easy to deal. There was a time she wasn't even able to eat one time meal with peace. So whatever shines is not gold. Never compromise with your inner peace and self respect.

They could have given more Sadaf and Huzaifa, but they were just interested to force wrinkled and pimple face Romeo without 'A' of acting.

I think you are again mixing the issues. I am not talking about trust - he can trust his mother that’s nothing new. You brought the topic and I responded. My point is what he says. I cannot ever forgive him for that. When Ushna gets to that level she will be in my shit list too but right now she hasn’t.

Shehroz can do gossip session with his mother he likes doing that and he can do whatever I still don’t like him and to me he is dead. I am only watching it until I can handle it otherwise this show is utter garbage. It is sitam Allright and they had good leads whom they ruined for what, I don’t know.

Shehroz is not in love he thinks he is but he isn’t same way Romeo isn’t love or Sadaf isn’t in love. None of those three know what love is and they have a definite picture of love and they think it is love. He said you are everything to me and he treats her like this, wonder what he would have if he wasn’t in love? Oh we know he would have kicked her out.

He is allowed to do a lot and he does but doesn’t mean I have to like it. I mean if we compare him to Romeo he is best but against an Arsh like you said he sucks. Everyone is better when you compare them to hitler so I wouldn’t put any weight on that.

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

I wish we get a scene where there's no jelousy between Ushna and Sadaf. A deep conversation between cousins. Ushna should tell her that she was getting attracted towards outer personality while she has faced the wrath of his inner demon. She's lucky to get a comedy man Huzaifa, while Shehroz was not easy to deal. There was a time she wasn't even able to eat one time meal with peace. So whatever shines is not gold. Never compromise with your inner peace and self respect.

They could have given more Sadaf and Huzaifa, but they were just interested to force wrinkled and pimple face Romeo without 'A' of acting.

This 👏👏👏👏👏 I love it - never compromise your inner peace and self respect 👏👏👏👏👏👏

Maybe she should give Shehroz to Sadaf and let her see grass isn’t green on the other side 😂😂

She is very lucky to get huzaifa and her uncle as her in laws. She should thank her lucky starts that she is getting a funny man who although useless isn’t a prick and a nasty mumma’s boy who can’t control his temper when he is angry 😂😂

Before I used to fast forward Romeo and family scenes and now I fast forward Shehroz and his family scenes 😂😂😂

Never thought would say this but I can’t be bothered watching the leads anymore. Maybe stick with Huzaifa only he at least makes me laugh 😂😂

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

We are comparing apple and orange if we judge Zainab- Ushna same as Shehroz-Naima. Ushna is not someone who would trust someone blindly that she would shut down her working brain cells, not even Zainab. She would never take Zainab's side when it's not required. She didn't speak anything when Naima-Zainab got into argument on Sufiyan after attack on Shehroz. It was not required. At this point, she saw that 3 of them have ganged up against Zainab and they were trying to bully her for a piece of jewellery. They did not even think to give her benefit of doubt as a family member. There's a reason Shehroz and Naima's relation is like unhealthy while other is just mother and daughter. Ushna doesn't carry Zainab as handbag. Zainab can manipulate Ushna, but she'll not get manipulated beyond a point. Mother-daughter have liberty to ask cross questions to each other, it's not blind worshipping. The relationship between Shehroz-Naima is like hukum dena, Naima is acting like crazy Nagin when Shehroz refuse to take her order for the first time..

Other issues clearly visible in that home are - Inequality and favouritism. It's like my mom should be worshipped because I'm man and your mom should be thrown in a corner because your are woman. Most filthy mentality. The inauguration thing was blown out of proportion when she had given a valid reason of not going. Shehroz had cancelled important meeting when Naima was sitting on hunger strike, he would have faced loss at that time as well, but it was not thrown on Naima's face even once. But Ushna is getting the reminder again and again when she has given a valid reason. That's because Naima is favourite and Ushna is not.

Ushna needs to raise her voice loudly because to act like a mute Gopi bahu would cost her a lot and Zainab shouldn't even try to shut her mouth. No sane person would give option to choose between mother and husband and that too when his obsession with his mother has crossed every limit of suffocation. I wish Ushna had got a chance to choose Zainab, but Nagin Naima would not give that chance, she's too excited to commit suicide.

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Great post and agree with every word!!! It is comparing apples vs oranges when one love is suffocating and unhealthy beyond limit and other is a normal mother daughter relationship.

You are absolutely right when he left an important meeting at the risk of facing loss over his mother was okay but her not attending an inauguration which was important to him over her mother is not? That shows his mindset and how even though he claims to be in “love” it’s very conditional. You put me first I treat you like a Queen but if you don’t then you are not worth it. That’s yuckkk mentality.

Originally posted by: CoffeeCake

We are comparing apple and orange if we judge Zainab- Ushna same as Shehroz-Naima. Ushna is not someone who would trust someone blindly that she would shut down her working brain cells, not even Zainab. She would never take Zainab's side when it's not required. She didn't speak anything when Naima-Zainab got into argument on Sufiyan after attack on Shehroz. It was not required. At this point, she saw that 3 of them have ganged up against Zainab and they were trying to bully her for a piece of jewellery. They did not even think to give her benefit of doubt as a family member. There's a reason Shehroz and Naima's relation is like unhealthy while other is just mother and daughter. Ushna doesn't carry Zainab as handbag. Zainab can manipulate Ushna, but she'll not get manipulated beyond a point. Mother-daughter have liberty to ask cross questions to each other, it's not blind worshipping. The relationship between Shehroz-Naima is like hukum dena, Naima is acting like crazy Nagin when Shehroz refuse to take her order for the first time..

Other issues clearly visible in that home are - Inequality and favouritism. It's like my mom should be worshipped because I'm man and your mom should be thrown in a corner because your are woman. Most filthy mentality. The inauguration thing was blown out of proportion when she had given a valid reason of not going. Shehroz had cancelled important meeting when Naima was sitting on hunger strike, he would have faced loss at that time as well, but it was not thrown on Naima's face even once. But Ushna is getting the reminder again and again when she has given a valid reason. That's because Naima is favourite and Ushna is not.

Ushna needs to raise her voice loudly because to act like a mute Gopi bahu would cost her a lot and Zainab shouldn't even try to shut her mouth. No sane person would give option to choose between mother and husband and that too when his obsession with his mother has crossed every limit of suffocation. I wish Ushna had got a chance to choose Zainab, but Nagin Naima would not give that chance, she's too excited to commit suicide.

Ushna did trust zainab blindly in the jewellery thing when the entire evidence was against her. She didn't had a valid reason to back up except the fact that she knows zainab is not capable of doing something like that. It's the same for shehroze as well. He truly believes his mother is not capable of manipulation and playing games that too with his feelings.

Ushna kept quite in the sufiyan matter because she herself had her doubts on sufiyan. It wasn't about trusting zainab at that point. It was about sufiyan.

As someone already said, it wasn't about ushna taking care of zainab but ignoring shehroze. That's what his problem was. If ushna called him up and said she won't be able to make it. Things would have been different. The makers made a huge blunder by showing that her phone was with her in zainab's room. The phone has been ringing multiple times right beside the bed and both ushna and zainab didn't notice that. Its perfectly fine for anyone to not believe that ushna didn't see the calls at all. It was quite ignorant of ushna the same way she forgot to block sufiyan. Ushna can be extremely ignorant at times. She also went running into muktar house after sufi creepy's suicide attempt without informing zainab which ended up making zainab feel insulted in front of wahab and Naima the same way shehroze felt insulted in front of everyone.

Was shehroze over reacting? Yes but was ushna completely in the right? No.